Most of the child's behavior comes from adults, children do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, how adults say, how to do, children will follow the learning.
Therefore, fairy tales are often not unscrupulous, and the words of some children may also hurt many people, and the lethality is not lower than that of adults.
Kobayashi is an only child who has lived with her parents since she got married, and the house belongs to Kobayashi's parents, so Kobayashi's husband is reluctant but helpless.
Usually, parents help Kobayashi with their only child, and Kobayashi and his wife will also take their own children when they have time.
Once, Kobayashi's father took his grandson to buy something outside, and his grandson had to buy a toy car, and his grandfather felt that his grandson's car was already too much, and he did not buy it, so the child was angry.
While crying, he shouted, "Why don't you buy it for me, your son's future property will be mine." Although the child's words were unscrupulous, but the child said this, the old man was very angry, so grandpa said: "My property wants to give it to you, I don't want to give it to you, you can't get a penny, I donated it all." ”
What is wrong with the child's wild speech?
1. The child's wild speech is improper education by the parents
The reason why children will say such things must have something to do with the improper education of parents, children are a copy of parents, and how parents are children will often be.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with thinking about the child's words, but the child saying such words does make it difficult for the elderly to accept, because the property belongs to the elderly, and the elderly want to distribute their property as they want.
Generally speaking, property may be left to their children, but children must not take the property of the elderly as their own, otherwise, there is no gratitude at all, such children, surely education is a failure.
2, parents do not teach their children to know how to be grateful
As a parent, you must educate your own children, although everyone wants property, but do not take the parents' property for granted is their own, if you want to show that there is no basic gratitude as a child.
Parents must let their children know how to be grateful, must understand that if you want to live a good life, you must rely on yourself to struggle, and do not always pin the dream of getting rich on the inheritance of your parents, so that the child will not have a big show, can only be a parasite.
In fact, parents are a copy of the child, and the words and deeds of the parents are the object of the child's imitation, so the parents must educate the child well, set a good example for the child, and do not mislead the child, otherwise the child will become very bad.
How should children be better educated?
1. Know how to respect elders
Children are grandparents or grandparents in the heart of the good baby, the elderly in the family love for the child is the purest, the child's parents, must teach the child to respect the elders, this is the minimum etiquette.
Don't think that the elderly love the child, the child can be unscrupulous in front of the elderly, parents must lead by example, do it for their children to see, let the child know that the elderly love themselves.
But the love given by the elderly should not be taken for granted, but learn to be grateful and have a minimum of respect for the elderly.
2) The best education is to lead by example
Parents are the child's initial teachers, children first learn the truth of life from their parents, if parents do not respect the elderly, they will show it from words and deeds, and children are very smart.
How parents treat the elderly, children will treat the elderly, and the trajectory of children's growth will be subtly affected by parents.
If parents do not respect the elderly, the child will naturally be disrespectful, and in the future, when the parents are old, the child will continue to treat the parents in the way the parents treat the elderly.
If a child speaks wildly and hurts his grandfather, there must be a problem with the parents' education, and there must be improper education in the parents.
Parents want to have an excellent child, first of all to review whether they are excellent, to educate their children, first of all, to understand how they should do.
How parents treat the elderly will treat their parents in the future.