In today's society, marriage is like a cooperative relationship, cooperation can continue, bad can be terminated. With the development of the economy, people's incomes have increased, and the social security system has become more and more sound, and both men and women have the ability to earn money, can support themselves, and do not have to rely on anyone to support. Therefore, some people's ideas of raising children and preventing old age have gradually faded, and they are pursuing singleness and enjoying the so-called free life.
Since marriage is a cooperative relationship, so two people can be together can maintain a lifetime, if the personality can not come together all day long quarrel is better than separation, now men and women are demanding equality and independence, will not casually put themselves, they always think that low-quality marriage is not as good as high-quality single. It is not surprising that I prefer to choose high-quality singles, and feel that marriage is no longer the only way of life for both men and women.
Now that society is becoming more and more open and influenced by foreign ideological trends, our traditional virtues, such as "no filial piety has three, no posterity is great", "inheritance of generations" and other concepts have been left behind by many people, and hedonism and timely pleasure are prevalent. Full of warmth and lust is the product of material abundance, and some people have enough to eat and support the pursuit of stimulation and another life! In the past, the concept of marriage between men and women was gradually leaving us, and more and more unmarried people felt that marriage was no longer a must!
Now people are more and more impetuous, materialization is more and more intense, the sense of humanity and family concept is also more and more weak, many women only have to ask for this family without paying, marriage to a high bride price to want a car, but after marriage but failed to be diligent and thrifty to maintain the family, but also arrogant and violent, arrogant, no virtuous wife and mother's virtue, not to mention three from four virtues, husband and son, marriage is to tolerate and pay for each other, blindly ask, with whom will not last, there will be no future.
Today's young people have high requirements for the quality of life, most of the young people of this generation are only children, spoiled at home like a princess young master, tolerance and sense of responsibility are lacking, do not want to pay much, and too selfish, are not willing to think more about each other, how to get married? Marriage is not a person's ultimate destination, a good marriage can achieve a person, a bad marriage will ruin a person, and even lose his life is possible, especially the washing and blowing incident and some incidents that hurt his wife, causing some girls to be afraid of marriage, in order not to suffer losses, everyone is invariably the same, they all want to choose their own life path freely. Over the years, the divorce of some celebrities has been a mess, especially The divorce incident of Wang Lihong, which has made some young people dare not marry easily, or choose to be single or choose to live together. Although marriage is no longer the only way of life for both men and women, marriage is not a child's play. A person who is willful about marriage and irresponsible, life is actually difficult to say that it is happy, even a regret, a kind of sadness.
Society is constantly developing, rich material enjoyment and colorful spiritual life, so that people's ideas and concepts are also constantly updated. Especially in the treatment of marriage and family affairs, more pursuit of openness, freedom, marriage makes people more troublesome, family conflicts are large, husband and wife relationships are difficult to handle, divorce is more than marriage, the burden is large, the pressure is large, one person is full, the whole family is not hungry, more comfortable, more free, how cool!
Society is developing and progressing, some ideas can not withstand reality after all, marriage is also a product of social development, a piece of paper can not lock everyone's consciousness, it will become another piece of paper. Contemporary society is full of factors of diversified ideas, people's ideological realm is no longer single, simple, traditional, and lifestyle are mostly accompanied by their own pursuit and develop to a higher level. Marriage is indeed not the only way to live, but there must be deficiencies in life without marriage, and life may have regrets. After experiencing marriage, motherhood or fatherhood, with responsibility and responsibility, life will be more fulfilling and life will be more complete. Married life in the lifestyle should be the mainstream, but with other ways, it does not affect each other. This article is original by Youtaobang, welcome to pay attention, take you along with long knowledge! Xiaobian throws bricks and leads jade, welcome everyone to express their opinions in the comment area, thank you!