I have met many children, on the surface of which they have all kinds of problems, interpersonal barriers, parent-child relationship conflicts, inferiority complex sensitivity... A large part of the reason for these problems is the weak language expression ability.
Children 0-6 years old is a critical period of language development, especially 0-2 years old time is particularly important, if in this period parents can use scientific methods to cultivate children's language ability, then children will have excellent language expression skills when they grow up.
Children can express their true thoughts well, can communicate effectively with others, and the child's chance of psychological problems will be reduced.
To cultivate children's language expression ability, parents must seize the critical period of children's language expression ability, that is, the period before the age of 2, and before the age of 2, it can be divided into two stages.
Stage 1: 0-9 months
Babies at this time can't yet say complete words, but they have begun to learn languages. Parents should always speak to the baby, sing to him, even if the child can only make a vague and meaningless voice, but also to respond positively to the child, to create a healthy language environment for the child.
The second stage: 9-13 months
This is the baby's "vocabulary explosion period", the baby can already make some meaningful sounds, such as the vague "mom, dad", parents must respond positively to the child when they hear this voice, and can constantly repeat it to guide the child to speak more clearly.
Connect the things that the child is interested in with language learning, such as the child is very interested in the cat at home, the parent can point to it and repeat the word "cat" to the child, and the interest will make the child's memory of the vocabulary more deeply.
If the child misses the critical period before the age of two, parents can also cultivate their children's language skills by telling their children bedtime stories, and parents telling stories to their children will also enhance the attachment between parents and children.
When the child reaches the age of 3-6, the parents must begin to consciously develop his written language ability. During this period, parents should communicate more with their children, and children's language will only be developed in use, so it is necessary to let children participate in family dialogue, and observing and learning on the side is not of much benefit to children's language development.
Parents try not to let the child premature contact with electronic products, the existence of electronic products will squeeze the time for children to communicate with people, take the child to play with the same age, play communication can exercise the child's language expression ability.
Children around the age of 3 can already say some vocabulary or short sentences, in order to further exercise the child's language expression ability, parents can take their children to read books, read some interesting picture books, and cultivate children's reading ability.
Children's language expression ability and reading ability are not innate, which requires parental guidance and help, more communication with children, encourage them to express more, parents can harvest a clear and fluent child.