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The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

What is history: it is the echo of the past to the future, the reflection of the future on the past. - Hugo

In 1965, "a scenery that Must Be Seen in Peiping" disappeared permanently, and as a famous goddess of the Republic of China, Lu Xiaoman passed away in regret. Her funeral was bleak and rudimentary, and even her ashes were scattered and disappeared. And this generation of beauties who moved the Republic of China did not walk peacefully, because her last wish before her death was not fulfilled.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

In 1926, Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo married, but the two did not have a long sweet time, and in 1931, Xu Zhimo died of a plane crash. After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman was very depressed, although she mentioned the spirit of compiling books for Xu Zhimo and also opened a painting exhibition to enter the art association, but she has been missing Xu Zhimo.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

In the spring of 1965, Lu Xiaoman's girlfriend Zhao Qingge went to the hospital to see Lu Xiaoman, who was very skinny and did not even have a few teeth, and what was even more sad was that not many people went to visit her, except for Zhao Qingge. To see a seriously ill person, Zhao Qingge was sad, especially since she had already sensed that she was not far from death. At this time, Lu Xiaoman looked at Zhao Qingge and issued a begging look, she hoped that she could be buried with Xu Zhimo after she died, but the only one who could help her was Zhao Qingge.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

Since Zhao Qingge was not part of Xu's family, if he wanted them to be buried together, he could only go to Xu Zhimo's family and ask for their consent. However, the Xu family fiercely opposed, especially Xu Zhimo's son's attitude was very clear, and they even put forward three major reasons, which left Zhao Qingge speechless, and he also regretted that he could not fulfill Lu Xiaoman's last wish. So what is the reason for the Xu family?

The first reason is that they do not agree with Lu Xiaoman's identity. Before they married in 1926, the couple had their own marital relationships, which meant that they both cheated on each other. And Xu Zhimo's wife, Zhang Youyi, has made great contributions to the Xu family and done her best for them, and they are not willing to recognize the couple at all. When the two got married, they also withstood great pressure and were even reprimanded by Liang Qichao on the spot.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

After Xu Zhimo's death, although Lu Xiaoman was depressed for a while, he had already lived with Weng Ruiwu in 1938, although the two had never been married, but in the xu family's view, this was also a big reason why Lu Xiaoman could not become the daughter-in-law of the Xu family, not to mention, Weng Ruiwu also had a wife, and for their family, it was simply humiliating to have such a daughter-in-law.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

Secondly, xu Zhimo's death has a great relationship with Lu Xiaoman. Xu Zhimo is a well-known poet, and although the fee earned is not enough to make him a rich man, he can also support his family. However, Lu Xiaoman's previous marriage was already extravagant, and when he reached another marriage, he was not willing to be diligent and thrifty at all, and could only let Xu Zhimo go out regularly to make money.

And because of money, the two often quarrel, causing Xu Zhimo to run away in a negative mood, but Xu Zhimo, who can't make ends meet, is still thinking about this family, he can't be as extravagant as Lu Xiaoman, and can only take a free plane in order to save money. It was because of this that he crashed and died.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

In addition, after Lu Xiaoman arrived at the Xu family, he did not make any contributions to the Xu family at all, including serving the elderly and giving birth to children. On the contrary, after Xu Zhimo's death, the Xu family forgave her for not having a job and gave her 300 yuan of support every month, until she lived with Weng Ruiwu and cut off the money.

In fact, although Lu Xiaoman is considered to be a major landscape of the Republic of China and is very talented, her love with Xu Zhimo is not worthy of our praise, because they have caused the suffering of others. Even if Xu Zhimo did not die young, after the passion, due to the difference in the lifestyle of the two, if Lu Xiaoman did not change, the marriage would still be difficult to maintain.

The goddess Lu Xiaoman's dying wish: she wanted to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo, but was rejected by the Xu family for three reasons

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