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Sometimes, love is like a cough, which cannot be disguised in any way. The man who truly loves you, even if you don't say it, he will prove his sincerity to you with his own practical actions; and the man who only wants to make a scene, even if you ask for everything, he will be indifferent.
Men treat you as a temporary lover, or the only lover, not to see what he says, but to see what he does. True love has always been hidden in actions, not in sweet words.
For men, liking and true love are two very different kinds of existence.
If a man can treat you this way, then instead of simply liking you, he treats you as a lover in this life. For in His heart you are special, important, and irreplaceable.
One: it will not disappear for no reason, giving you full peace of mind and security
The man who truly loves you will always consider your feelings, care about your feelings, whether you are together or not, he will keep in touch with you, even if he is busy, he will reply to your messages. Because he is afraid that you will think too much, he just wants to give you enough peace of mind and security to let you feel his love.
In such a relationship, you will never suffer from gain or loss, because you are sure that he loves you 100% and you have a reason to trust him.
Qi Qi and her boyfriend have been in love for ten years, and her friend asked her, has she shaken this relationship? Qi Qi shook her head firmly, and she said:
"Where he is every day, what he does, I probably know. No matter what time, he always picks up my phone first. ”
"Won't he complain that you bother him?"
"No, because if he can't answer the phone, he will tell me in advance, and the reason will be very clear, usually at this time, I will not call him, and no matter how anxious I am, I will only send him a message, and then wait for him to reply to me."
Only men who want to be involved in every important moment of your life will give you the privilege of being able to find him at any time, do you?
And those who don't love you are just the opposite, he really cares only about the moment, just wants to play with you, so you will not be sad, will you think more, he does not care.
Two: Make decisions with you in everything and give you full love and respect
We often say a word called machismo, and for women, if you meet a machismo man, it may be somewhat unfortunate.
Because men with the trait of machismo have the most obvious characteristics: all matters big and small must be decided by the man, and the wife has no right to decide, to speak, or even to know.
In fact, we are not so much a manifestation of machismo as it is a manifestation of a man's lack of love for a woman, because true love must involve respect and trust.
Truly love a woman, men will love her in their hearts, respect her, no matter how big or small always have to discuss with women, even if they know that a person makes a decision, it is no problem, but he knows that after you are together, many things are not his own affairs, but things that the two of you have to face together.
So as small as buying things, as big as making investments, he will give women the right to make decisions.
In the final analysis, it is also because the proportion of women in his heart is relatively large, so when he thinks of many things, he will involuntarily think of her, and he also wants to discuss with her and make ideas together.
The person who truly loves you will necessarily respect you and will certainly put you in an equal position with him.
In a way, to love someone is to respect a person. Because you will appreciate him from the bottom of your heart, you will not feel superior, you will not deny, suppress or look down on the other person.
Only equality can bring true love, otherwise it is deformed and false.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "True love is gentle and firm, it will not give you a face of gain and loss." ”
If a woman meets a man who can give you anytime to contact him, give you all his passwords, spoil you, and let you make decisions with him, be nice to him, because he really loves you, and in this relationship, you will get clear and firm love.
I also hope that every woman can get these privileges around the person she loves.
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