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"Sisters, if you plan to have a second child and a third child, you must be early, it is best to complete the big thing of having a child before the age of 30, don't delay it, otherwise all aspects are inadequate."
32-year-old cousin, who was just half a year old with a second child, said to us at a family gathering. She went on to say: "When I was born at the age of 25, I was like no one after giving birth, staying up late every day to coax the baby, and I was mentally unstable every day, I didn't feel tired at all, and I felt that the child was bigger in a flash.
Now the sin of the second child's pregnancy is not to be said, and when I was born, it felt like losing half a life. When confinement is spent staying up late at night with a baby, it is even more inadequate, mentally tired, everywhere is painful, the body feels seriously overwhelmed, and the confinement is wasted. Now holding a half-year-old baby is tired, and the figure is also seriously deformed, which is really a world away from when he was in charge of the boss. So you can be born early, and complete the life events in your 20s, otherwise you will really regret it. ”
My cousin's voice just fell, a cousin said I also want to have a baby early, but I can't find the right man, haha. People who came over advised: Give birth to a second child and a third child as soon as possible, and after the age of 30, all aspects are not enough.
When giving birth to a child in your 20s, you can first keep up with your physical strength and energy, and after the age of 30, it is obviously not good
How physically and energetic it takes to have a child, you know what you have been born. When I was young, my physical fitness was good, giving birth to a child was like playing, staying up late, taking a baby was not a problem, and my physical strength and energy could keep up. And at that time, the in-laws and parents were also young, which could help a little. It can be said that at that time, I didn't feel tired at all when I had a baby and a child.
After the age of 30, even if the body looks nothing on the outside, the body is indeed going downhill. Having a baby is a special expense
Laborious things. After the age of 30, if someone helps, or go to the confinement center, please take the confinement sister-in-law, which can minimize the physical fatigue, but the spirit and physical state can not be compared with the 20s.
Not to mention that no one helps, if you have to do everything yourself, stay up late to change diapers, milk babies sleep, sleep badly. During the day, you also have to manage the baby, do housework, and also manage the boss. Physical energy is really unable to keep up, the body is either this pain or that pain, aging is particularly fast and obvious.
Giving birth to a child in the 20s, the body recovers quickly, and the regeneration of the child in the 30s is easy to leave sequelae
Many female friends said that when they give birth to children in their 20s, they feel that they do not have to sit confinement, and their bodies are not affected anywhere. And after giving birth to a child, the body is restored without deliberate exercise, the appearance is also there, and the body has no sequelae. However, when children are born in their 30s, even if they are very carefully confined, they still cannot avoid the sequelae of back pain.
Many mothers around me say that many physical problems are obtained when they have a second child. The most important thing is that it is difficult to restore the figure to the past, even if it takes a lot of effort and spends a lot of money to sit and postpartum recovery and exercise, it will have little effect.
If you plan to have children, you should take advantage of your youth to complete less guilt. However, women give birth to babies too early, and the good youth is used to give birth to babies to see babies, and the material foundation is unstable. Having children later, you can live a few years of life and live for yourself for a few years. Therefore, no matter what kind of choice, there are pros and cons.
【Topic Discussion: Which one do you think is better to be born early and late?】 】
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