Author | Cheng zi
Yang Chen's father, Mr. Yang Yinhang, once said a sentence:
"Educating children to be independent is better than being the first."
Educating children can not be excellent, but it cannot be independent.
When the child is still young,
Parents should establish a sufficiently intimate psychological connection for him;
But as the child grows up,
Graceful withdrawal is a compulsory course for parents.
After all
We can only accompany the children halfway,
Let go early and let the child become independent,
Only then can they go further and further.
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Develop your child's self-drive
02
Let your child take on the chores within their reach
03
Encourage your child to dare to express themselves
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Let the child decide
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Allow children to make mistakes and take responsibility for them
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Guide your child to think independently
Write at the back:
Someone said:
"The greatest success of parents is not to live in the armor of children,
Instead, let the child grow his own solid armor. ”
Care and separation are both tasks that parents must accomplish for their children.
Every visionary parent should understand that
The child has his own life trajectory that he should experience,
Let go and let the child discover, to bear, to experience,
Only children can have a healthier and more complete personality.
Compared to love in every detail,
Psychologically intimate, physically independent,
It is the best education for children.
Click a "like", from today to give children a boundary love, let the child grow independently!
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Author: Cheng Zi. Some of the pictures are from the Internet, and the copyright belongs to the original author.