Wen | snow fell without dust
Everyone hopes that their love can be kept for life, but feelings often need fate, not all love can go to the end, many lovers walk in the feelings and disperse.
However, love is easy to break, but memory is difficult to break. Those loves that have been infiltrated in each other's hearts and years will always appear in front of your eyes from time to time.
However, people will always be accustomed to hiding their pain and showing their strength to others. But you have deceived the whole world, but you cannot deceive your own heart. No matter how much you cover up, your heart is always wandering.
So, how long does it take to forget someone you have loved? The answer was unexpected.
01
Love a little and forget it in a few days
Feelings that just move the heart, if the other party does not accept, usually will be forgotten in a short period of time. When you meet someone else, you will like it the same way.
My friend Xiaojin is 29 years old and doesn't have a girlfriend yet. At the company's annual meeting, he met a new female colleague and fell in love with someone.
However, when he later confessed to the other party, he learned that the original family already had a boyfriend, and Xiao Jin was very embarrassed.
We all thought that Xiaojin would be hit, but unexpectedly, a month later, Xiaojin led his new girlfriend to drink coffee in the café next to the company.
It turned out that Xiao Jin's girlfriend was introduced to her by the female colleague.
The other party thinks that Xiaojin has a good personality, and it just so happens that there is a cousin and Xiaojin who have similar conditions and are of the same age. So, she introduced her cousin to Xiao Jin, and she didn't expect it to be.
Only love a little affection, forget it quickly. Because, you and he have not been in contact, and neither of you has stayed in each other's mind for too long. Most of them are passers-by who have no part in it, just rub shoulders.
Such feelings, each of us will encounter in the journey of life. If it happens that he likes you too, it succeeds. If the other party doesn't like you, stop abruptly.
This is both respect for the other party and the most decent way to deal with emotional problems, which is good for people and themselves.
02
Love a few more points, it takes a while to forget
Liu Yifei and Song Chengxian became lovers when they filmed "The Third Kind of Love" because of the drama.
Liu Yifei is known as the "Fairy Sister", Song Chengxian is because of the filming of "Blue Life and Death Love" and became popular "male god", the two men and women look very good, very matched.
After announcing the relationship, many netizens have sent blessings, and the relationship between the two people has been very good.
However, Song Chengxian and Liu Yifei still failed to go to the end, and the love was only talked about for two and a half years, and the news of the breakup broke.
As for the reason why the two broke up, there are many theories, such as a difference of ten years, long-distance love, transnational love... In short, it is difficult for the relationship between two people to last.
Nowadays, two people live peacefully with each other, without disturbing each other or interfering with each other, perhaps this relationship has long been relieved in each other's hearts.
Two people who have truly loved, no matter what the reason can not continue to love, do not mean that forgetting can be forgotten, it takes time to let go.
It is a kind of luck to love and get it, and it is also a kind of inevitable result to love and not to have it. For love and can not, we are more to enlighten ourselves, so that we do not sink into the past love.
Because, the wounded in love tend to love the more loving party. And relatively less loving, because he doesn't care about you, so he doesn't think too much, and of course he doesn't give and hurt.
For love, if the other party does not love, then turn around and find your true love. I believe that if you have such a thought, after a while you will forget him and then have a more deserving happiness.
When you meet him again, you are completely relieved, and all that remains is a blessing to each other.
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Loved so much that it will last a lifetime
Some feelings, unforgettable, even if forced to let go, will still be difficult to forget. Even if you hide it in your heart and let the years pass, the heart of love remains unchanged.
There are three men in the life of Lu Xiaoman, a talented woman in the Republic of China, all of whom have deep affection for her.
The first is Wang Geng, a soldier, who loves Lu Xiaoman's beauty; the second is the poet Xu Zhimo, who loves Lu Xiaoman's talent; the third is the doctor Weng Ruiwu, who really loves Lu Xiaoman.
Because when Lu Xiaoman knew Weng Ruiwu, he was close to old age, his beauty was no longer there, and he was sick. It was Weng Ruiwu who healed her illness and provided for her life.
After Lu Xiaoman met Xu Zhimo, he divorced Wang Geng. However, unfortunately, after living with Xu Zhimo for several years, Xu Zhimo unfortunately fell into a difficult situation.
Later, because of his physical discomfort, he met Weng Ruiwu, and Weng Ruiwu fell in love with Lu Xiaoman at first sight. Even though he had a family, he still took out a part of the money to provide Lu Xiaoman's life.
When Weng Ruiwu was dying, he still couldn't let go of Lu Xiaoman in his heart, so he asked his daughter Weng Xiangguang to take care of Lu Xiaoman. Weng Xiangguang took care of Lu Xiaoman until her death.
Deep feelings are the most difficult to forget, and may not be forgotten in a lifetime. At some point in your life, you can always remember him, and his every move will be deeply imprinted in your memory.
There is a saying in Buddhism called "reincarnation," which means that people who are related in this life are transferred to this life to repay because they have unfinished feelings in the previous life. Maybe your deep affection is to return the unfinished fate of the past life.
Therefore, since you can't forget it, bury it in your heart and accompany yourself to grow. Maybe many years later, when you look back on the past, you will find that it is actually very beautiful.
04
If you don't connect again, how long will it take to forget the person you love?
Maybe soon, maybe for a lifetime.
Life is a journey, there are encounters and misses, learn to let go of today's sorrows, there will be tomorrow's happiness. The same is true in feelings, only if you let go, you will accept new feelings.
Whether it is a man or a woman, whether you are experiencing love or lost love, you must learn to cherish it in your feelings. To respect each other when we love each other, and to let go generously when we don't love, is what can be afforded and put down in feelings.
People's life, the emphasis is on change, too indulgent in the past, will make you ignore the beauty in front of you. And if the present is not good, the future is just as bad.
Therefore, for the love that is not loved, we must abandon the past and look forward, so that there will be beauty and surprises and unexpected encounters with you.