People have passed the age of 60, although they are not old, but some things are really not suitable for doing anymore, and strive to go from less to no longer, and they will be at peace in their old age.
First, do not be too soft in the world, although soft heart is not a disease, but too soft heart will almost kill people.
You can be soft in some situations or soft on some people, but you can't be soft in any situation or with anyone. In any case or soft heart to anyone, it is no longer a so-called goodwill, but a self-pleasing suffering. When kindness has no sharp edge, it will experience that people are good and being deceived, which is the reality in life that cannot bear to look at directly. In addition, do not be wishful thinking in the world, such as treating relatives and friends, if you are willing to give relatives and friends all kinds of consideration, it is very likely that you will often exchange the betrayal or failure of relatives and friends. Wishful thinking only makes others look more emotional, in fact, let others not accept your affection, in the end you will suffer losses and be deceived.
Second, do not turn the rest of your life into an island, and in your old age, do not hide in the house all the time, and it is wise to choose some relatives and friends who are worth moving around and frequent.
To interact with everyone around you or not to interact with anyone around you is actually going to the extremes of two different directions. If you interact with everyone around you, you will be in the quagmire of human feelings; if you don't interact with anyone around you, you will be like living on an island. It is wise to use the method of screening to carefully select new circles of communication, so that the rest of your life can use human feelings and will not be burdened by human feelings. In addition, we must pay attention to our own physical health, and paying attention to physical health is not only the behavior of being responsible for ourselves, but also the behavior of being responsible for our family. However, if there is a serious problem in the body, at the same time as suffering, the money earned may not be enough for the medical expenses, and the children have to contribute both money and strength.
Third, do not worry too much about the life or work of your children, children and grandchildren will naturally have the unique blessings of children and grandchildren, and the facts will prove that you are too worried and redundant.
Worry about children to stop at the right time, do not be a cow and a horse for their children, and leave a certain space for the lives of their children, so that the next generation can achieve better development. In addition, if you can not lose your temper with your closest relatives at home, you will not lose your temper with your closest relatives at home, if you have a very high self-esteem, so that you can point fingers at your closest relatives at home, and you can't lose your temper with your closest relatives at every turn, you will not only find yourself unhappy but also create unpleasantness for your close relatives, even if there is no contradiction at the moment, it will also be rooted in the hidden danger of contradictions in the future.
Conclusion: Even if you are older, you need to have surplus money in your hand, it is easy to do things with money, it is difficult to do things without money, let alone give the rest of the money to your children in your lifetime or before you are conscious, you have extra money in your hands to have confidence, and your life in your later years can talk about both quality and dignity.
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