According to the People's Daily News, a married man in Henan pretended to be a perfect boyfriend and had three girlfriends at the same time. The most frightening thing is that he can make these three girls, each of whom feels that he is the only one. And during the relationship, the man cheated nearly 1.2 million from 3 people. As soon as the news came out, it triggered heated discussion among netizens.
It is understood that the married man is Cai Mou, who met 3 girlfriends through social software. The three girlfriends all look very well-conditioned, beautiful, tall, and have a certain amount of financial strength. When netizens heard this news, they felt very curious, how could such an excellent 3 girls be tricked by Cai Mou?
What is the charm of a man
The reporter interviewed the three girls and learned that this Cai Mou was very good at playing routines. First of all, he is very good at dressing up and has a stylish appearance. When interacting with girlfriends, he behaves very magnanimously, often giving gifts and surprises.
Secondly, Cai will take care of people, be considerate of each girlfriend, and call them babies or daughters-in-law.
Finally, Cai said to the 3 girls that he was in love for the purpose of marriage. In order to gain the trust of his girlfriends, Cai actually took all three of them home to meet his parents. The above three points are combined, the girlfriends gradually fall, and everyone feels that they are the only ones.
Deception and deception
It is said that when a girl falls in love, the IQ becomes negative. After being with Cai, as long as the other party asks for money, the girlfriends will agree. One of his girlfriends, Zhao Mou, said that Cai often borrowed money from her on the grounds of doing business. Before and after, he lent 300,000 yuan, including his brother's tuition and the money he bought a car. The money on his body is gone, and Zhao Mou does not hesitate to borrow online loans.
There is also a girlfriend who is even more miserable, and was cheated out of 850,000 by Cai. Together, the three girlfriends were defrauded of nearly 1.2 million. Of course, this is only the three girlfriends who have been exposed, and it is reported that Cai has many other girlfriends.
The reason why Cai's deceitful plan will be discovered is because two of the three girlfriends know each other, and by chance, the two learn that their boyfriend is actually a person. In addition, on Valentine's Day, one of the girlfriends found that her boyfriend ordered 3 bouquets of flowers, which were given to three people. On Valentine's Day, Cai ran three or four times, hovering between different women.
After the three girlfriends found out that they had been cheated, their first reaction was to ask Cai for money. Cai Mou saw that he could not hide it, so he directly played missing. When the girlfriends saw the situation, they chose to call the police. At present, Cai mou has been arrested by the police. The funny thing is that when the three girlfriends found the man to confront, they surrounded him as soon as they met and beat the man into a pig's head.
The news was once on the hot search, and netizens rushed to see the liveliness. Some netizens said that in this era, there are really anyone. In the past, it was said that women love money, but I didn't expect that men who love to eat soft rice abound, no wonder many young people are afraid of love, that is, they are afraid of being deceived into money.
Some netizens said that this year to find an object must polish the eyes, the most important thing is to determine the relationship, figure out the bottom of the other party, do not look at the surface phenomenon to confuse.
Of course, in this incident, the 3 girlfriends themselves are also problematic. Thinking so intently for Cai's sake is nothing more than the conditions for the other party's gold and handsomeness, if it is changed to short and poor, I am afraid there will not be so many things. When looking for an object, the most taboo thing is to look at the material or physical conditions. If the material conditions are good, there is certainly no shortage of girls around, unless it is the right door, it is difficult to develop for a long time. And the appearance is even more illusory, with the passage of time, the good look is no longer there, the good feeling naturally disappears. The best relationship in love or marriage is one of equal strength and the same view.
In addition, everyone needs to remember that no matter how good the feelings are during the relationship, you must be cautious when money is exchanged. During the festival, it is understandable to give gifts and send red envelopes. But if the other party asks for money for a long time, he will have to be careful, and the other party is likely to come for money.
There is an old saying that makes sense, that is, "the nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to move." Don't be blindly confident and naively think that you will change the essence of the other scumbag. In the end, it is only yourself who is hurt. Therefore, in the process of communication, once it is found that the other party has principle problems that they cannot tolerate, they must stop the loss in time.
There is a popular saying on the Internet that there are several types of girls who are easy to provoke scumbags. First of all, the vision is small, and it is easy for men to give a little favor. The second is greedy for money, mainly paying money, more active than men. The last point is the giving personality, seeing that men are not having a good life, the Virgin's heart is flooded, always thinking about how to be good to men. Everyone can observe and find that women who are independent and self-reliant do not have such people around them. Different circles, different people encountered, so if you want to find excellent objects, you must first improve yourself.
Of course, this year's scum is not limited to gender, men and women have three views of the wrong people. Compared with the past, today's feelings have indeed become no longer pure, so that many young people have lost the motivation to pursue love, which is the change brought about by the development of the times.