Starring Huang Lei, Zhou Xun, Qin Hailu and others, "Xiao MinJia" was broadcast on Mango Tv, this work is an urban emotional drama based on the feelings and lives of middle-aged people, the director is Wang Jun, who has cooperated with Huang Lei for many years, with works such as "Little Joy" and "Little Parting", while Huang Lei serves as the screenwriter, from the perspective of the whole team, the proper conscience of the work will explode!
The work revolves around Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo, two middle-aged lovers and the family relationship between the two sides, the story line involves both the previous generation's grudges and hatreds, and also involves the education of the next generation's children, there are many topics to talk about, today we will talk about the marriage and love between middle-aged people.
Li Ping and Hong Wei divorced because of the child thing, Jin Bo sold the house and ran to the nursing home as a cook but was bent on remarrying Liu Xiaomin, and Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo were separated for various reasons, but the two people did not give up with each other, people to middle age, love and marriage, has not been like when they were young, such as Liu Xiaojie feels that enough love to enter the marriage again, middle-aged people's marriage is more realistic and more real and clear.
01 Middle-aged people are in love, and two people are comfortable together is the key.
Young people fall in love, maybe because of love at first sight, maybe because the other party is beautiful and handsome, may be because the other party is dead set on himself, may also be because the other party is willing to be motivated, in short, two people are easy together, as long as the other party has a little enough to attract themselves.
But when middle-aged people fall in love, the primary consideration is no longer what advantages the other party has, whether it is enough to work hard, but to see if the other party has shortcomings that they cannot accept, and whether the two people are comfortable enough together.
Liu Xiaomin said this very clearly, she said that Chen Zhuo is not her favorite type at all, and she will not fall in love with each other when she was young, but now she is asked out by Chen Zhuo, because the two are comfortable together.
Later, the two people broke up, mixed together from complicated things, and one of the things was that in that case, two people were no longer comfortable together.
02 Middle-aged people enter marriage and think more about themselves.
Liu Xiaomin's mother Wang Sufen asked Chen Zhuo if he wanted to marry his daughter, Chen Zhuo thought in his heart, but his daughter Chen Jiajia told him that he could fall in love and could not get married, Liu Xiaomin also hesitated, the first factor is also to consider his son Jin Jiajun, the two people in front of the refusal to make the relationship public, but also afraid of affecting the two children's college entrance examination.
Later, because Chen Jiajia and Jin Jiajun were found to be in love, Li Ping had a miscarriage, the situation was quite chaotic, one of the two children went abroad, one still had a month to take the college entrance examination, Chen Zhuo agreed to Li Ping's withdrawal from school for his daughter Chen Jiajia, so he agreed to Li Ping to withdraw from school and all the requirements, Liu Xiaomin was soft for his son to his girlfriend, they were considering their own children at this time, and the relationship between the two people became something that could be abandoned.
Similarly, Hong Wei was very good to Li Ping, there was basically no other contradiction between the two people, but Hong Wei hid that Li Ping had raised a four- or five-year-old illegitimate child abroad, and Hong Wei made a mistake Li Ping lost the luxury car property and suffered heavy losses, but there was no complaint, just affected by the child, and finally Li Ping still chose to divorce.
Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo, the two middle-aged lovers, reflected in their relationship, are the key to middle-aged people's marriage and love, cutting into the emotional needs of many middle-aged people, no wonder it will be recognized by many middle-aged people!
Many middle-aged people would rather only talk about love and not get married, that is, they hope that two people can be comfortable and easy together, and they are not willing to have unnecessary contradictions because of the change of relationship, and many people even if they reach middle age, they still can't see through the key to middle-aged love, and love still stays in the era of young people, so they give each other too many constraints, causing each other to leave, and they often feel that they are not ladylike, and finally they have stumbled through the years!