I believe that many people are eating Wang Lihong Li Lianglei's big melon, her more than 5,000 reasoned and well-founded long articles, to restore to everyone what kind of person Wang Lihong is privately.
Promiscuity, leg-splitting infidelity, cold violence in marriage, long-term intimate relationships with wives...
As long as these stars have one stain, it is enough to judge them as bad artists.
But Wang Lihong has gathered everything to give a perfect year-end summary to the scumbag male stars in the entertainment industry in 2021.
Wang Lihong in the end how absurd and cut the door, I believe that many media have been analyzed, today we will talk about Li Lianglei's helplessness and despair as a housewife, and why her experience has aroused so many girls' resonance?
In her long article, Li Lianglei did not spend a lot of ink on the matter of giving birth to a child, but this short paragraph was very clear, whether it was physical or psychological, it was reasonable and well-founded.
It is worthy of being a high-caliber student graduated from Columbia University, and the sentence pokes at the pain point, so that many girls have a strong sense of substitution when they read the text, because Li Lianglei's experience is not an isolated case, but a microcosm of the life of many housewives.
Li Lianglei said to herself in the text, because Wang Lihong likes the birth of children, she has not been preparing for pregnancy and pregnancy in recent years, or feeding children, in 5 years, her two daughters and a son have been born.
She gave up herself for this family, including the work and dreams that can be obtained by high education, recognition and affirmation, and even wealth, all centered on children and Wang Lihong, giving birth to children, being a close companion to her husband, a family nanny, and facing the physical and psychological changes after giving birth to children alone.
Li Lianglei's despair, housewives who have experienced marriage and children, should have a deep understanding, they can better appreciate Li Lianglei's despair, because only they know what she has experienced, what she has given up, whether physically, mentally, after giving birth, they seem to have been stolen to change their lives.
Li Lianglei is even more miserable is that she has been married for 8 years, has been a housewife for 8 years, has given birth to 3 children, widowed with a large child, faced physical and psychological discomfort alone, and did not use Wang Lihong's money to buy any luxury jewelry during the period, did not expect that the younger son just turned three years old, and finally was divorced by the net out of the house, and the things she deserved were not obtained at all, saying that she is the 2.0 realistic version of Zhan Lu in "Female Psychologist".
In "Female Psychologist", Zhan Lu has a high education, after getting married and having a daughter at the age of 26, she gave up everything that belonged to her to become a housewife, but not only did not get the understanding and gratitude of her family, but in exchange for the mother-in-law who preferred sons to daughters, the husband's dislike, and even because of the leakage of urine, she became the object of ridicule, and after childbirth, she was rejected because of the gap in the career of the housewife in recent years.
What Happened to Zhan Lu is only the tip of the iceberg of some highly educated girls getting married and having children to become housewives, and my friend is one of them.
Like many post-80s girls, friends have the opportunity to enter the campus to receive higher education, which allows her to obtain a high education and a stable good job, live a free and comfortable life, and everything is beautiful.
The friend was born with a flowery appearance, tall and tall, and there are many powerful and wealthy suitors around her, however, she chose the current husband with ordinary conditions in it, the reason is that her husband loves and cares for her and treats her as a baby.
Although the future mother-in-law does not look up to her work and thinks that she is not worthy of his son without a staff, she does not care, because she feels that she is not married to her mother-in-law, and when the time comes, she will just turn a blind eye.
In this way, they were happily married, but the happiness they had waited for did not come as promised, and after the birth of their daughter, everything changed.
When she gave birth, she had not yet come out of the delivery room, and the mother-in-law outside the delivery room pulled down the whole face of the daughter when she heard that it was the daughter, and in front of all the friends and the mother's family, she directly said how it was the daughter, and the fortune teller said that it was the son...
After getting along, the mother-in-law also hangs on her mouth every day to give birth to a son, and she has not yet been born, so she lets her see the second child when she is pregnant.
And her original considerate husband, not only did not say his mother, but let her be more tolerant, because his mother's widowed mother raised him and his brother is not easy, and even said that life is us, we have to give birth to people, this is a natural phenomenon such as assholes.
In the month, friends are their own children day and night, and her husband can't vomit when she changes the child's diaper once, in such friction, she chooses to be patient, because of the beauty of once in love, because of the hard work of her husband.
After the end of maternity leave, because the mother-in-law refused to help with the child here and there, she faced the situation that no one helped to take the child.
Because the economic conditions are not very generous, and the children are too small, she can only choose to be a housewife.
She pulled the child to the age of one year in a widowed manner, during which she also suffered from the cold words of her mother-in-law, and then began to be given birth to a second child in various ways, as if her husband had a throne to inherit.
However, the heavens did not fulfill her mother-in-law's wishes, and her second child was a daughter, because she did not listen to her mother-in-law's visit to see the rebirth and was complained about by all kinds.
Friends said that after giving birth to the first child, her body became very weak, the problem of spinal pain and low back pain when giving birth to a child was not good, and various gynecological diseases followed one after another, and she ran to the hospital every day.
The mother-in-law not only did not understand, but also complained that she made a fuss, spared her life, and spent her son's money indiscriminately, but also said that their generation also had these problems, and slowly they got better, the more serious they looked, the more serious it was, and their friends said that during that time, they really wanted to die a hundred.
Physical torture, mother-in-law's cold words, she can still endure, but every time she reaches out for money, especially when her mother's family is in financial difficulties, but she does not have the financial resources to help, she especially hates herself.
Her parents raised her to provide her with education, but as an adult, she was unable to support her parents.
How could he be reduced to reaching out like a beggar to ask for money, and how could he give his parents pension money and secretly fear being seen? Especially every time the husband complained that she spent money too fast, as if he was giving the gold mountain and silver mountain.
I remember once, she suddenly told me that she was going to collapse, because the brother who didn't understand things in the family was in urgent need of money to pay off his debts, so his parents sold the homestead next to her mother's house and gave it to his husband.
As a result, her husband asked her brother-in-law to build a house there, and didn't that embarrass her parents in front of everyone?
Unable to bear it, she broke out, and even unusually gentle, saying that as long as her little brother-in-law went there to build a house, she chose to die with her husband's family, and said that if her husband wanted to divorce, then she chose to let him be a eunuch, fortunately, her little uncle refused, and this matter would not be resolved.
How gentle and reasonable a friend is, how can there be such extreme thoughts, this is something I never thought of, and now after seeing Li Lianglei's story, I feel that this is not an isolated case, and Li Lianglei seems to be more miserable.
Housewives are really hard, 24 hours a day to face the ignorant and adult sane children, school delivery, school pick-up, endless emotional after-school tutoring after school, and all kinds of housework that cannot be completed.
From busy day to night, 365 days without rest, people are not gyroscopes after all, the body will be tired, and the mood will fluctuate.
If the other half does not understand, or even verbally insults, or cold violence, women will really collapse, and such men are really many in life, especially the nest of men who are angry and come home outside to vent on their wives
Physical changes, over time, adapted to get used to, but psychologically, if there is no place to vent, have been endured, there will always be an outbreak of the day, some hurt others, even children, and some people choose to hurt themselves.
Li Lianglei, because she has read books, has a certain insight and courage, knows what the most powerful means of counterattack is, and before that she only chose to be patient and silent.
If it were not for Wang Lihong being too fierce and too slamming the door, not giving money and allowing fans to slander others to divide half of the family property, and even refusing to clarify, Li Lianglei would not have been so deadly and broke the net, personally removing the mask of her child's father Wang Lihong.