The greatest love in the world is maternal love!
The plot of the TV series "Dear Child" twists and turns, the day before Fang Yinuo (played by Ren Suxi) received a notice that the matchmaker of her daughter Hehe was found, and the whole family lit up hope.
But happiness came too short, the donor because it is an elderly pregnant woman, in order to prepare for pregnancy, so it can only give up the donation, which means that Hehe still needs to continue to wait, and the development of his condition during the waiting period cannot be predicted.
Overnight, all three families were on the verge of collapse.
As a mother, Fang Yinuo was unwilling to give up and could not give up, she pleaded with the doctor again and again, and after no results, she and her girlfriend Lei Wen "tracked" Director Wen to the house and pleaded bitterly outside the door.
Although Fang Yinuo and Lei Wen's behavior of tracking Director Wen was inappropriate, and it was not decent to find the door privately, in order to save his daughter, Fang Yinuo had no choice but to cry through the door.
After being turned away, Fang Yinuo was still unwilling to give up, and even finally knelt down to ask Director Wen Kai'en to help their family.
In the plot, this scene is really tear-inducing, kneeling Fang Yinuo, holding the doorknob in one hand, looking at Director Wen with tears on his face, helpless and humble, making people cry.
When Director Wen told the truth, Fang Yinuo also accepted this cruel and helpless reality, and finally cried on the floor mat at the director's door. Fang Yinuo, who has always loved cleanliness, was completely undignified at that moment, and after she learned the truth, she fell into the "boundless black hole of despair" for a while!
Not giving up hope, not only Fang Yinuo, Xie Tianhua (played by Nie Yuan) and Xiao Lu (played by Qin Hao) also did not give up, several people staged a play, on the one hand to win the favor of Director Wen's wife, on the other hand, to help Director Wen's son to gain trust.
It can only be said that Fang Yinuo, her husband and ex-husband really tried everything to save Hehe.
But unfortunately, the donor temporarily repented, leaving only the only hope, that is, Dr. Gao proposed, let Hehe's biological parents have another child, and use the umbilical cord blood of the newborn to save his sister Hehe.
The plot developed here, people are helpless and shocking, is there no other way to save Hehe?
You know, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo already have lovers and new families, how can they ignore the relatives and families of both sides and have a new baby?
However, in order to save his daughter, Xiao Lu first filed for divorce from Dong Fan (played by Xie Keyin), and Dong Fan, who has always been gentle and kind and tolerant, collapsed at the moment, hit her husband with a pillow, and roared: You bastard!
Dong Fan has always been the party of giving in this marriage, because she loves her and constantly tolerates and understands her husband Xiao Lu, even if Xiao Lu does not plan to buy a new house in order to collect medical expenses, Dong Fan is unwilling in his heart, but in the end he did not stop her husband.
Dong Fan feels that as long as her husband does not touch the bottom line, she can always bear her husband's "eccentricity" for love, whether it is the cost of money or the lack of companionship time.
But it is clear that Dong Fan's repeated tolerance did not exchange Xiao Lu's gratitude, but instead intensified, and finally proposed a divorce.
Has Xiao Lu ever loved Dong Fan in the end? His telephone notes to his wife are not "wife", but "sails", which shows the subtlety of Xiao Lu's post-marriage mentality, whether it is real love, whether there is a concern engraved in the heart, reflected in whether the notes have modified this detail.
It is precisely because the love is not deep enough that it is easy to file for divorce!
I really feel sorry for Dong Fan, she did nothing wrong from the beginning to the end of the marriage, but why did she break her first marriage for the sake of Xiao Lu's fatherly love that she wanted to make up?
Similarly, Fang Yinuo also filed for divorce with Xie Tianhua!
After hearing his wife's appeal, Xie Tianhua borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows, and the flattened wine jar in his hand reflected Xie Tianhua's inner anxiety and pain!
He knew his wife Fang Yinuo too well, and knew that since she had filed for divorce, she would not talk about it casually, but really thought about what she wanted to do, not to discuss, but to notify.
Compared with Dong Fan, my heartache for Xie Tianhua is still less, after all, he has really taken care of Hehe for a long time, and Hehe has also called him his father for many years!
Although there is no blood relationship, whether it is Xie Tianhua or Xie Tianhua's mother Xie's father, from the bottom of his heart, he feels that Hehe is the xie family's biological child.
Therefore, from the depths of Xie Tianhua's heart, he could understand Fang Yinuo's approach, and he could more or less accept his wife's decision, from the starting point of saving the child, Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo were the same.
The only difference is that Xie Tianhua not only loves Hehe, but also loves Fang Yinuo, as a man's husband, he has to grasp both hands and both hands must be hard!
But Fang Yinuo is different, in the face of children and love marriage, she will decisively choose the former.
I saw the discussion of netizens, and some netizens said: Fang Yinuo Xiao Road's family is selfish!
Netizens also said: Others can't integrate into this family, that is, they are sacrificed! It's really selfish, so what are Dong Fan and Xie Tianhua?
There are many selfish netizens who say that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu are indeed "victims" to a certain extent, but at this step, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu feel better in their hearts?
Two people divorced for 4 years, there has been no contact, because the child is reconnected, the two people have to face not only the child, but also the lovers and families of both sides, it is already very embarrassing and helpless.
In fact, they don't want to hurt each other's lovers, but there is no way, there are too few ways to save Hehe, and the most important thing is that Hehe's condition has worsened and he can't afford to wait.
So, from the perspective of maternal love, I boldly open the wheat: Fang Yinuoti divorce is not selfish! The mother did not do too much to save her daughter!
Seeing that the child is suffering day by day, seeing that her daughter's illness is getting worse and worse, and hoping to become smaller and smaller, how can Fang Yinuo calmly continue to wait? She was suffering every day, and she didn't want to suffer for her children all the time.
In the matter of saving her daughter, she regarded herself as very low and very low, otherwise, as a people's teacher, how could she follow up and harass Director Wen and make such an unreasonable request to see the donor?
At the moment of kneeling, Fang Yinuo no longer cared about any dignity and face, in the same way, in order to save her daughter who was in danger, she could not take care of the moral and worldly gaze, in her heart, nothing was more important than her daughter's life!
I believe that people who are mothers can understand.
In addition, many details show that the tacit understanding and certain habits of Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu in the first marriage cannot be completely eliminated.
When Xiao Lu was with Hehe for the first time at night, Fang Yinuo said that Xiao Lu was sleeping too deep and could not be woken up easily, and Xie Tianhua on the side was very embarrassed at that time.
On the steps at the door of the Chinese bone marrow bank, Xiao Lu habitually crouched next to Fang Yinuo, and the movement posture of the two people was exactly the same, which was very tacit.
This scene was seen by Xie Tianhua again, and his expression was full of mixed feelings!
In fact, in the depths of Xie Tianhua's heart, he has always been inferior in the face of Xiao Lu, inferior to himself, earning money is not as good as Xiao Lu, and his income savings are not as good as Xiao Lu.
And the subtle similarities between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's certain actions and habits were also like a needle piercing Xie Tianhua's heart.
In fact, he more or less understood that he was sandwiched between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, and at some times, the position was a little awkward.
Therefore, after looking back at Fang Yinuo's solemn idea of divorce, Xie Tianhua, who had already expected it, said lightly: Xiao Lu, will he also leave?
Xie Tianhua asked this question, which was to express the worries and fears in his heart, he was afraid that his ability and emotional intelligence were not as good as Xiao Lu's self, and he would be completely out after this divorce, and he was worried that he would lose his wife and Hehe from now on.
All along, Xie Tianhua is the one who pays the most, whether it is his own family and the eyes from the world, the pressure he carries and the cost he pays, such as Fang Yinuo, is higher and greater!
Many times, I really don't deserve it for Xie Tianhua.
But Fang Yinuo was right, Xie Tianhua was even more right, what was wrong was their fate and fate.