The Republic of China is an era in which old and new ideas alternate. After the May Fourth Movement, people's pursuit of scientific democracy has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and unprecedented changes have also taken place in education; people have pursued equal rights to education for men and women, and women have gone to school to learn knowledge like men, abandoned the backward thinking that "women without talent is morality," and attached importance to cultivating people's independent personality.
At that time, under the influence of this advanced thinking, a considerable number of parents, both boys and girls, sent to school to learn knowledge, and even more sent their children to study abroad, so in just thirty-seven years of the Republic of China, a large number of literati and inkers emerged, including many beautiful people with wisdom and beauty, and Lu Xiaoman was the beneficiary of the liberation of new ideas.
Lu Xiaoman was a teenager who won the zhi, and then married Xu Zhimo after the flash marriage and divorce, and ate the hardships of life!
Her family is prominent, she came from an extraordinary background, became a translator for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs at the age of 17, and at the age of 18, she was already famous in Beijing, and was praised by Hu Shi as "Lu Xiaoman is a scenery that Beijing city has to see", and she is so beautiful and elegant, but the love road is bumpy and difficult.
By chance, Lu Xiaoman's father met a young talent, he is Wang Geng, who has both ability and political integrity, he is a high-achieving student graduated from Tsinghua University, who went to the United States to study in the same year after graduation, and was a classmate of the later US President Eisenhower, and this resume is simply the elite of the elite.
Lu Xiaoman's father thought to himself, this is not the dragon-riding son-in-law he has been looking for, he can't wait to take care of the wedding affairs, Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng only took a month from acquaintance to marriage, which is a typical flash marriage. But the good times were short-lived.
Wang Geng is a military man, although mild-mannered, but uninteresting, is a typical workaholic. Naturally, he could not satisfy Lu Xiaoman's delicate and rich emotions, which made her feel lonely, but after meeting Xu Zhimo, everything changed.
Soon the two came together in love, lu Xiaoman confessed his feelings for Xu Zhimo to his parents for love, and proposed a divorce to her husband Wang Geng, and finally after his friend Liu Haili moved his feelings for Wang Geng, Xiao Zhi's persuasion, Wang Geng took the initiative to agree to the divorce to complete Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman.
Lu Xiaoman was finally able to be with Xu Zhimo in a justifiable way, but the marriage between the two was not as smooth as expected, and Xu Zhimo's parents did not look up to Lu Xiaoman at all, and felt that their son should marry a virtuous and virtuous girl.
It was really pitiful for the parents of the world, and finally the second elder compromised the marriage of the two, but the cost was self-care, and Xu Zhimo, who was eager to ask for his wife, could not think so much, so he directly agreed, and on the day of the wedding, Xu Zhimo's parents did not attend the wedding on the grounds of illness.
The life of the newlywed Yan'er is really warm, the meal that cannot be eaten is pushed to Shima, and the in-laws who are deeply influenced by the feudal etiquette are very unaccustomed to it, and directly run away from home. The two had to move to Shanghai, and were cut off from their source of livelihood, so Xu Zhimo had to go to many schools to teach, and in his spare time, he also wrote to earn writing fees.
Xu Zhimo died in a plane crash, Lu Xiaoman never married, but lived with her boyfriend doctor for 30 years
At that time, the per capita salary was 5 oceans, Xu Zhimo could earn hundreds of oceans a year, and he was already a high-paid class, but this was far from catching up with Lu Xiaoman's profligacy, which made his life miserable, but he had to take responsibility.
In order to earn more living expenses, he was invited by Hu Shi to teach at a school in Beijing. Xu Zhimo began to travel between Beijing and Shanghai, without Xu Zhimo's company Of Lu Xiaoman, she began to be lonely again, when a man broke into Lu Xiaoman's life.
Lu Xiaoman has asthma and stomach pain for many years, Xu Zhimo has sought medical treatment everywhere without results, after the recommendation of friends, they found the famous doctor Weng Ruiwu, Weng Ruiwu as long as a massage, Lu Xiaoman's pain will be removed.
Weng Ruiwu is not only good at medical skills, but also good at calligraphy and painting, poetry, drama, and Lu Xiaoman can be described as like-minded, so Lu Xiaoman is more and more dependent on Weng Ruiwu, in order to alleviate Lu Xiaoman's pain, Weng Ruiwu actually suggested that Lu Xiaoman smoke opium, Xu Zhimo was even angry and had a big fight with Lu Xiaoman.
On November 19, 1931, Xu Zhimo flew to Beiping on the postal flight "Jinan", when suddenly the fog filled the air, the plane lost its direction and crashed into Kaishan, and Xu Zhimo was killed on the spot. That year Xu Zhimo was 35 years old, Lu Xiaoman was 29 years old, and Lu Xiaoman completely lost the company of Xu Zhimo, and all his life fantasies were also shattered.
Lu Xiaoman saw a painting in Xu Zhimo's relics, this painting was created by Lu Xiaoman himself, there are inscriptions of celebrities on it, the reason why I brought this painting with me was to go to Beijing to find someone to give Xiaoman an inscription, because the picture scroll was placed in an iron box, so it was completely preserved.
Lu Xiaoman looked at this painting with mixed feelings and tears, and she remembered xu Zhimo's good deeds before he died, but people could not be resurrected after death. Since then, the outside world has equated the red face with her, but he has never defended. She began to wake up, no longer going out all day in bustling places, and sorted out Xu Zhimo's poetry collection in simple clothes.
But Lu Xiaoman was not completely lonely, she still had the company of Weng Ruiwu, who was a husband with a wife, and everyone advised her to leave him for the sake of fame, but she did not heed the advice, because she needed such a person to accompany her all day.
Weng Ruiwu is the kind of character who is happy in time, which Lu Xiaoman's personality is very similar, so when there is no money, Weng Ruiwu sells the ancestral family property, but the two will never quarrel about this. Later, Lu Xiaoman never married, and spent 30 years with Weng Ruiwu in a cohabitation relationship!
In his later years, Lu Xiaoman was old and decayed and was split legs, and her boyfriend was indifferent to death
Years are really a pig-killing knife, and God will not let anyone be spared from it! Lu Xiaoman, 50 years old, is already a half-old Xu Niang, without the style of the year, due to long-term opium smoking, he has long been skinny and skinny.
It really responded to the phrase "fading and loving", Weng Ruiwu actually engaged in extramarital love when she was old and yellow, and the object of extramarital love was not someone else, it was the righteous daughter raised by the two, and gave birth to a child, which was full of storms in the city at that time, and Lu Xiaoman did not react at all.
Maybe she had experienced too many waves, and this incident was not enough to make a ripple in her heart. Later, many scholars studied that Lu Xiaoman had no love for Weng Ruiwu, only feelings, and he only loved Xu Zhimo deeply!
In his later years, when Weng Rui was dying in the afternoon, his friends came to see Mr. Weng, and Lu Xiaoman shouted from a distance: "Mr. Weng is not ok, you don't want to see." Looking at Lu Xiaoman's expression again, there was no wave, no action, and no trace of sadness was visible.
Even if there is no sorrow for the death of a friend, perhaps she no longer needs weng Ruiwu's company, or perhaps she has long been numb to this relationship.
After Weng Ruiwu's death, Lu Xiaoman, who was weak and sickly, was in a deteriorating condition, coupled with the damage caused to the body by opium smoking in the early years, the bones of the body could not be sustained, and she died in Shanghai Huadong Hospital in 1965, thus ending her bumpy and brilliant life.
Lu Xiaoman has received a good education since childhood, and has the honor of coexisting wisdom and beauty, but she has not used her own strength to make it out, and her whole life is immersed in filling the loneliness in an endless way, which is really a waste of an enviable life in the eyes of the outside world! But whose fault is this tragedy?