The wife or child is not the closest in the case of some unsatisfactory circumstances, and the closest person will be born.
First, the closest people must first count their parents, there is a count, after all, parents usually die one after another, if the parents can live a long life, it can be said that it is a great blessing in the old age.
Parents will only give for their children and will not ask their children to reciprocate, so parents can say that they are selflessly dedicated to their children. If the parents are still alive, even if only one of them is alive, they need to do it and cherish it. Parents' starting point is for the good of their children, relative to the wife may have a situation where they fly separately in the face of great difficulties, relative to the children may have a situation of no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and parents care for their children consistently. Parents not only give you life, but also give you a home, and raise you to adulthood, parents are like the source of life, with practical actions to parents as the closest people are the source of drinking water.
Second, to regard yourself as the dearest person, not selfish, but self-love, if you have experienced the cold and warm of human feelings, through the heat of the world, you will find that the reliable person is ultimately yourself.
After all, parents cannot accompany you for the rest of your life, parents will leave sooner or later, and when you can rely on yourself, you will be able to stand up to the sky. Whether outsiders will look down on you, whether friends and relatives will look up to you, the key depends on whether you value yourself, and it is closely related to your own strength. When you change yourself, the environment around you changes with it. When people reach old age, they regard themselves as a powerful reliance, and even if they are seven or eighty, they will be comfortable. Have enough savings in hardware, have a house in their own name, have a body that can take care of themselves; have a good attitude in software, and their mentality is both calm and ambitious, both tough and strong. Hardware and software go hand in hand, and you will become your own unquestionable dependence.
Brothers and sisters are entitled to be the closest people, only because they are siblings of the same mother and carry water. Although there are rumors of brothers and sisters disagreement, but only a small group of people, to deal with the relationship between brothers and sisters, can not because of the emergence of black sheep because of choking food.
Siblings are almost the only relationships you can take care of from childhood to adulthood, from birth to death. The reason why brothers and sisters are the companions of this life is because there is indeed evidence for analysis from the perspective of time span. When encountering an urgent need, brothers and sisters look at both blood thicker than water and the face of their parents, brothers and sisters will not sit idly by, unlike most outsiders who stand by and watch, often have money to pay, powerful contribution. Numerous examples have proven that brothers and sisters are a backup force, and both sides are always ready to support each other at critical moments.
Conclusion: Deal with the relationship with the wife, weigh the relationship with the children, do not bet, in addition to the relationship between the wife and the children, it is still necessary to carefully maintain some relationships, either as a way forward, or as a retreat.
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