No money, no face, no talent, no meter eight, "ordinary" boys really can't attract girls? Of course, today I will share with my brothers five kinds of boys who never lack girls around, as long as you can become one of them, it is a matter of minutes.
I. Injured, experienced "old man"
All girls want to have a safe boy, yes, all, and if this guy has ever been hurt by a bad woman, it's even more perfect, after all, no girl can refuse a boyfriend who can both give her a sense of security and show her maternal brilliance.
For example, if you go to buy something, the mall is new, but the price is also expensive, and it may take you a long time and effort to adjust to achieve the effect you want. But at this time you find a second-hand product somewhere else, although it is second-hand, but the price and depreciation are better than you think, and his previous "master" has "tuned" him well, you can use it immediately when you buy it, and even the effect is better than you think.
I know that many boys will often short-circuit the brain in the face of the girls they like, do not know how to attract girls, if the brothers really can't find a way, then you come to my public number: Wang Baiyi, give you a high emotional intelligence strategy, hand in hand to teach you to read the subtext of girls, easily hold their careful thoughts.
Second, experienced, highly thinking boys
Girls are actually emotional animals most of the time, just like children. Therefore, when you know how to regulate and soothe their emotions, chasing girls and maintaining feelings is as simple as drinking water for you.
So what to do? Quite simply, don't cling to the truth, don't be preoccupied, but don't blindly cater to it. You can treat the girl as your own daughter, take care of her emotions from the perspective of your father, establish rules for her, and the hidden meaning behind her words and actions, you can read it as soon as you listen to it and see it, and find a way to cope with it. Of course, it is more difficult to achieve this last point, and it requires the accumulation of experience.
Third, a boy with a sense of mystery
Girls are all strange details, their emotional intelligence is generally higher than that of boys, so for the opposite sex to approach them, even if it is emotional white, after a period of contact, you can find the intention of boys. She is willing to accompany you to act because they are curious about what you will do in the future, and what else you have that she has not found, but if you expose all your sense of need at the beginning and disclose all your information, then the girl will feel very bored, and she will not be interested in continuing to play with you later.
Therefore, those boys who know how to create a "sense of mystery" are like cats seeing catnip for girls, and they are out of control, making her very popular. And what you have to do is also very simple, learn to push and pull, learn to create a sense of mystery, a sense of contrast, the girl herself will unconsciously fall in love with you in the process of exploring you.
Fourth, boys who know how to chat
You may think that chatting is simple, but the premise of really chatting is to mobilize the emotions of the other party and achieve empathy. You are very good at chatting, but can you talk about the girl "hi", can you talk about her crying, let her have the feeling of "I understand you" and "you understand me"? If you can, then you must also be a master of the love field.
5. "Herbivorous" boys
For boys, the girls of the "pure desire department" have an irresistible attraction, and for girls, the boys of the "herbivorous system" and "widowhood department" have a fatal attraction, because this is their ideal "Prince Charming" image, clean and refreshing, knowledgeable, confident and optimistic, responsible but pure. Seeing this type of boy, the girl's deep desire to "eat meat" will be stimulated, and the more you resist and be shy, the more crazy and excited she is.