When a person's circle is relatively small, there is no suitable opposite sex around, blind dates, it is always a good way.
Even in the process of blind date, most of the time, the people we meet will only be uneven, and it will not be the type of person we like, but there are always some moments when the other party just happens to be very good to their liking, and all aspects are very good.
Originally, it was necessary to constantly try your luck, and it would be bad luck, and it would be just good luck.
Of course, if you don't like it, you can just count it out and don't have to go to the next step. If we like it, of course, we should not easily miss it, and we should keep in touch with each other and strive for a possibility for ourselves.
Like sending each other a message from time to time, talking to each other to deepen their relationship.
Have a good feeling for the blind date, when we take the initiative, some people, he will be very enthusiastic to respond, will be as enthusiastic as us, but there are always people, no matter how active we are, what topic we are looking for, it is just very cold.
Either it was just perfunctory, or it simply didn't respond to messages, or at first, they would occasionally talk to us for a while, but gradually they would never reply to our messages again.
In this case, we don't have to think so much, even if we like it, it is best not to send it again, and we can directly give up on the other party.
If you don't reply to the message, you don't want to continue.
And our blind date, if he only occasionally replies a little late, the late reply will explain the reason to us, and obviously still quite willing to continue to understand with us, we don't have to think so much.
In the adult world, there will be some things that need to be busy, and it is normal that they will not always reply in time.
But if the other party does not reply at all, not for an hour without replying, not for six hours without replying, not twenty-four hours without replying, not forty-eight hours without replying, but not returning no matter how long it has been, this is of course unusual.
It's not that the person he's dating us treats us like this, it's not that he's really busy, he doesn't even have time to reply to messages, it's not that he doesn't know how to chat with us, it always needs to be considered, but it's just that he doesn't want to chat with us.
We will have a crush on a blind date, but that doesn't mean that the other person will be the same as us.
There are always times when we look at each other, think that the other party is very good, and expect to have something to do with each other, but the other party does not have such a mind for us.
Instead of wanting to go further with us, he just wants to stay away from us and not have any contact with us.
For him, even receiving news from us is just a burden, and what he wants more is that we don't keep sending.
You know, for those who are interested in us, he will not reply to the message, will only take the initiative to find us, will only give a good response when we take the initiative, for fear of snubbing us and letting himself miss the opportunity.
And when a person does not take the initiative and does not reply to the message, he is actually telling us in this way that we do not have to send it again, he is not interested in us, and hopes that we can understand the meaning behind his non-reply and be able to be interesting.
Abandon him and go back to finding someone new.
Blind dates are such a thing, willing to go on a blind date, that just shows that each other hopes to find a suitable person.
Even so, it is still wishful thinking, and we need to feel that the other party is good at the same time, and the other party also feels the same way.
If that's exactly what happens to be with each other, keep in touch, and then continue to understand, see if each other can have a good development, can really go to everything, have a good start and follow-up.
If in a blind date, only unilateral intention, this intention, really is not so meaningful.
Unilaterally have a good feeling for the other party, we can try to fight, but when our initiative is only ignored by the other party, the other party is not willing to give us a look, and we do not have to insist.
Since the other party feels inappropriate, completely excludes the possibility, and is not willing to give us any opportunity to reject us by not replying to the message, we do not have to like him, we must let him like himself.
Just forget him, and then continue to go on a blind date, continue to live, to find the real right half,
It doesn't matter, in a blind date, anyone may be rejected, sometimes they both choose to reject, sometimes we choose to reject others, sometimes others choose to reject us.
Rejecting others, others rejecting us, that is a very normal thing, there is no shame, it is all on the road to true love, everyone may encounter things, will experience twists and turns.
Don't be discouraged, just be normal, keep looking, and one day, we will get what we want.
Yes, if the blind date does not reply to the message, it can be abandoned.
It seems that the other party did not reply, but the silence of the other party is actually a reply.
But anyone who cares about us a little and wants to maintain a relationship with us will not turn a blind eye to our news, do not reply to us only a few words, but directly as if they have not received.
When a person chooses this, he does not want to continue, but is embarrassed to say it.
In many people's minds, it is better to directly refuse, that will appear to be somewhat hurtful, and it would be better not to reply directly.
I feel that it can not only make the other party understand their own meaning, but also retain a decent.
Occasionally, we will do this to others, and occasionally, we will allow others to do this to us.
Don't take it too seriously, you can't receive a reply message, just delete the dialog box, don't open it again, don't take the initiative again. Since then, he has tacitly withdrawn from the other party's world.
Text/Tan Meng
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