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Ending song: Love Wind Dust - Cheng Bi
Girls are always more pampered and cute.
Your indifference and alienation will only push her farther and farther away, and the protection and pampering will melt the ice in her heart, so that she can see your intentions and cherish.
Value your feelings
There is a friend around, before falling in love, he is known as the "little prince of the nightclub", and he can always be seen at every party, and his friend is also the most active one.
But such a "social depth enthusiast", after falling in love, suddenly seemed to have changed into a person, several times he did not appear at the liquor bureau, and there was no trace of him at the late-night dinner.
Later, when a friend asked, he was frank: My girlfriend doesn't like it, and I always have to take care of her feelings.
It is said that love is an unfathomable thing, but in my opinion, it is really not so complicated.
When you meet someone you want to protect, you will naturally put her feelings first, want to take care of her emotions, and take care of her thoughts.
Maybe he used to play and make trouble, maybe he was a little unreliable, maybe he loved to drink and clubbing, but after meeting you, he will try to change and will put you in the most important position.
Because for him, you are the most important and only one.
Actively distance yourself from other members of the opposite sex
I once heard a saying that no matter what the occasion, those who can take the initiative to explain that they have a boyfriend/girlfriend are treasures in the world.
I have heard that many people pretend to be single, just to facilitate the promotion of other members of the opposite sex, while enjoying the gentle and considerateness brought to them by their partners, while casting nets and hunting for curiosity.
In contrast, those who can take the initiative to keep their distance from other members of the opposite sex after falling in love can really add a lot of points.
Kiki said that after being in love for so long, the boyfriend gave him the greatest sense of security, that is, he would take the initiative to stay away from those ill-intentioned opposite sex.
This sense of measured distance will really make people feel particularly at ease.
It is said that the current feelings are very fragile, in fact, because there are too many people who cannot refuse the temptation, if everyone can keep their own bottom line, I believe that the world of feelings can be much simpler and cleaner.
If you've also met a guy/girlfriend who can actively distance yourself from other members of the opposite sex, be sure to cherish it.
Willing to change for you
It is said that "the nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to move", but if you meet someone who really loves each other, you will want to change willingly.
I have seen boys who take the initiative to quit drinking and smoking because their girlfriends don't like them, I have seen girls who choose to quit staying up late because their boyfriends oppose them, and I have also seen couples who have become better after being together.
Changing ourselves doesn't necessarily mean compromising, but we all want to pursue a better version of ourselves.
Being willing to change for each other does not necessarily mean giving up on ourselves, but we are all willing to work hard to be together for a long time.
Shanshan is a complete late-night party, sleeping almost every night at two or three o'clock in the morning.
After the boyfriend knows, he is worried that this will not be good for her health for a long time, and he will take the initiative to remind her every night, and will also help her take the mobile phone to the living room to charge, let her drink a cup of hot milk, and create a comfortable sleeping environment for her.
Shanshan said that I also know that staying up late is not good, but every time I always unconsciously arrive at the middle of the night, and now there is a person who manages it very well, and I am happy to quit this bad habit.
Now many people advocate personality and want to be their true selves, but everyone has imperfections, if falling in love can make us constantly self-correct, and constantly move closer to a better way of life, it is not a good thing.
Good love will definitely make you happy, positive and optimistic, able to grasp a better present, but also look forward to a better future.
I hope that after we are together, we can all become better selves.
Love that stays on the lips is simple, whether it is true or false, it can be expressed through words.
The love made is very rare, willing to care about your feelings, will put your joys and sorrows in your heart, when encountering contradictions and quarrels, willing to spoil you and let you, even if you encounter difficulties and setbacks, the first thing you want to do is to face it hand in hand with you, rather than subconsciously want to escape...
The more I grow up, the more I understand that love is the most precious, and those sweet little details are hidden in practical actions, not in exaggerated and empty language.
Some people say that people who have not encountered the poison of life will like the vigorous bridge, mature we all know that gentleness is the most precious quality, not the kind of ulterior motives to please, not flattering love words, is the kind of clean gentleness, is the gentleness that will put the scarf together for you at any time.
It is not difficult to find someone who is willing to say romantic things to you, but it is difficult to know the cold and the hot, and is willing to put you in your heart.
If you meet such a treasure boy, don't hesitate, marry, and believe that he will be your warm home.
Click [in the watch], if you meet such a treasure boy, you must cherish it.
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