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During the Republic of China period, there were many women who arranged marriages, but they were abandoned by their husbands shortly after marriage, and even on the day of marriage. Such was the case with Guo Moruo's original wife, Zhang Qionghua, who lost her husband on the night of her marriage and then spent 68 years in his hometown. In this life, Zhang Qionghua has only seen Guo Moruo three times, and he did not go home to see her, and he was childless and lonely at home all his life. There is also a woman in the Republic of China, who is of good character but abandoned by her husband, but is liked by her in-laws, and finally gains fame and fortune.
She is the original wife of the famous poet Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi, who married Xu Zhimo at the age of 15. After entering the Xu family, she was deeply loved by her in-laws, who behaved demurely, kindly and virtuously, and they felt that their son had great blessings to be able to marry such a virtuous wife. But Xu Zhimo was the opposite of them, he felt that Zhang Youyi was just a village girl, did not like her, and soon after marrying her, he went to Japan alone to study. Except for Xu Zhimo, everyone in the Xu family and the Zhang family liked her very much, and when they found that Xu Zhimo did not have a good feeling for her, they all helped her pursue happiness.
Zhang Youyi's brother asked Xu Zhimo to live with her, and her in-laws also supported Zhang Youyi after Xu Zhimo cheated. Zhang Youyi has a different maturity from her peers since she was a child, and she will definitely think about something again and again, and will not make an easy decision. When she met Xu Zhimo's lover Lu Xiaoman, she once said such a sentence: "I am a person who has suffered since childhood, so I am silent and do not understand the style, not an attractive woman." Zhang Youyi's personality, for now, I don't know how many people dream of a wife, but it just can't get into Xu Zhimo's eyes.
Later, Xu Zhimo asked for a divorce from her, and then he married Lu Xiaoman, and Zhang Youyi went abroad to study with the support of her former in-laws, Xu Zhimo's parents did not like Lu Xiaoman, did not accept her, and did not give them anything as a couple. On the contrary, she sent a lot of money to Zhang Youyi, who studied in the United States every month, and after she returned to China after her studies, her in-laws preferred to give her inheritance to her son Xu Zhimo. So she started a company, did business, and became an entrepreneur with the knowledge she had learned throughout her life and the support of her family.
Compared with her, Lu Xiaoman only got a short-lived love, but the price she paid was ten times more desolate than that of Zhang Youyi, who was abandoned. After Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo, her in-laws not only did not accept her, but also lived with Zhang Youyi for a long time, and even gave the Xu family's inheritance to Zhang Youyi. After Xu Zhimo's death, Zhang Youyi directly took care of all the family's business, had a filial son, and married a doctor in his later years, with fame and fortune. Although Zhang Youyi did not get the ideal love, she relied on her own ability to get everything except love, which is also a blessing in misfortune.
Zhang Youyi has the kindness and virtuousness of a traditional woman, and she is also a strong person, even if she is abandoned by Xu Zhimo, she still does not make a big fuss, but makes herself a more powerful person. In our real life, there are many strong women like Zhang Youyi, who can be financially independent for their marital happiness, and even after being abandoned, they can live a better life.
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