The gap between Liu Xiaomin and her son and Li Ping quarreling in front of her daughter is definitely a painful wound.
Look at Li Ping's posture, is this the ex-wife, definitely the current wife is teaching the whole family to come out of the child.
The distance between this is a difference between a good ex-husband.
Don't say that she has money, even if Li Ping has no money, she can definitely come back to her ex-husband's house and continue to fight with her daughter and let her daughter develop in the direction that normal children should go.
Nothing to do with love, no love, the wind and moon are all nothing, just to have a common connection, she and Chen Zhuo's daughter, Chen Jiajia.
Such a divorce relationship is the most comfortable, Chen Jiajia under the care of her parents, life is sunny, brilliant, chivalrous.
Whether there are wounds on her body, I think there are, but she is happier and more sunny than the children of the average able-bodied family, which is also unquestionable, has nothing to do with the economic foundation, she lives a dashing and happy life, she lives herself, such a girl is the sun.
Divorced family out of the sun. (This sentence, I wrote crying)
On the contrary, Li Jiajun grew up in what environment, his father drank and ignored him, threw him to his grandmother, and his mother left him nothing but an embarrassing reputation.
His upbringing, the shattered family, the love he received, there was, was his own boy, who did not love, but his father loved himself even more, and by the way slandered the other.
Therefore, on Jin Jiajun's body, you can only feel gloomy, introverted, lack of love and silence.
The only thing to be thankful for is his cleverness.
Sad, hateful, whose fault, heartache, is it possible to redeem?
The end of a marriage, no children, can be broken crisply and neatly, do not see each other at the end of the world.
But with children, the character of the other party is definitely the decisive factor, and a good character is like Chen Zhuo, who invests in each other's care for the child.
As for the opposite, that is, to let the children of the college entrance examination make money for themselves, and it is polite to pit the ex-wife.
Jin Bo is definitely the relatively good one, because the reality is too unbearable, just as this drama is a love fairy tale that abandons economic problems.
Encountered, please stop the loss in time, the sooner the better, later you will thank you for withdrawing early.
If you are pregnant, there are many good examples, such as Jia Qian, who lives in Iceland, such as the famous host Lu Yu, who is divorced with a big belly and miscarried with a big belly.
Many people accuse, but please ask yourself, the child is born, you and the child's father are not clear, not to mention, can you bring all the love to the child, can the father's love be supplemented?
Can you refuse the right to visit, in reality, yes, biologically fathers can be separated, the child's growth is not sound. Don't say no, your child can be born, of course, you also have the right to see the father, you are difficult to involve.
Can children thank you for bringing them into the world?
People who live happily want to ask what position to stand on the moral high ground and respect life.
In "Xiao Min's Family", Liu Xiaomin is willing to give up, so she deserves to suffer these sins, is that the price?
So the child she is responsible, so and the ex-husband's grace and resentment, no matter what the ex-husband let the child do, she deserves it?
No, the child should be born in happiness, or in the strong will of the mother, and her mother must at least have the confidence to give her child enough love to face the cruelty of reality.
If not, it is cruel to the child and to the mother, so Lu Yu is right in their choice.
Broken and clean, the child and the mother are a kind of rest, so that they can refuse to be involved, refuse to see the lower limit that is constantly refreshed, and reject the never-ending pain of themselves and their children.
Sometimes cruelty doesn't have to be cruel, not necessarily without love. There is no mother who does not love her children, and the choice with endless pain is to let go of each other, but also to be cruel and eternally hurt to herself.
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