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When I was young, I was surrounded by two female colleagues who were very clever and provocative.
They learned a lot from them all kinds of methods and attitudes, and they themselves were willing to teach me.
It is the kind of girl who looks mediocre, the original family conditions are general or even deviated, but the thief can drill the camp.
In the wingman section of the dog food class, there is a part that I learned from these two girls.
Let's revisit their story for you:
Someone asked if the girls who were hooked up were all because they were pretty?
In fact, because some people think so, I will tell you about a riot operation.
I have a female friend who is also a fitness instructor, and I am not a place to work.
Her figure is the kind of a cup with a vest line, and she looks very ordinary.
It was not easy to soak the indigenous male god of Wenqing temperament into his hand.
But the male god is relatively cold, and even her hands do not hold her much, and she belongs to the state of unilaterally kneeling and licking the male god.
Then this girl bought my colleague on a date, the 8-pack abs kind of shoulder-width waist slim leg long grandfather.
The male appearance is similar to that of the male god, and the figure is a big cut off the male god.
So the male colleague ran to talk to her for WeChat, saying that she was in good shape and looked very advanced.
She hid behind the male god with a shy face and said that she hated it, but people have boyfriends.
The colleague watched her and the male god leave with a disappointed face, and then naturally invited to dinner the next day.
As a result, once the competition mechanism is opened, the male god who originally felt that this girl's mediocre appearance suddenly opened up, knowing that his girlfriend's figure is easy to be targeted by the same high-quality men.
Suddenly began to be interested in this girl, and, inexplicably possessive.
They are now in a good relationship, and the children are in kindergarten.
I still remember this girl patting me on the head at dinner and saying, When you have a boyfriend, even if you hire someone, you have to create a sense of competition that is in short supply, so that he will value you.
Some girls are particularly stupid, why do you eat his vinegar? Men eating your vinegar is the right thing to do.
And she was meticulous, specially calling extras who were not a circle to come to the scene, even if the male god saw her colleagues, she could not wear help.
After all, that's my colleague...
The same operation also has a plain-looking single girl, often anonymously sending flowers to herself to send light luxury, and then in the circle of friends to dry flowers to say who sent it! Come out! I'm a single dog who is going to be misunderstood for having a boyfriend!
Later she married a man who would really give her luxuries...
The two people have similar academic qualifications and appearance, and the man is two grades richer than her. Feelings are good and harmonious.
She said she was happy to find someone her age who was two notches richer than her.
Maybe it's just the tip of the iceberg of her ability to seduce people, but it can't be done.
As for what I know... I bought that bag for her when I was traveling...
She also borrowed perfumes from others to send me to the circle of friends...
She also bought several informed wingmen like me at the same time, and said to the fish in her fish pond that this is a good girl, don't miss it when you walk by.
Thank you to all the girls around me who are so scheming...
amen!
And, in addition, I think they can climb smoothly, and a core weight is that their emotional intelligence is very good. The comfort of getting along is brushed up.
They all look ordinary, but the more they get along, the more they think they are cute.
When I was young, they both hated me and said that you actually went on a blind date, how much can you marry on a blind date! Take advantage of the young to drill the camp, how to climb a good value or money!
Now that I think about it, I still think that this little sister is really tmd wise.
Presumably her male god thought: Sleeping groove? Could it be that I don't know the goods?
They learned how to market packaging without a teacher.
In fact, there are many people who can do this trick, and many people can see through it.
But some people will inexplicably want to fight.
Those who like to fight and fight, they still eat this set.
To put it bluntly, there are some inexplicable brands, isn't it also so fried.
Where can it be good.
But someone bought it.
People just want to take down the people who buy it.
But that's not the point.
I was still young, and the blind dates were almost as they said, and the conditions were quite hupiao.
Old fans who are familiar with me also know that the blind date experience was not so pleasant, because everyone was walking on thin ice. If they want to take root in Shanghai, both families must give a large amount of money to buy a house in Shanghai.
Therefore, since these two girls' original families are not as good as my family, they are willing to work hard to drill camps instead of simply working hard, because they know that their mother's family will not help, and even drag their feet.
Therefore, we must firmly grasp a person who can take root in Shanghai.
So that's why they patted me on the head and said, what a good thing you can do on a blind date.
In their view of mate selection, the subtext is: I am a twenty-two or three-year-old high-paid young girl, why waste time with a man who has no house?
That is to say, the value of the indigenous demolition of the second generation is far greater than the high salary of the Qingbei Fujiao factory in the field in their eyes.
If we were fitness coaches back then, if we were in a better store, we would not be eliminated, and we would be willing to sell classes and take classes, in fact, the income was OK, at least it would not lose
Programmers of the same age.
So after they have won a relatively high salary for themselves, of course, they must find a man who is worthy of their family and salary.
That's when I felt the urgency. I know that girls who may not have my good conditions are working harder than me in choosing a mate.
Because both of them told me one thing:
Honey, we are young and highly paid, this is by the consumption of time, in a few years we are not young, if we maintain this salary, but it will not be as dazzling as the current background.
In a few years, now with a man who can sit at a blind date table with you, with a little money in his hand, he may be looking for a younger but you will earn money without you.
So our goal now is to go straight to a man who is a little older than us, has a little bit of money on his hands, and wants to find a young girl.
Yes, we are not tianxian looks, but we are still young and have a decent income.
So this young and high-paying stage is our golden period of mate selection, and we have to pick.
Our competitors may be indigenous girls who have not yet realized the magnitude of the problem.
When we've finished picking out the men who belonged to them, they're left.
I remember when I was twenty-two or three years old, when I first heard this assertion, my whole brain exploded.
Staring at the dog.
Really, these two girls came from ordinary families in the rural urban-rural interface, and one of the girls had several sisters and a younger brother in her family.
Reading may not be the right sports major, casually read what college or even secondary school to Shanghai to beg for life, from doing sales to being a coach, how much suffering before pressing the table.
Their emphasis on the urgency of mate selection is something you can't imagine.
Because if they can't stay in the big city and can't marry the people in the city, they may have to be exchanged by their parents for a dowry as a birth machine for legal surrogacy.
To say something unseemly, their way, in the end, is that the material conditions can be very good, people are also very honest and willing to pay, but there are more or less shortcomings in emotional intelligence, and even a little strange people.
Anyway, I think the first girl's Wenqing temperament indigenous boyfriend with multiple suites at home is quite strange. I personally may have reached the top of his three dates, this man is engaged in scientific research, and indeed belongs to the fourth type of person in my potential stock template: professional.
The family situation is indeed OK, and the personal ability is not bad, but this person has always lived in his own world.
Even if you live in your own world, you are still very angry, often talking with a gun and a stick, waiting to argue with people and win.
I can't stand this kind of person, and the better-condition indigenous girls really can't stand it.
But in terms of conditions, he originally belonged to an indigenous girl with the same conditions and good ability as him, but a little lonely in personality.
I even think it's because they have bugs that they're left behind and picked up.
But these two people are really willing to spend money.
After marriage, these two young sisters, one was invested by her husband in a convenience store, and the other had her own studio.
You don't have to work for anyone.
After all, their husband's low emotional intelligence has also been beaten in the blind date market, and suddenly met a girl who is so fresh and vulgar, willing to follow him, very interesting and gentle, and extremely comfortable to get along with, do you guess they are willing to let go?
So before they become the older leftover men who are picky about each other with the older leftover women who are the same as the door, it is also a good home for the foreign girls who are not as good as them but are full of emotional intelligence.
The feeling these two young ladies gave me was that I couldn't even eat at the moment, that my needs were to cross classes, and that I was going from a cheap fertility machine at the junction of rural and urban areas to a hostess of a big city.
The dowry they saved up at that time was at least 300,000 yuan smaller inside and out, and they took the dowry as a bride price and told their parents that they were not despised.
As for the husband's side, it is obvious that the house is worth more than the dowry of three or five hundred thousand.
All the houses have been named.
The foundation I saved for myself before marriage was brought to my husband's house. The husband's family will not feel that these out-of-town girls are dime-ahead, empty gloves house.
On the contrary, there will be more admiration; working so hard at a young age, the income is not low and there are savings, and it is a good girl to live a life.
A piece of money on both sides of the coaxing, and finally successfully separated from the original family, how to recognize the father and mother how to cry and scold, it is impossible to take out this kind of hard-earned money to the brother to marry the daughter-in-law.
To tell the truth, at that time, I didn't think I could meet my husband and like someone so much.
Therefore, I think that my ability to cultivate this aspect is also necessary, and I have to always have one for emotional money.
Anyway, I don't like men very much, so find the richest and most willing to spend money.
So when I was on the road to choosing a mate, I met such a girl who sharpened her head and wanted to marry up, and I also met a big beautiful woman who wanted to marry a rich man, and I also met many strong women who were very good in their own conditions, very capable, and had more opportunities to contact men with different conditions.
I have summarized their different paths, which are suitable for me and which are not suitable for me.
But getting along is really a lesson.
These women who are mixed up and can finally realize their ideas are women who know what they want, are willing to pay, and are very strong and determined to have ideas and execution.
If, for the sake of money, I would even coax the most reclusive and tricky man to do tricks, in case I met a boy I really liked, these tricks made him, he would not be flattered to death?
I think one of the biggest advantages of my youth is probably that I am like a sponge.
I don't judge other people's values.
As long as this person doesn't hurt me and has mutual benefits with me, we can be friends.
I'm just willing to listen to her and learn her strengths, and see what her way I can use.
Everyone should have the same attitude towards the dog food class I wrote.
Are we aligned in purpose?
After the general direction is right, how to fine-tune the details?
And in their vision, I may also be a silly white sweet sister who is willing to be honest and relative, and who is worried about her heart.
For me, what the school does not teach, meet a good teacher, and do not hurry to hold the thigh.