Author | Insight muye
Read a book recently and saw a story.
When Germany invaded the Soviet Union, an old grandmother was in the rubble of the ground, and little by little, she shaved out the body of her son.
Supposedly, she should hate the Germans.
But when a german soldier who was starving to death appeared in front of her, she handed over a small piece of bread in her hand.
This Soviet grandmother has a heart of incomparable kindness.
The more people and things you see, the more you find the so-called big picture, and behind it is actually a kind of kindness.
Peng Jianfeng, a professor at Chinese Min University, once said something about Ren Zhengfei.
Once, Ren Zhengfei went to Beijing on a business trip, and at noon the group had lunch together.
Ren Zhengfei's itinerary is very tight, and after seeing the customer, he will return to Shenzhen non-stop.
At that time, the waiter in the restaurant was an intern, who was not skilled in business, and the response to serving and serving was relatively slow.
At checkout, an executive criticized her, and the waiter cried on the spot.
Ren Zhengfei hurried to play the round field:
"Don't be so fierce to the waiters, so young, so low wages, running to Beijing to work, it is not easy, treat them more kindly."
When leaving the hotel, Ren Zhengfei also specially gave the waiter a tip.
As the saying goes, "Tolerance is great." ”
The so-called pattern means that people must have a tolerant heart and be able to tolerate things that are difficult to tolerate in the world.
With a tolerant heart, to be considerate and to understand others.
Once Mei Lanfang acted in "Chang'e Running Moon", she went to the theater to dress up and prepare to appear.
At this time, there was a sudden scolding sound from the backstage manager, and Master Liu, who had originally been in the pipeline, forgot one of the props of "Chang'e Running Moon".
Because Master Liu's wife was ill, he was distracted and made a low-level mistake.
Instead of getting angry, Mei Lanfang gently said to Master Liu:
"Don't worry, you quickly take my car back to get it, and everyone will give you a mat." I am also at fault for this, I don't know if your wife is sick, and I still let you come. ”
The writer Luo Dali once said:
"A man's heart is only the size of a fist, but a good man's heart can accommodate the whole world."
The pattern is a person's personality and temperament, but if there is no good heart, there is no real big pattern.
In 2012, at the International Cross Country Championships held in Spain, a touching scene occurred.
Kenya's Abel Mutai was still some distance away from the finish line when he was confused by the road signs and mistakenly thought he had reached the finish line, so he stopped.
Ivan, the Spanish player who followed him, realized that Mutai was confused by the road signs.
It was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for Ivan to win the championship by simply sprinting across the finish line.
But he didn't do this, but ran straight to Mutai and reminded Mutai to keep running.
Because of the different languages, Mutai stood where he was, looking blankly at Ivan who was shouting at him, not knowing what was happening.
At this time, Ivan made a move that surprised everyone.
He pushed Mutai forward, crossed the finish line, and helped Mutai win the championship.
The reporter interviewed Ivan after the game: "Why did you let the Kenyans win?" ”
Ivan replied: "I didn't let him win, he would win." The game is his. ”
The reporter asked again, "But you could have won." ”
Ivan smiled and replied, "But what good is my victory?" What honors does this medal have? What would my mom think? ”
Abel Mutai was able to win this game not only by strength, but also by the big picture of the opponent.
The kind Ivan overcame the weaknesses of human nature and did not take advantage of the mistakes of his opponents to seek glory for himself.
On the contrary, he relied on his own big pattern to complete the opponent and let the real winner go to glory.
Everyone knows that for athletes, winning a gold medal means a lot.
But more important than the flowers and applause is the kindness carved into the bones.
Shakespeare said, "A good heart is gold." ”
Only by standing up to the sky and doing things in a bright and upright manner can we win the respect and recognition of others and go long-term.
I love this passage:
"Life is the process of constantly improving your own pattern, and every choice you make after the incident indicates your pattern."
The size of your pattern determines how you will go in the future and what kind of life you will live in the future. ”
How big a person's pattern is, how kind his heart is, how deep the blessing is.
The father of Cao Dewang, the king of glass, warned him when he was very young:
"Those who are blessed must first have quantity, and blessing is sought from the amount of qi."
One day in December 2000, an employee in Cao Dewang's factory went to the hospital because of drinking alcohol and stomach pain, and the result was that the lung cancer was diagnosed with advanced stages, and the doctor said that it could not be cured.
One of the company's bosses called Cao Dewang and asked him for instructions that he had contacted the employee's family and planned to give him tens of thousands of yuan to go home for treatment.
After Cao Dewang listened, he resolutely refused:
"You can't let him go home for treatment, he's only in his 20s, we have to help him."
Hanging up the phone, Cao Dewang called the secretary, asked the secretary to contact the municipal cancer hospital, found a bed, and arranged for the sick employee to live in.
Cao Dewang called the hospital, this employee must be saved, no matter how much it costs, it is up to me Cao Dewang to come out.
Subsequently, Cao Dewang successively sent 100,000 yuan and 200,000 yuan to the hospital account for employee treatment.
When Cao Dewang went to the hospital to visit the employees, he told the employees:
"You are at ease with your illness, you don't have to worry about the medical expenses, I will bear the medical expenses, and the salary during the illness will be paid as usual."
Employees are sick and hospitalized, the boss not only did not ignore it, but also helped to pay medical expenses and pay salaries normally, which is a big pattern and the greatest kindness of being a person.
Another time, an employee's child had leukemia, and the employee was desperate.
After Cao Dewang learned about it, he asked the employees to stop their work and take their children to Beijing to see a doctor, no matter how much it cost in the end, he would bear it.
Later, the child was cured of his illness and spent more than a million yuan before and after, all of which was paid by Cao Dewang.
For employees, Cao Dewang has a pattern and a kind heart, and the same is true for society.
Today, Cao Dewang has donated a total of 12 billion yuan, and although he is not the richest man in China, he is known as "China's first good".
Cao Dewang wrote in his autobiography "Heart As a Bodhisattva": "Only by being kind can people become rich. ”
People in the big picture have others in their hearts, and they are more from the big love, from a distance to see the problem.
The more such a person does not care about gains and losses, the more generous he gives help to others, the more he will get the gift of fate.
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Russell said, "Of all moral qualities, the good nature is most needed in the world." ”
People with small patterns are narrow-minded and calculating, and there is no one else in their eyes, only themselves.
People with a big pattern have great love in their hearts, fear all the good qualities in the world, and have others in their hearts.
In this life, when you have a good heart and a big pattern, the heavens will not treat you badly.
Click [in the watch], may we all be a kind and broad person.
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