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"Her eyes are also talking, and the light of her eyes is swinging, the secret of the fountain of the heart."
Xu Zhimo
Describe her this way; "Lu Xiaoman is a landscape that must be seen. ”
Hu shi
Commenting on her: "Lu Xiaoman is a Promethean who shook the Chinese literary and artistic circles in the 1920s. ”
Uddhav
Also impressed by her talent. What kind of woman can receive so much praise from talents?
Presumably, when her name is mentioned, everyone is not unfamiliar: she is one of the four beauties of the Republic of China
Lu Xiaoman
。 When it comes to the four beauties of the Republic of China, everyone will naturally think of Lin Huiyin, who is both talented and beautiful, Ruan Lingyu, the "silent film star", and Zhou Xuan, who is known as the "golden voice". And Lu Xiaoman was once praised as
"Queen of The Campus"
It seems that this woman is born with a unique light that attracts the attention of the world.
Famous and prestigious, Man man extraordinary
"Campus Queen" Lu Xiaoman not only has the beauty of the world, but also is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and naturally gained the admiration of many talents of the Republic of China. Lu Xiaoman was born in Shanghai to a relatively wealthy family, and has been affected since childhood
Modern education
, exposed to the idea of modernization. Such an enlightened and free education made Lu Xiaoman abandon the arrogance and ignorance of feudal women, but instead had a unique charm of modern women. It is precisely because of this family background that it also profoundly affects the life of Landing Xiaoman.
Painting and calligraphy, talent is emerging
In 1918, at the age of 15, Lu Xiaoman entered the Beijing Sacred Heart Academy, which was widely known in society at that time
Mingyuan Girls' School
Many celebrities come from this school. At that time, only famous and prestigious people had the opportunity to enter the girls' school, and there were strict quota controls. In the same year, his father also hired a British female teacher for Lu Xiaoman to teach English for him, which also made Lu Xiaoman
Deeply influenced by Western culture and thought
that
Open and avant-garde
The idea of modernization is deeply engraved in Lu Xiaoman's bones and has laid a good foundation in English.
Two years later, Lu Xiaoman was a famous diplomat with his solid English skills and good temperament and thoughts
Gu Weijun
Hired as a diplomatic translator, her fame has spread throughout the social world ever since. In addition, Lu Xiaoman once studied under He Tianjian, Chen Banding and other social masters.
I can draw a good picture
She also has a deep writing background and a unique language aesthetic,
Write a good article
He also showed a unique talent in the art of opera. This talented and beautiful woman has also attracted the admiration and pursuit of countless talents.
It is precisely for this reason that Lu Xiaoman is also surrounded by suitors, and her emotional experience has also been commented on and criticized by posterity.
Arranged marriages, breaking free from tradition
First of all, her first husband
Wang Geng
Like many arranged marriages at that time, Lu Xiaoman, who was only 19 years old, was married to Wang Geng on the orders of his parents. Wang Geng can also be regarded as a famous family born, and he was famous at that time
Senior officer
In this marriage, Lu Xiaoman did not harvest the happiness and happiness he imagined. As the saying goes, a marriage without a relationship foundation is ultimately difficult to maintain. After consuming enthusiasm in a short period of time, coupled with Wang Geng's indifferent attitude towards her, this all stimulated Lu Xiaoman's heart.
Wang Geng was just like most people
Focus only on work and the future
When Lu Xiaoman wanted to play, he even said, "I don't have time, ask Shima to play with you." Such an indifferent attitude undoubtedly broke Lu Xiaoman's heart, and the marriage that barely lasted for three years finally broke up unhappily. When we stand in Lu Xiaoman's point of view today, such a choice is undoubtedly correct and wise, after all, feelings are the foundation of marriage, and ending an emotionless marriage is not a kind of liberation for each other?
Talented and beautiful, harvest true knowledge
The next is her and Xu Zhimo's widely circulated emotional experience, which is complicated and has also suffered from the world's discussion. At this time, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman had just divorced, and the two wanted to get married
Break through the resistance.
I think how much courage they had to muster at that time to finally come together despite the criticism of the crowd. Presumably, this is also the true love of two people that allows each other to overcome all difficulties and finally come together.
Speaking of Xu Zhimo, I think everyone is no stranger, this talented man with excellent poetry and talent relies on one
"Goodbye Kangqiao"
And at home and abroad widely renowned. This romantic, freedom-loving young man, deeply influenced by Western culture, deeply attracted Lu Xiaoman with his unique charm. Perhaps it is precisely because of their similar experiences and ideological concepts that the two appreciate each other, attract each other, and quickly come together.
Since ancient times, the talent is matched with a beautiful person, but the two have also suffered criticism from everyone. One is a social celebrity, the other is a well-known talent, both of them were born in the Demenwang family, and the two of them have turned their backs on their previous marriages and come together, which is even more fascinating
Talk
。 In the end, the two were married by Liang Qichao as witnesses and held a grand wedding in Beijing. The two often wrote poems together,
Xu Zhimo also wrote "Love Eyebrow Xiaozha" for her
It records the daily life of the two and also expresses his full love for Lu Xiaoman.
Lu Xiaoman also wrote poems for Xu Zhimo's paintings
Maybe that's what love just looks like.
The loss of true love, the rest of your life
We can probably imagine how sad Lu Xiaoman accepted such a fact after Xu Zhimo's plane crash later. Even her friend Yu Dafu found it difficult to describe, and at one point she insisted on going to Shandong to retrieve Xu Zhimo's body. In the end, Xu Zhimo left only one relic, that is, a long scroll of landscape paintings made by Lu Xiaoman. Later also personally
Wrote a link for Xu Zhimo
He wrote a preface to his works "Cloud Tour" and "AiMei Xiaozha", and sorted out "Shima's Diary" and "Xiaoman's Diary".
She said in her letter to Shima Banglian: "How many past dust has become a nightmare, five years of mourning, hurrying and eternal tips, the heavenly path of revival, wanting to die has not been because of the mother and old; don't hate who to say, a sad illness, a faint soul, the human world should soon be, the posthumous editor will answer the king's heart." Xu Zhimo's sudden death struck Xiao Man deeply, and since then she has also become ill because of her deep grief, and she has endured the social discourse alone. She misses Xu Zhimo and is committed to sorting out Xu Zhimo's last works, silently expressing her love and nostalgia for Xu Zhimo with actions.
The back body sinks, and life rises and falls
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman gradually withdrew from the social circle and his body became weaker and weaker. And then again
I contracted fainting
Because of Weng Ruiwu's sake, she went
Stained with opium
。 At first, opium was only used to relieve physical pain, but it became more and more difficult to control. she
Living with Weng Ruiwu
It is a fact, but Weng Ruiwu is already a husband with a wife at this time, and such an act is inevitably inappropriate. At that time, many of Lu Xiaoman's friends, including Hu Shi, did not approve of such a relationship and asked her to break off relations with Weng Ruiwu, but due to various reasons, Lu Xiaoman still politely refused the request to break off diplomatic relations.
Lu Xiaoman's life can also be regarded as ups and downs, and he has gained many admirers because of his talent and beauty; As a result, it has been controversial by the world.
Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other
In this life, I have been deeply in love with a person, laughing for him, because of his sadness, it is also worth it. Perhaps it is only because of a sad heart that smoking opium to live a life has left people with a bland image.