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01. Preface
Love, it is colorful, showing different colors in the years.
Some people think that love is red, warm and brave; some people feel that love is gray, always hiding disappointment and sadness that people can't see.
Love is expressed in different ways, and men and women taste different tastes of love.
Women are born for love, and once they are deeply in love with a man, they will always be tempted to put all their enthusiasm into it, just to win the man's favor.
Zhu Yaoxie once said: "In terms of love, women may be very strong, or they may be very cowardly." Either she loves others or accepts the love of others, and once she is in love, she will be willing to obey if she is ordered to drill into the fire. ”
For women, love is like a huge ice cube, as the heat of love increases, it gradually melts into water, covering a woman's entire life.
However, not all efforts can be understood and accepted by men. Because, men and women have different thoughts about expressing love.
A woman who loves a man from the depths of her soul to the extreme will be "cold" at certain moments.
02, after the misunderstanding, the cold to the extreme
When a woman loves a man deeply from the heart, she will expect the man to have the ability to manage love and hope that they can accompany each other for the rest of their lives.
Joe Byron once said, "Love is nothing but an external thing for men, but a whole life for women." ”
When a woman clashes with a man, she will be very sad, always wanting to see what kind of attitude men will have towards the problems caused by each other.
In love, women love very emotionally. They are often more concerned not with the contradiction itself, but with the attitude of men towards contradiction.
If a man does not treat problems positively and snubbs women, then she may become more "cold".
Because I care, I will gamble and try to test whether men love her or not. Because of deep love, she will be very angry, and expect men to coax her with their hearts in the Cold War.
After a conflict, the woman shows "cold", sometimes waiting for the man to turn around first and hug her. It only takes a man's "compromise" to make all the negative emotions in her heart disappear.
Love to the extreme, so the more you care about men's attitude toward contradictions, the attitude towards love.
03, when there are friends of the opposite sex around men, it will be very cold
When a woman loves a man deeply, she wants love to be single-minded and wants the man to remain loyal to her.
Because, a man's loyalty is a way for a woman to gain a sense of security. At the same time, the more a man can keep his heart, the more he can make the woman feel that he loves her deeply.
Therefore, once a man has a friend of the opposite sex around him, she will be angry, will suffer from gain and loss, and even get angry and become very "cold".
When a man has friends of the opposite sex by his side and a woman becomes very cold, it is because of the feeling of disappointment in her heart, the attitude of questioning feelings.
The deeper the love, the more afraid of losing. The deeper the love, the more angry you will be after you have friends of the opposite sex around the man.
Men, when women are jealous, please explain in time, do not let women in speculation, chilled.
A warm hug and three love words can ignite the fire of love in a woman's heart. Don't wait until the woman is desperate to explain, then love has no trust.
04, when men act out they don't love her, she's cold
Good love is a two-way rush, and two people need to express love together and pay each other together. However, many lovers, when they are together, always forget to express love.
When a woman loves a man and loves to the extreme, she will be willing to pay and be willing to spend time to take care of men.
However, if men always ignore women's efforts, or when women give, they do not give back love in time and do not pay, then women will not feel men's love.
The more a woman loves a man, the more she will mind what the man gives her.
If so, in life, men always act unconcerned and show that they don't love her. Women will also be cold-hearted, and their behavior will become very cold.
The more a woman loves a man, the more she will be afraid that men will not have the heart to treat love, afraid that their affection will be betrayed.
When a woman feels that the man does not love her enough, the coldness she shows is actually to attract the attention of men, to make men care more about her.
So, when women start to act cold, men may wish to introspect themselves more and give more love.
05. Summary
Love is an embellishment in life, which can make a person's life icing on the cake. However, if you love the wrong person, it will become a stumbling block on the road of life.
Pope once said, "The joy of love cannot end in a passionate embrace." Love must have a constant quality, to love yourself, but also to love each other. ”
Women, no matter how much they love a man, must also set aside three points of mind to love themselves. The more women who love themselves, the easier it is to be respected by men and cherished by men.
Love requires two people to operate with heart together. So, man, when a woman is disappointed because of contradictions, because of misunderstandings, because she loves too much, don't snub her.
The coldness expressed by women in these three moments is actually telling the man how much she loves him.
The more you love, the more you will be afraid of losing. When you encounter true love, please cherish it with your heart and do not live up to the affection of women.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.