It is said that the parents of the post-90s bring their babies, and compared with the parents of the post-80s and post-70s, they treat their children with a special "Buddhist system". I saw a passage on the Internet where the child took out a cookie to share with his parents:
Post-70s mother: "Baby, mother does not eat, you eat." ”
After 80, the mother gently took a small bite, and then said: "Thank you baby, it is delicious." You eat it. ”
The post-90s mother, taking a big bite, and then "grabbed" it: "It's so delicious, give it to me." ”
In the past, parenting and children's every move touched the hearts of parents, afraid that children would have a little difference pool. Today's parents have to coax themselves to sleep, and they have to practice the skills of wearing diapers, buying vegetables, and walking their fathers.
The "Buddhist" parenting of post-90s parents has not exercised their children's abilities in all aspects, which makes people relish it.
There is a group of photos on the Internet, which has become popular on the Internet, causing netizens to laugh.
One: Parents are true love, children are accidents
The photo was taken by the mother-in-law. The mother-in-law went to her son's room to see how the grandchildren were doing. Generally, when a family sleeps, the parents are on both sides and the children are in the middle, which can not only protect the child from falling out of bed, but also ensure that the child is warm in the bed.
And the mother-in-law walked into her son's room, saw that her son and daughter-in-law were quite affectionate, the two people were close together, and the quilt was also covered tightly, which would definitely not be a little cold.
The two little guys, on the other side of the bed, can't find their parents, and can't win the quilt, so they have to "hug the group for warmth." The two people were close together, almost folded together.
The younger brother was afraid that he was thinking of his father and mother, and tried to leave his sister and go to find his mother in the bed. As a result, his parents originally slept facing him, but later directly turned their backs on him, and the quilt was wrapped tightly, and the baby could not even reach the corner of the quilt.
Later, the younger brother may feel that this parent is unreliable, or the sister can be relied on. So half asleep and half awake, he got up and went to look for his sister again.
Netizens saw this group of photos and ridiculed: parents are true love, children are accidents.
Bao Mom later explained that they took the baby to the playground that day, too tired, came back to sleep more deeply. And the mother-in-law slept late, and saw that the lights in their room were not turned off, so they came in to see.
Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law saw this scene, so she took a picture of it and said that she would keep it for the children to grow up.
Netizens in addition to ridicule, there are also mothers said that looking at the strange sleeping posture of the baby, no honest cover quilt can sleep so fragrantly. Do children like to run around and not be bound by quilts to sleep better?
We usually take the baby and we will find that when the baby sleeps, it is impossible for him to sleep honestly until dawn. As soon as he covered him with a quilt, he immediately kicked you off. In order not to let the baby freeze, the old mother did not sleep well every day with black circles.
What is the child's sleeping habits, and how can he sleep more soundly?
Two: Factors affecting sleep
The child does not have the "baby-like sleep" we think, on the contrary, he may not sleep soundly all night. This is because your child's sleep will be affected by several aspects:
Sleep cycle
Our sleep is alternated by deep-shallow sleep, and when we enter shallow sleep, the body will unconsciously appear some small actions. Such as turning over, kicking the quilt, etc.
Children's sleep cycle is shorter than ours, so they naturally have more "small actions" in one night. When you fall asleep at night, you may have to go under the bed to "pick up the baby".
Sleeping environment
Your child's sleep will also be affected by the surrounding environment. Too cold and too hot, too dry or too wet, or too bright at night, will cause the baby to sleep unsteadily.
Once the baby can't sleep steadily, it is easy to sleep from the bed to the outside of the bed. Mom and Dad, on the other hand, had to wake up frequently to cover the baby with a quilt.
Three: Try these methods
If parents want to have a good night's sleep, don't wake up all the time to cover the baby with a quilt, you may wish to try the following methods:
●A comfortable sleeping environment is guaranteed
We can have a thermohygrometer in the bedroom so that we can see if the room is in a suitable sleeping environment.
The indoor temperature is generally 20-25 degrees, the humidity is about 60%-70%, and the body feeling will be more comfortable. In such a sleeping environment, the child will sleep more soundly.
Studies have shown that the light of night lights affects the quality of sleep.
This is because light can disrupt the secretion of our sleep hormones. When the child is still young, many parents like to use the night light, so that it is convenient to take care of the baby. But when the child is older, try not to use night lights.
A dim, quiet environment is more conducive to a good night's sleep.
●Don't wear too thick
Children have a strong metabolism and are naturally not afraid of cold. So, they can refer to their father when they sleep.
Mothers are generally a little weaker, and it is easy to think that children are afraid of the cold. But in fact, the child's physique is more similar to the father. Therefore, in terms of dressing and sleeping, you can refer to the father, and there is no need to wear too much and wrap too thickly for the child.
Parents and children sleep together, and we need to devote more energy to taking care of them. However, if we create a good sleeping environment, we can also enjoy sleep better.
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