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Liu Yifei, the lover-like existence of all Chinese men's dreams, her love life is undoubtedly a matter of much attention.
And Song Chengxian is the only boyfriend who has been targeted by hundreds of millions of boys and has been officially announced by Liu Yifei.
The long-standing relationship between the two that caused a stir in the entire entertainment industry was like a cat that was smoothed by time.
Staying quietly somewhere, only evoked memories when occasionally mentioned.
This relationship was not blessed and favored by fans from the beginning.
Because everyone can't see how she fell in love with Song Seung-hun because of the play.
Their daily relationship is known only to the people around them, and only they know how their feelings are born.
Song Chengxian is like a sudden intruder, pulling the fairy sister in everyone's heart down from the sky to the world.
From small beauty to big one
The name Liu Yifei is a poem in many people's youth, which is far away and not real at all, but it is incomparably beautiful.
As an actor born in 87 and debuted in 02, the most eye-catching thing about Liu Yifei is her unparalleled beauty.
Judging from Liu Yifei's ability to unify the aesthetics of the whole country, no matter how much she praises her appearance, it is not too much.
Liu Yifei is nicknamed "Fairy Sister", although she herself is a little disgusted by this title.
I'm worried that after being called this title for a long time, I will feel that she is really like a fairy and does not eat fireworks in the world.
But now, as long as this title is mentioned, everyone knows that it is talking about Liu Yifei.
This label is completely bound to Liu Yifei, and there is no other one.
Therefore, when Liu Yifei officially announced her love on Weibo, it caused such a big sensation.
We have no way of knowing the specific details of Liu Yifei and Song Chengxian's relationship.
can only rationally analyze the suitability of their relationship from the combination of their past experiences and family backgrounds.
Let's first take a look at Liu Yifei's general background and experience.
During childhood, Liu Yifei lived with her biological parents, An Shaokang and Liu Xiaoli.
Liu Yifei has been shocked by her appearance since she was a child.
When he was eight years old, he appeared on the screen and won the championship from thousands of contestants.
Later, for some reason, Liu Yifei's parents divorced.
Her mother took Liu Yifei across the ocean to the United States, and she spent the rest of her childhood in the United States.
During this period, there was a person named Chen Jinfei who played a pivotal role in Liu Yifei's life.
Chen Jinfei is a businessman.
Taking advantage of the changing and expanding market at that time, he found the right outlet and dug his first pot of gold in the export business with his friends.
Chen Jinfei, who had the first pot of gold, was very happy in his heart, but he also knew that if he wanted to make a lot of money, he had to adjust the direction.
So, after a careful investigation, Chen Jinfei began to enter real estate.
At that time, everyone knows what the real estate situation was like.
In 2000, Chen Jinfei's total assets had reached 2.6 billion.
And such a rich man has a lot of friendship with Liu Yifei's mother.
As early as when Liu Yifei was five years old, she regarded her as her goddaughter.
Later, when Liu Xiaoli took Liu Yifei to work and live in other countries, Chen Jinfei helped their mother and daughter a lot.
This kind of help did not gradually decrease until Liu Xiaoli remarried in the United States.
For Liu Yifei, although her family is relatively incomplete.
But both her stepfather and godfather are very good to her, and her biological father will come to the United States to visit her whenever he is free.
The difference with children of the same age may be that Liu Yifei understood the taste of missing earlier than most children.
Debut is the pinnacle
Liu Yifei's stepfather is a lawyer, and no matter what country he is in, lawyers are always busy.
Therefore, the bulk of Liu Yifei's daily care and education fell on her mother.
As a dancer, Liu Xiaoli, whether intentionally or not, will more or less train Liu Yifei in a direction she is familiar with.
After graduating from high school after completing credits, Liu Yifei's mother and stepfather discussed it and decided to let Liu Yifei develop in the direction of art.
And Liu Yifei finally decided to return to China and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
In 02, Liu Yifei graduated from school and officially debuted with the TV series "The Family of Gold Powder".
Liu Yifei, who had just debuted, quickly became popular in the entertainment industry.
There is never a shortage of good-looking people in the entertainment industry, but Liu Yifei's beauty is unique.
Because of Liu Yifei's dusty and flawless temperament, the director felt that she was very suitable for acting in ancient costumes.
At that time, Jin Yong's martial arts novels and TV series, which were hotly reformed, found Liu Yifei one after another.
As a result, Xiaolongnu and Wang Yuyan are no longer flat two-dimensional words, but three-dimensional people.
All of a sudden, Liu Yifei was red in half the sky.
As a newcomer who has just debuted, it is really very enviable to achieve such results.
Liu Yifei, who originally had this kind of Tianhu start, would be very smooth sailing if there was no accident in her future acting career.
Moreover, she also has a godfather with a deep background, and it is not easy to find her for unclean things in the entertainment industry under normal circumstances.
But in such a situation, Liu Yifei's acting career seems to be trapped in place.
Counting Liu Yifei's works, the most well-known ones are basically starring when they first debuted.
After that, the reputation of the works declined day by day.
Especially after acting in "The Legend of Sword and Fairy", because the style of the performance belongs to the academic school that focuses more on theory.
Liu Yifei's acting skills have fallen into a bottleneck.
Her style is also limited by her stunning beauty.
When it comes to Liu Yifei, almost everyone's attention is on her appearance.
As a result, "beauty" has become a label on Liu Yifei, and she can't take it off even if she tries to transform.
It wasn't until 2015 that Liu Yifei met Song Chengxian while filming and became friends.
Love is not a one-man show
Song Chengxian, who has been in the entertainment industry for so many years, naturally has no shortage of scandals.
But his relationship with Liu Yifei was a particularly high-profile talk for him.
It can be seen from his Weibo in 2015 that Song Chengxian's pursuit of Liu Yifei can be called bold.
As long as he posts on Weibo, he is basically inseparable from Liu Yifei.
On the other hand, Liu Yifei's side did not react to Song Chengxian's various remarks, neither admitting nor denying it.
So at that time, most of Liu Yifei's fans had a very bad impression of Song Chengxian and felt that he was rubbing Liu Yifei.
But on August 5, 2015, Liu Yifei's Weibo reversed the matter, and the content was very simple, only four words - thank you.
This can be regarded as Liu Yifei's complete official announcement of her relationship with Song Chengxian.
But a normal relationship shouldn't be so "polite and polite"?
Although there are thousands of forms of love, they are all indispensable for enthusiastic participation.
And Liu Yifei and Song Chengxian's love seems to be Song Chengxian's one-man show.
Liu Yifei only occasionally cooperated with his performance.
Whether it is on Weibo, or in interviews or programs, Song Chengxian talked about Liu Yifei and expressed the idea of marrying her.
And I believe that as long as the two love each other, geography and language are not a problem.
But two years later, the two announced their breakup, and the word "two" may not be rigorous, it was Song Chengxian who unilaterally announced it.
said that he couldn't give Liu Yifei happiness, so they broke up, and Liu Yifei didn't have any response to this.
Looking back at Liu Yifei's original expression of this relationship, there were only four words - thank you.
I used to think that this was an official announcement, but after the breakup, the meaning of these four words became ambiguous.
But in this two-year relationship, why did Liu Yifei keep ignoring Song Chengxian?
This may be a clue from Liu Yifei's growth environment.
Three of them are fathers, whether they are biological fathers, stepfathers, or godfathers.
are all people who have changed Liu Yifei's view of marriage to the greatest extent.
First of all, her parents divorced prematurely and she has been with her mother since she was a child, which is not a good experience for Liu Yifei.
Everyone wants complete love from their parents, and she is no exception.
Even if there is the love of the godfather and stepfather, the lack of love for the original father in the heart cannot make up for it.
And Song Chengxian, who is already a lot older and mature in heart, arrives for Liu Yifei, who grew up in a single-parent family.
is more like a person who is as warm and caring as a father, rather than a lover who needs to pay equally in the relationship.
It also means that the balance of this relationship has been tilted from the beginning.
Secondly, his biological father is a first-class foreign secretary, his stepfather is a well-known lawyer in the industry, and his godfather is a wealthy man.
All of them have made great achievements in their own career fields.
This kind of influence is subtle to Liu Yifei, and her grades are always among the best in the process of studying in school.
As a result, Liu Yifei is a woman with a strong sense of career, and after entering the entertainment industry, her goal is to win the title of actress.
In the tepid time, Liu Yifei is also constantly seeking breakthroughs in her acting skills, but the results are not so ideal.
Liu Yifei, who was on the way to pursue the queen, accidentally met Song Chengxian, which can be regarded as a small episode in her life.
The man, who was eleven years older than her, gave her a heart-warming feeling in some ways.
It's just that Song Chengxian's enthusiasm is like fire, and Liu Yifei is more rational, and wants to make it public after the relationship is fruitful.
She doesn't want her love life to occupy everyone's attention, and she hopes that everyone can pay more attention to the scenes she filmed.
Just like the reason why Liu Yifei is not interested in her title of "fairy sister" mentioned earlier.
What she hopes most is that her acting skills will improve and be noticed by everyone.
Therefore, under the dual factors, in this relationship, it will seem that it is all Song Chengxian's wishful thinking.
epilogue
Love is never a fruit that can be reaped by one-sided giving.
It takes two people to run it together to give off the aroma of happiness.
If you feel that giving is not proportional to what you get.
It could be that the relationship came at the wrong time, or it could be really inappropriate.
The vast majority of us are ordinary people.
does not have the beauty of Liu Yifei or the handsomeness of Song Chengxian, nor the strength of the rich party.
But happiness never picks people, I hope we can harvest our own happiness in the ordinary.