Introduction: Giving birth to a child for women, is the most obvious impact of change, perhaps in the first child when there is not much feeling, but until after the birth of the second child, many mothers instantly feel that they are a lot older, feel directly from youth to the state of old age. All aspects of the body, memory, etc. have become much worse, and the whole person looks particularly "aging".
For these, I don't know if you mothers have this feeling? And why do women feel that they are getting a lot older after giving birth? From a young girl to a woman, a woman to a big aunt, "a silly three years of pregnancy, a second child ten years old", this is the price that mothers need to pay for pregnancy, and why is it that having children is so obvious for women?
First of all, we need to understand that the consumption of the female body for having children is already large, and the over-consumed body is easy to become aging.
Pregnant baby requires the mother to consume a lot of body nutrition as a supply, sometimes our daily nutrition intake is insufficient, the mother's body will automatically use its own nutrient storage as compensation to ensure the normal development of the fetus. Therefore, many mothers will become old after giving birth to their babies, and the whole person is "out of shape", because of too much nutrient loss.
And many mothers will have the distress of out of shape after giving birth to the baby, and the figure is out of shape, especially the increase in the fat of the waist, abdomen and back, the whole person looks very bulky, and the temperament has also become much worse. Coupled with the deterioration of skin after giving birth to a child, it directly deprives many mothers of their original girlish feeling.
And the elderly physique really can not be compared with the young age, many mothers when they give birth to the second child is already 30+ years old, even close to the boundaries of advanced maternal age, the body's metabolic power has not been as good as before, after giving birth to the baby from the figure to the skin is difficult to restore to the original appearance, and even began to continue to decline.
Secondly, after giving birth to the second child, there will be a greater psychological change, and psychological maturity will make mothers have a sense of "getting old" from the inside out.
After giving birth to their second child, many mothers begin to have a new understanding of their role positioning, and even automatically divide themselves into women, elderly and other categories. In the past, after dressing up and giving birth to a baby, you may continue to pursue some exquisite, beautiful, age-reducing styles, but after giving birth to your second child, many mothers will no longer pursue these young states.
The responsibility of being a mother and the role of a mother of two children have made mothers more mature in their thinking and have undergone major changes in their mentality.
Finally, raising a second child and taking care of two children consumes a lot of energy from the mother and brings more pressure to the mother.
There is a great difference between raising two children and one child, mothers need to coordinate and balance the love and attention between dabao and erbao, and moms are committed to wanting to be a fair mom. But personal energy is often limited, and sometimes it is always difficult to balance because of their own negligence.
In the matter of taking care of children, mothers have spent a lot of energy, and the energy that can be spent on themselves has become very little, plus the usual time is spent on the baby, and there is no time to take care of themselves. The lack of energy and time to repair herself eventually made my mother get older and older.
In order to enable both children to achieve better development, mothers also bear a lot of pressure in their daily lives, and these pressures turn into anxiety in the hearts of mothers, urging people to grow old under the burden. After giving birth, the mother grows old in an instant, but she is willing to give herself for the sake of the child.
Important note: After giving birth to the second child, the mother feels that she has become a lot older, because the birth of the child has a great consumption of the mother's body itself, coupled with the poor physical recovery ability, it is easy to become old. The change in personal mentality and the increase in life pressure after giving birth to the baby will also make the mother get a lot older.
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