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The emergence of love has to be said to be a kind of fate. A good fate, when two people are single, dry firewood, love at first sight, a beautiful marriage was born.
But a period of bad luck often appears at a very inappropriate time. For example, two people who have a family know each other when they have another half.
If you want to be together, you can't help but be bound by morality. I want to stop contacting each other, but I can't let go of this fate.
I have seen the movie "The Dream of the Covered Bridge", the heroine reached middle age, but met the true love of her life. It's both lucky and unfortunate.
Luckily, in her lifetime, she and the other party saw the appearance of true love. Unfortunately, no matter how much they feel sorry for each other, they can't escape the fate of parting ways after four days of acquaintance.
Perhaps they all understand that if they are forced together across morality, then this pure love will lose its original appearance.
Indeed, all those who have had this experience should understand that the emotions of one party having a family, even if they love each other, are all evil relationships, all are wrong loves, and at this time, only by letting go, all relevant people can be liberated.
All people with a family should also understand that when you meet someone you love outside of your partner, you need to be clear about your responsibilities and need to shoulder the responsibilities of your family.
And more importantly, the question that has not changed for a thousand years: Do you really love you to the other person? Can you get to the end? What should you do if you meet the so-called true love again after you are together? Most likely, it's an endless cycle, because everything is changing, and the only constant is changing. The same is true of human feelings.
Two people with a family are in love, not happiness, but disaster
Why? I once had a friend who had been married to her husband for ten years. After seven years of itching, they seem to have been at this stage, and their feelings have not progressed.
And the friend is a woman who likes romance, so touching her right hand like a passionate marriage makes her tired. So, after work, on holidays, she likes to run outside.
Running and running, she met her true love. This man is not as boring as her husband, he understands all her preferences, understands all her pleasures and unhappiness.
In front of him, she felt that she could be considered alive.
So this love is like the scorching sun, like the blossoming flowers in the spring, out of control, bright and moving.
The paper wrapper could not hold the fire, no matter how the friend pretended, or let her son know. Children are sensitive and overwhelmed by this kind of thing.
When a friend learns that her child is suffering from depression because of this incident and has insomnia all day, she regrets it. She didn't expect such serious, irreversible consequences. What caught her even more off guard was that her husband also filed for divorce from her.
Such a result made her in the abyss and wanted to grasp the so-called "true love" straw that saved her life, but this true love gave her a heavy blow.
The other person said that he could not take risks and could not divorce her. He was only her passer-by, not her savior.
This incident became an eternal pain in her friend's heart, and it was also a disaster in her life.
I believe that when the man said he loved her, the two of them had true love. But after all, there is a family, and no matter how sincere love is, it will become something that can be given up at will because of certain factors.
True love can sometimes bring down everything, but most of the time, true love is incredibly fragile. The so-called true love may be mixed with water, but it is just a desire cloaked in love. Don't think of it as too beautiful.
In the adult world, even in the face of true love, there is no way to make a choice. Some true love, destined to be a kind of victim, after hurting the person concerned, grows away.
Letting go is the best choice
If my friend could take it away in time, if she could refuse in the face of temptation, then she would not face the situation that could not end today.
Love most of the time stems from passion, and when passion burns out, only ashes remain. The so-called love will eventually be attributed to chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
When you are thinking about giving up for the sake of your later passion, you may wish to think about whether the marriage that you are so disliked today also originated from passion in the first place.
You think that you and the other party can still love the earth-shattering and look so different across the thick siege of marriage, but if you really return to life, you will not be able to withstand the test.
Because no matter how sincere the love, it is ultimately reflected in people. You yourself are a person who cannot withstand the test, and the so-called true love naturally cannot withstand the test.
Just like when many people give up marriage and pursue the so-called true love, they suddenly find that what they wanted to get is nothing more than that, and they have not let themselves live the beautiful life they imagined.
Many times, the reason why we are obsessed with feelings outside of marriage is because we have not experienced them. It's like you're holding a magnifying glass and magnifying the beauty, but in fact, it's not really like that.
Extramarital feelings, there is very little true love, we live, and it is not just about enjoying love. Many times, the most important thing in this world, the most supportive, is the responsibility and the bottom line.
Two people with a family are in love, and the only option is actually to "let go". Only by letting go can we get back on track, and only by choosing to let go is it responsible for everyone.
It's not just that you want to sacrifice to take responsibility, but more importantly, this extramarital relationship will hurt you all over the body.
Any adult should understand that the bubble will eventually burst. Standing at the crossroads, you may wander, you may make the wrong choice, but I hope that no matter where you go, as long as you find a mistake, you will turn back in time.
May all of us understand this truth. Don't hurt others, don't hurt yourself, and push yourself to the end of the road.
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