The TV series "Dear Child" ushered in the most controversial plot:
In order to cure his daughter Hehe, who suffered from leukemia, with umbilical cord blood, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were ready to have another child.
Two people who have been divorced for a long time and have another family will obviously have another child, which will obviously be difficult for the current partner to accept.
Xiao Lu's second wife, Dong Fan, learned of it, and immediately quarreled with Xiao Lu and filed for divorce the next day.
Love is inherently possessive. Dong Fan did not mind that Xiao Lu had a daughter who needed a lot of money, did not mind that Xiao Lu and himself proposed "Dink" has been quite restrained, and it is really deceitful to let her accept the union of her husband and ex-wife again.
Therefore, Dong Fan's reaction is reasonable and not surprising at all.
In contrast, Fang Yinuo's second-married husband, Xie Tianhua, behaved extremely abnormally.
Although Xie Tianhua was also quite excited after learning this news, he couldn't help but go to Xiao Lu immediately to "discuss the explanation".
But after calming down, he not only accepted Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's approach, but also resolutely disagreed with Fang Yinuo's request for divorce, and even said that he would raise her child as his own.
Xie Tianhua has a wooden personality, is silent and taciturn, and his kindness to others will only be reflected in his silent payment, and he is a typical honest person.
He has always taken the other person to heart since he liked the upper one in college, and even after witnessing her marrying his good friend and becoming a mother after conceiving in October, he has not changed his heart for her.
This has led to him remaining single for so many years, and as long as Fang Yinuo has needs, he will stand up to help the other party solve problems and get rid of it as a spare tire for 10,000 years.
However, unlike most spare tires, Xie Tianhua got a chance to "turn right".
Because Fang Yinuo divorced Xiao Lu, he was worried that his daughter Hehe would become psychologically unhealthy due to lack of father's love, and finally chose to marry Xie Tianhua for the second time under the mediation of people around him.
And in order to make up for the injustice to Xie Tianhua, Fang Yinuo also changed his previous maverick life style and took the initiative to integrate into the life of the Xie family, even if he faced Xie Tianhua's sister from time to time sneering, he could swallow his anger.
If it weren't for The fact that Hehe suddenly suffered from acute leukemia, Xie Tianhua, an honest man, might have had a good ending.
But unfortunately, there was no if, Hehe's illness swept in like a storm of destruction and decay, which not only made a mess of Xie Tianhua's ideal life, but also overturned his "disguise" and let his pathology unfold completely.
Because Fang Yinuo resolutely did not accept the money provided by Xiao Lu, the cost of treating Hehe fell on Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua.
The same expenses as the "bottomless pit" made the two who were not rich become extremely poor, seeing that there was no way to sustain it any longer, the most reasonable approach was undoubtedly to persuade Fang Yinuo to put aside his prejudices, accept Xiao Lu's funding, and tide over the difficulties together.
But Xie Tianhua did not do this, preferring to do black-hearted business "with no conscience", and even planned to sell the house that had earned half a lifetime of money, rather than persuade Fang Yinuo to accept Xiao Lu's funding.
Is Xie Tianhua 's "swollen face and fat" just because he is afraid that Fang Yinuo will not be happy?
Obviously not, after all, Fang Yinuo had begun to gradually let Xiao Lu accompany Hehe alone, as long as Xie Tianhua made a timely match, it was sooner or later for her to accept Xiao Lu's financial support.
But we can clearly see that after Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo got closer and closer because of taking care of Hehe, Xie Tianhua began to have a sense of distance for Xiao Lu. Even if Xiao Lu repeatedly proposed to bear the cost, Xie Tianhua was confused every time.
I think that the reason why Xie Tianhua was unwilling to promote Xiao Lu's payment for medical treatment was that he was worried that Fang Yinuo would "change his mind."
He knew that his economic strength was not as good as Xiao Lu's, and no Xiao Lu would make girls happy, and he was not Fang Yinuo's ideal type.
It was not easy for Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo to break up, and he also waited for the opportunity of "spare tire to be corrected", honest people in order to protect their love, this time decided to be "not honest" once, proving that only relying on themselves can also do.
But Xie Tianhua's ideas were actually too idealistic.
He loved so lowly that he could not arouse Fang Yinuo's love for him, but could only exchange her gratitude and guilt, this kind of marriage without love is what he wants? Can it really accompany him through the remaining decades of life?
What's more, even if he raised Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's two children as his own flesh and blood as he wished, how would he deal with the cold eyes of the people around him and the confusion when the children grew up?
Xie Tianhua used idealism to whitewash his illusion, thinking that as long as he "stood up" he could carry everything, in fact, whether it was economic difficulties or ethical issues, he could not carry it alone.
In addition, Xie Tianhua's performance is also a little pathological.
He faces the devastating blow and humiliation of the marriage, and will only be pitifully begging for mercy, giving up the last dignity of the honest man.
Such a person is unattractive, does not make people feel uncomfortable, because such a negative character is so attached to feelings, which is not only abnormal but also anti-human.
In case there is a "last straw that crushes the camel" in his life, such a sick personality combined with his daily gloomy performance can easily make him appear a retaliatory personality, which makes people think about it very carefully.
To sum up, I think that Xie Tianhua, played by Nie Yuan in "Dear Child", is not just an honest person, he lost himself in the process of pursuing Fang Yinuo and became a pathological idealist.