Marriage brings us joy and tears, and in the end it is also happiness. In today's society, divorce rates remain high. Two people divorced, the biggest hurt is the child, I think if it is not hurt to the extreme, no one will choose divorce. The result of divorce is the fulfillment of one party, and the other party has to choose to give up when forced to give up. There may be reluctance, or heartache, but they all have to accept reality. Some people will remarry after divorce, and some people will choose to live alone. So will they be happier after remarrying than before? Listen to this remarried woman' voice:
My name is Lin Xue, and I am Chinese New Year's Eve years old today. I had a failed marriage, but now I am happy and I know what it's like to be loved. My ex-husband was a selfish and ungrateful man, and no matter what I gave for our family, he didn't have the slightest gratitude in his heart for me. After my ex-husband got married, in order to take good care of my son and in-laws, I gave up my job and returned to my family to concentrate on taking care of the family, just so that my ex-husband could work with peace of mind. But in just three years, my ex-husband betrayed our marriage. My ex-husband asked me to divorce him, I didn't agree with him, I said to my ex-husband fiercely, I will drag you to death even if I drag, I am not good enough for you not to want to be stable.
And so we started endless quarrels, and I struggled every day on the verge of collapse. I don't feel a little bit of family warmth, not a little love, some just torture each other. After dragging on for half a year, I really couldn't stand it, and I felt like I could go crazy if I went on like this. I agreed to the divorce, but I asked for half of the property and took my son. Unexpectedly, the ex-husband agreed very happily. I didn't go on with my ex-husband's divorce, and I guess I can't be beaten by a scumbag. I still have my son, and I still have hope. In the past, I lost myself for the sake of my family, and in the end all I got was disgust, and from now on I want to live well for myself.
Two years after my divorce I met my current husband, a man who held me in the palm of his hand. He is not only good to me, but also treats his son as his own, more like his father than his ex-husband. I remarried, and after marriage he spoiled me as a child, he told me to love me like a daughter and not let me suffer a little grievance, and he told me that good women are hurt. We live happily ever after, and the smile on my face with him hasn't been broken. I never expected that I could harvest such a sincere feeling, and it turned out that being loved was such a feeling. Before, I only knew to love others without reservation, and in the end it was myself who suffered.
I used to be a downcast woman who had betrayed her marriage by her husband, or even divorced. Now I am a remarried woman who has been spoiled by her husband, and now I am happy like a child. I just want to say that my ex-husband thanked you for abandoning the grace of the year and let me know what it is to be loved. Without your original cruelty, I think I would have been trapped in that cage without love but pain and torture for the rest of my life.
Conclusion: Xiaobian feels that there should be more tolerance and understanding between husband and wife, and everyone pays a lot for the family. Women should be more independent and not lose themselves completely for the sake of the family. When you like a younger and more beautiful little girl than your wife, don't forget that your wife also came from a young and beautiful time. She is in order to run this family, and she has been urged to grow old by the years. It is not easy for husband and wife to walk together, and it should be done and cherished.