Parents all hope that they can have a healthy, smart and lovely child, and the actual situation is that many parents have unconsciously taken a detour in the process of raising their children, but they have made their children more and more stupid! If the child is hit by the following 6 reasons, it will inadvertently cause intellectual impairment problems, especially parents and friends must seriously eliminate ...
1. Premature knowledge transfer
Many parents are seduced by the theory of "not letting their children lose on the starting line", in order to make their children perform well in front of others, they teach their children difficult knowledge prematurely; in addition, some parents are smart: in order to make their children not "proud and complacent", set excessive learning goals. As a result, the child has repeatedly failed to try, the child feels frustrated, he is less and less confident, and the situation is getting worse and worse.
We have heard a lot of stories about "Hurting Zhongyong", and this situation is caused by parents. Therefore, don't abandon the child to become stupid and cowering, it is because of some of your practices, so that he rarely gets a sense of winning in life.
2, parents chase drama, children insomnia
Media resources have developed, so many parents have begun to chase dramas all night, in order to avoid children disturbing themselves, often throw a mobile phone to their children, or let children accompany them to watch TV and entertainment. Children who stay up late and lead to long-term lack of sleep will have a series of health problems, such as decreased immunity, endocrine disorders, body metabolism disorders, etc., which will also lead to various diseases. Studies have shown that people who often stay up late and do not sleep enough will accelerate the decline of brain cells, and even smarter people will gradually become confused and stupid.
3. Frequent verbal violence against children
Nowadays, it is rare for parents to beat their children, but when they encounter something, it is still common to ask loudly and even scold, and children are afraid of the authority of parents' anger, distorted faces and violent words, and only silence is right. Over time, he became introverted and even autistic. You know, it is difficult for parents to scold their children to fundamentally solve their children's problems, which will only cause greater harm to their children's physical and mental health. Children are beaten, emotionally prone to depression, anxiety, etc., resulting in nervous system problems. Thus getting more and more stupid.
5, "obesity" is stronger than the tiger
The proportion of obese children in today's society has increased significantly, and parents continue to stuff food into their children's mouths after their children have eaten enough, and advise: "Eat more, eat more." As everyone knows, eating too much, people are lazy, do not exercise, brain cells are not active, lazy to think, have a sense of drowsiness. There is a folk saying that "eat too much, support stupidity", which is reasonable.
I think that when parents observe around them, it is not difficult to find that obese children who eat too much are not as good as healthy children with normal weight in terms of reaction ability, exercise ability, coordination ability, thinking ability, hands-on ability and so on. Moreover, obesity can also lead to the formation of diseases such as diabetes in adolescents.
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