Yang Yinhang, the father of mr. Yang Dai, a talented woman, once said: "My children have no inheritance, I only educate them to be able to stand on their own." ”
In Mr. Yang's view, educating children to be independent is better than being the first.
It is true that he did not leave any inheritance for his children, but the children were all successful in their studies and self-reliance.
Fathers in particular had a profound influence on their daughters as they grew up.
Unlike the gentleness and delicacy of the mother, the bravery, optimism and thick lines of the father are very helpful to the cultivation of the daughter's character.
As the saying goes, raising a good girl can affect and change the happiness of three generations.
Don't set limits on girls' growth, don't instill the stereotype of "girls should be what they want", and let girls pursue their dreams.
When they encounter adversity, they will have more courage to face everything.
If we can make them have the following qualities, our girls will definitely be better.
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Psychologist Li Meijin once said this:
"Many families are working hard to cultivate girls in the direction of everyone's boudoir.
But a beautiful girl, once married to a rogue, has no ability to protect herself, because when she was a child, she was educated to be particularly civilized, polite, and self-denying.
But others are not self-disciplined, others will bully and hurt these beautiful girls. ”
Therefore, the so-called rich girl must not be materially rich, and she is placed in the greenhouse without wind and rain.
It is especially important to raise a girl, cultivate an independent personality, an optimistic spirit, and give her the courage to persist in her dreams.
What are your tips on raising girls?
The author | Xu Diandian, Source: Uncle Kai Storytelling (ID: kaishujianggushi).
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