After carefully brushing it up, in the stories of the first few episodes of "Little Min's House", what I hate most is the two ex-husbands.
One is Liu Xiaojie's ex-husband, who is an extreme mother treasure man, not only always listens to his mother in his daily life, but even hides such things as private money, but also obeys his mother's arrangement.
The most disgusting time, obviously he took the money he hid in his private room to buy game equipment, but he suspected that Liu Xiaojie took it. As a married man, the act of hiding private money is right or wrong, we leave it alone, but it is obvious that I have wasted my private money, but it is too strange to suspect my other half.
As for the other, it is Jin Bo, Liu Xiaomin's ex-husband. To paraphrase the Internet, Jin Bo is a complete "churning stick".
Over the years, Liu Xiaomin worked alone in Beijing, although he lived a very hard life, but later met Chen Zhuo, opened a sweet love belonging to middle-aged people, and his life was plain and happy.
However, since Jin Jiajun came to the capital, Liu Xiaomin's peaceful days have been broken.
Although Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo have divorced, but Jin Jiajun is always Liu Xiaomin's son, the son wants his mother, come to run to his mother, it is not too big a thing, but later Jin Bo this guy also came to Beijing, not only cheekily to Liu Xiaomin to rub rice, even the money he stayed in the hotel in Beijing, is Liu Xiaomin out.
If the two are still husband and wife, we can also say that he is a soft rice man, although annoying, but can also reluctantly accept.
Now the two have been divorced for many years, and when the two divorced, they had a very unpleasant quarrel, they had long since become independent individuals, not even friends, and they didn't know who gave this guy the face.
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According to Wang Sumin, Jin Bo's family was also one of the best in the family.
It is precisely for this reason that Wang Sumin arranged the marriage of his daughter and let Liu Xiaomin marry him.
(Although many people on the Internet are saying that Wang Sumin ruined her daughter's happiness, I don't agree much with this sentence - not to say that Wang Sumin does not have a God perspective, will not think that her daughter and son-in-law will come to the later point, and I think that the parents of that era, in fact, most of them are also like this, Wang Sumin chose Jin Bo as a son-in-law, one is that Jin Bo's parents are good people, they have helped them a lot, but because of the economic conditions of Jin Bo's family, at least can give their daughter stable material security in the second half of her life. ）
Although the direct cause of Jin Bo's fallout with Liu Xiaomin was that Liu Xiaomin wrote letters to others, the root was still on Jin Bo.
On the one hand, Jin Bo is always drunk, drunk on the drunk crazy, such a man, there are few women can stand, for this reason, the two have not less conflict, if it is not Wang Sumin has been to prevent it, perhaps not wait for Jin Jiajun to be born, the two have been divorced.
As for the second, it is because Jin Bo himself is not working hard enough -
In my intuition, Liu Xiaomin when she was young should be regarded as a literary and artistic young woman, in addition to material life, they also need the other half to be able to resonate with her soul.
If Jin Bo can realize this, improve his cultural accomplishment, and Liu Xiaomin is not only a husband and wife, but also a soul mate, even if he wants to drive away Liu Xiaomin, Liu Xiaomin will not leave.
If a marriage is broken up, it cannot be the responsibility of either party, but in comparison, they can go to the point of blowing the lamp and pulling out the wax, and Jin Bo's responsibility seems to be even greater.
Perhaps, it was because Jin Bo's parents had always been very accustomed to him that they let him lie flat early.
We often say that men can only really grow up if they have lost.
But this does not seem to apply much to Jin Bo.
Because he always drank and went crazy, Liu Xiaomin divorced him, but from his later performance, the divorce did not seem to have much impact on him, and he still wanted to drink and go crazy if he wanted to.
When he first divorced, Jin Bo fought for the custody of the child, but after Liu Xiaomin left his hometown, he did not take much care of the child, but instead threw the child to Wang Sumin.
When Chen Jiajia chatted with Jin Jiajun, Chen Jiajia asked Jin Jiajun whether he was with his father or with his mother, and Jin Jiajun said that he did not follow anyone, but it was not an angry word.
Later, Jin Bo's parents died, and in addition to drinking, Jin Bo added another skill, that is, losing money.
Although I don't know what kind of business Jin Bo has done, it can be seen that his ability to lose money is really very powerful, and even the house left to him by his parents has been taken by him to pay off the debt.
When he was desperate, he also asked his son to help others make up classes to make money, knowing that his son was thinking of being admitted to Tsinghua University, but in order to make money, he asked his son to give up his ideals.
Because of this, there was a matter of Jin Jiajun defecting to Liu Xiaomin, and as for himself, he fled to Beijing, it was also because he had nowhere to hide in his hometown.
I always feel that although Jin Bo is very opposed to Jin Jiajun going to Beijing to find Liu Xiaomin, in the depths of his heart, he may not want his son not to take this step, otherwise, he will not hide his son's ID card on the surface, but he will get the ID card in his hand after getting drunk and the ID card will be taken away by his son.
I even think that the reason why he did this was purely to pave the way for him to go to Beijing to find Liu Xiaomin.
The more I got into the story, the more I hated Jimbo.
Although I have always lived in small cities, I think that whether it is a big city or a small place, the rules and etiquette are actually the same, and after Jin Bo arrived in Beijing, he first found the place where Jin Jiajun made up for the class.
Although the security guard of the cram school was a bit excessive in this matter, he had no image of making a big fuss, and it was easy for his son to look up in front of his classmates.
Perhaps, in Jin Bo's mind, he had never thought about these questions.
Jin Bo rubbed rice at Liu Xiaomin's house, and Jin Bo pointed out that Liu Xiaomin paid for himself, which I can understand, after all, people will have lower moral requirements for themselves in the case of desperation.
However, Jin Bo asked Jin Jiajun to ask Liu Xiaomin for money, which more or less made people think that this guy's three views were not correct, and he was just fooling around, and he also wanted to take his son to the side, how to see it was a bit excessive.
The most speechless thing is that in the later story, Wang Sumin sent a sum of money to Jin Bo in order to make Jin Bo no longer bother his daughter and grandson, and after getting the envelope containing the money, Jin Bo also squeezed it with his hand.
Whether Wang Sumin's approach is right or wrong, we leave it alone, but in my intuition, Jin Bo's action of pinching the envelope is that Wang Sumin has given less.
If Wang Sumin is his mother, Jin Bo's approach is also a proper act of nibbling on the old, but Wang Sumin is only his former mother-in-law, and he does this, no matter how he looks at it, people think that this guy is a Dou who can't afford it.
I even think that the reason why Wang Sumin gave Jin Bo money is so that Jin Bo will no longer bother Xiao Min and Jin Jiajun, and when the money runs out, he will definitely find Liu Xiaomin and Jin Jiajun again.
After the tuition institution recognized Li Ping, Jin Bo immediately shyly wanted Li Ping's social account.
Although I don't know what kind of intersection there is between Li Ping, Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin, but from the fact that Li Ping and Liu Xiaomin have been in the same city for so many years, there is not much intersection, and the past between them will not be happy.
Therefore, for Jin Bo's request, Li Ping immediately refused.
I think that as an adult, even if the other party did not explicitly say, Li Ping's approach to this would have already made her attitude clear. However, later in order to apply for a job, he found Li Ping again, although Li Ping repeatedly refused, but Jin Bo was stalking, there was really no move, Li Ping had to agree with a hard scalp. In the end, it was Li Ping who lied about having a meeting before sending Jin Bo away.
When people reach middle age, they always have such helplessness, and many times, we have to surrender our weapons to life, and we bow our knees in a low voice.
But I think that even if life makes us fall a hundred times, we have to get up a hundred and one times, not because of the dreams of our youth, but because we know that there are many people around us who need to be taken care of, and if we are decadent, they will lose their greatest dependence.
I think that even if we can't be heroes of our parents' proud children, we must do our best to make their lives more comfortable.
Lying flat is not what you want to lie down, you can lie down if you want to. If young people choose to lie flat, we can say that they are less than more; if the elderly choose to lie flat, we have no reason to be harsh; only middle-aged people, once they choose to lie flat, are irresponsible, that is, they can't afford to support Adou.
No matter what kind of pain you encountered the night before, you must pick up the spirits and get back on the road the next day.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）