Spring is here, and it's another season of pampering.
In 2022, single little sisters can't stop taking off their singles in addition to making money.
Without further ado, go straight to the dry goods and let you be one step ahead on the road to pick up the man!
First, the Zeignick effect
People are born with a beginning and an end.
It's like it's easy to forget the work they've done and think of things they haven't done or haven't done well.
This is also why it is difficult for most people to forget their first love, and some people can't forget the unclear ex.
So when we meet a boy, whether it is a chance encounter or a blind date, a date, if you want him to forget you, you must create an illusion that "there will be a story later".
When chatting, say more "next time...", let him feel that he still has a chance;
When chatting in the evening, try not to say goodnight so that there is still a chat in the morning.
Come so many times, you are the girl in the eyes of boys, with a future.
Second, the dark effect
With a favorite boy, the darker the place to date, the better.
Scientists at the University of Toronto in Canada and Northwestern University in the United States have proved through experiments that in places with relatively dark light, the two parties to the date cannot see each other's expressions, and it is easy to reduce the sense of alertness and generate a sense of security.
And this trick is universal to men and women.
This is why haunted houses, movie theaters and other places have become dating spots.
And in such an environment, occasional physical contact can also make people think about it.
Similarly, in a dim environment, the success rate of confession is also higher.
Of course, in the environment of the bar or bungee, I do not recommend taking the boy of your choice.
Places full of hormones, always lack a little sincerity.
Third, the Hawthorne effect
Psychological effects should be used skillfully.
In the face of some strange handsome guys, we always want to know how to leave some good impression on each other.
It's not hard.
For example, Harvard University proposed the Hawthorne effect.
This psychological effect originally refers to the psychology that when people realize that they are being paid attention to or observed, they will deliberately change some behaviors or verbal expressions.
When a handsome guy looks at you, do you have to pay attention to grooming?
So no matter in any social situation, if you and your favorite little brother have looked at each other, you can stroke or tidy up your hair after looking at him, which will give him a kind of illusion that you notice his illusion, and you are also transmitting a signal.
But if the little brother is brave, your love may be on the way.
There are many small skills in love, any emotional problems can be asked backstage, quickly master more knowledge ~