"I will visit my only soul mate in the midst of a sea of men; I will receive it, I will die; I will not, I will die, and so on. Oh my master! ——" Xu Zhimo's Divorce Notice
This once popular love declaration on the Internet is actually the divorce notice of Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo is worthy of being a high-achieving student at Cambridge University, worthy of putting romantic love first, even divorce, it is like she just fell in love.
Xu Zhimo was born in 1897, his father was an industrialist in the late Qing Dynasty and the beginning of the People's Republic, opened yutong qianzhuang, and then opened RenheBuzhuang, was the richest man who was famous at that time, from a young age, someone calculated Xu Zhimo's fate, saying that he would become a great instrument in the future, and later Xu Zhimo was quite accomplished in literature, was a famous talent in the Republic of China period, was a poet of the Crescent School, and was also influenced by Western thought, staying at Clark University, Columbia University in New York, cambridge university for a while.
Such an excellent man in all aspects, in fact, looks down on his original wife Zhang Youyi, Zhang Youyi was born in 1900, and Xu Zhimo is three years old, when he was 15 years old, the parents of both sides made a marriage contract for them, he became Xu Zhimo's wife, but in Xu Zhimo's eyes, their marriage is "the fate of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", which is not what he wants at all, and even, he thinks that Zhang Youyi has no talent, and even very "earthy".
Later, he found his own white moonlight Lin Huiyin, saw Lin Huiyin, in his eyes, this is his soul mate, Lin Huiyin is good-looking, talented, has received a new education, but Lin Huiyin is very fresh, she knows that Xu Zhimo does not really love her, so she chose to leave.
In 1922, when Xu Zhimo was studying in Beijing, he often interacted with Wang Geng, who loved his wife very much, but he was a workaholic, and his wife Lu Xiaoman often complained that her husband did not have time to accompany him, saying that life was not interesting and wanted to go out and play. At this time, Wang Geng introduced Xu Zhimo to Lu Xiaoman and said to Lu Xiaoman: "I don't have time, let Shima play with you." Originally thought that Xu Zhimo could take Xiao Man to know the new world, who knew that the two had come together for a long time, and finally Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng divorced.
When Xu Zhimo transferred to Peking University, he also met Liang Qichao, who was a member of the Reform School at that time, very famous, and Xu Zhimo also admired him, so he worshiped Liang Qichao as his teacher, he has always respected the teacher, and regarded him as his example. But Mr. Liang was also critical of the talented student.
In 1929, when it was learned that Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were going to get married, relatives and friends did not support it, Xu Zhimo's father expressed strong opposition, Lu Xiaoman's family also expressed their disapproval, and few people were optimistic about this marriage. The only exception is Wang Geng, who agreed to his wife's divorce, he knew that Lu Xiaoman and his own life were unhappy, and also the gentleman's voluntary withdrawal, and also blessed the two newlyweds at the wedding.
As Xu Zhimo's teacher, Liang Qichao was invited to become a witness to the marriage, but what Liang Qichao said made everyone silent. Liang Qichao first criticized Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, saying that Xu Zhimo: "The mood is impetuous, the learning is nothing, and divorce is your best proof." The evaluation of Lu Xiaoman was also very sharp, saying: "I hope that you will change your past wrongs, abide by the way of women, and become a person again." ”
At that time, Liang Qichao said more than this, Liang Qichao also advised the two: "Don't treat marriage as a child's play, don't make your parents ashamed, don't let your friends see jokes, don't let society see jokes, and finally, I send you a word: I wish you the last marriage." After listening to Liang Qichao's words, the whole audience was silent, everyone thought that Liang Qichao, as a teacher, would not speak so sharply, but Liang Qichao said everything and blessed the two with a teacher's attitude.
Even if it was a guest who came, after listening to Liang Qichao's words, he felt justified. Lu Xiaoman was like Xu Zhimo's red rose, but after getting married, he became the mosquito blood on the wall. Because the Xu family's parents could not accept this daughter-in-law, Lu Xiaoman became more and more depraved, and even fell in love with smoking, the two also had many contradictions, and now Xu Zhimo looked at Lu Xiaoman again, and he was completely different from what he was then.