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Some people when they get married, never thought of two people to do a marriage test, but also married, and did not care so much about the marriage test, and even some felt that the marriage test is to check whether the other party is sick, the other is nothing, so slowly most people when they get married, they do not have this awareness to do the marriage test, and they also feel that there is no need, it is a waste of money, but if you do not do the marriage test, you will not find some things about each other, resulting in the final appearance of bad things, making you regret it. Let's take a look at the following story.
Mr. Zhang is 35 years old
I have been married to my wife for four years, in these four years, the relationship between the two of us is very good, she is also good to me, and I am also very good to his wife, we have never quarreled, just like this, but what makes me very strange is that I have been married to my wife for four years, but neither of us has a child, and my wife's belly has never grown, which makes me very strange.
I and my wife are introduced to my friend, when I first met her, I liked her, I think she looks very beautiful, very gentle, I like such a person, but what surprised me is that she also likes me, and when I get along with her, she tells me that she can do anything, as long as I am good to her, I still hear girls say such things for the first time, people say that marriage is a big thing, sloppy, there should be a ceremony, the bride price house is necessary, However, she didn't want anything, and she really surprised me, and I thought she was a good girl.
So the two of us were together, after we were together, she was really a good wife and mother, she supported me in everything I did, and never complained to me, let me give her gifts, or buy anything, she never asked me for these, but often made some delicious things for me, took it to my company to give me food, and also made more to my colleagues, my colleagues praised me for finding a good girlfriend, I heard people praise me so much, I was very happy in my heart, and I was very happy.
I was thinking of waiting for me to make more money and marry her, but in the second year that the two of us were together, she wanted to get married, and I also heard the girl propose for the first time, and I also wanted to do it for two years to get married, so that I wouldn't let her suffer with me, but now she wants to get married, then I'm a big man, anyway, sooner or later both of them are going to get married, if so, then get married early, so that we are really husband and wife, I can enjoy her well.
Although she said that she did not want any bride price, but in order to give her a sense of security, so I gave 80,000 bride price to her parents, so that her parents in front of outsiders, will not feel ashamed, I think there are some things, should be given or to give, otherwise it is also disrespectful to the woman, my parents do not allow me to do this, although I do not have any money now, but I will take good care of her in the future, do not let her be wronged.
Then the two of us got married, and after we got married, I went back to work, and she did what she liked at home, and I never asked her what she would do, how hard to work for the family, I didn't say anything, but she did whatever she wanted, I wouldn't say her.
And my work is relatively busy, often need to go out on business trips, some times, but also travel for half a month to go home once, and when my wife is free, she will also go to where I stay with me for a while, but I did not think about the child, if it were not for my mother to remind me, I forgot, I have been married to her for so long, there are no children, which makes me feel very strange.
Later I thought it was my problem, I also went to go to the examination, I also took a lot of medicine, but also conditioned for a long time, but I did not see what ah, is not my problem ah, the wife is still bad ah, looking at my friends around me, people later than I married have two people, I am more itchy, and then I really can't help it, I went to the hospital with my wife, I want to see what is the problem, has not been able to conceive a child, but also really strange, if there is a real situation, if there is a situation, After all, if there is really any problem, it must be treated in time, otherwise the longer it drags on, it is not good.
However, when we went to the gynecologist for consultation, people asked us whether we had to do a marriage examination before getting married, we did not do a marriage examination, we did not understand, we never heard of such a thing as a marriage examination, but the doctor said to me: If two people do not do a marriage examination to get married, if something happens, then it is not good, the marriage examination has an important project, is to conduct a comprehensive examination of the bodies of two people who will be married, a comprehensive physical examination, The purpose is to check whether the two people have disease problems, and once they are found to be inappropriate, they can also avoid marriage, so that they are good for both of them and are responsible for both.
And if you do a marriage test, you can also check out, if the genes of the two people are combined, will there be some bad genes, such as: "malformations" and some congenital defects and diseases, so before marriage, you must do a marriage test, only in this way is responsible for yourself.
After listening to the doctor's words, I was stunned, I never knew that if two people had different blood, such a thing would happen, and it was really terrible to think, and then I quickly asked the doctor to help the two of us do the examination, I wanted to quickly see whose problem it was, but after doing a series of tests, we waited outside for the results.
Later when the report was made, the wife did not come in when she went to the toilet outside, I did not wait for her, I directly took the report to the doctor, the doctor looked at it for a long time, I couldn't help but ask him, so this time, the doctor spoke, she said: "Your wife's infusion hose is blocked, all blocked, and so want the child, but this is not a big problem, as long as the later treatment will pass, then you can have a child, but you are too irresponsible, before there was a child, since you beat it, Moreover, the uncleanness of the Qing Palace has made it more difficult to conceive a child.
When I heard the doctor say that the infusion hose obstruction is treated, my whole person is relaxed, as long as there is a birth, but when the doctor told me that when my wife beat a child, I couldn't accept it, we have been married for so many years, it is too late to want children, so it will be beaten, I also asked the doctor if it is wrong, we have always wanted the child to come, it is impossible to beat it.
However, the doctor took the head as a guarantee, my wife did abortion a few years ago, when I heard this information, I was not good at all, I couldn't think of it, my wife was such a person, since before I was with me, I had a child, no wonder she didn't want anything when she married me, it turned out to be so, I regretted it.
Finally I questioned my wife, she thought about it for a while, and then told me the truth of the matter, before she was with me, she had a boyfriend, and the two lived together for three years, but she accidentally had a child, but the man knew that she had it, he broke up with her, she was sad, she beat the child off, and then she was with me, she didn't expect things to be so serious, so she also felt sorry for me.
I can't accept, such a fact, I don't like unclean women, but also with other people have children, this is what I can't accept, so I directly proposed a divorce with her, I don't want to be with such a woman, I really regret it, I knew it was like this, I should have gone to her to do the marriage test, otherwise there wouldn't be so many things, really regret.
summary
No matter who it is, I think there will be no man to accept, his wife and other men have children, in exchange for who will divorce, this is simply a fraudulent behavior, so before getting married, to do a marriage test, this is the most important, but also not to be underestimated, related to the future of the two.