Because it is too dependent, the other party must think through every move. As a result, the feelings of two people will become more and more sparse due to infinite suspicion. Every step has to be calculated, and once you fall into the trap of the other party, you want to completely surrender yourself to the other party. Such feelings are very tiring, and in the end, love can only become fragmented, and even the last bit of beauty can be broken. There is a line in "Why Sheng Zhen Mo" that reads: Our persistence is for a better parting. And the really smart people are often those who "know how to manage feelings" in love. They not only know how to take care of each other, but also know not to rely on this feeling in the development of the relationship, so that the relationship between two people can be long-lasting. There is a passage in "Young You", "Whether the road ahead is long or the disaster is over, I believe you will come out, because you are not only the light on my road ahead." ”
In life, we must always learn to protect ourselves. Only if you are not in unnecessary feelings, you can be a better person. Two people together, just to support each other to warm each other, go down together. In this process, learn to operate, learn to be independent, in order to make this relationship go further. I have watched many movies and TV series, and I will always see some touching scenes in them. For example, "Man and Nature", "The Fairy Tale of the Wolf" and so on. But some of them are things that we haven't encountered in real life, that we've never encountered, and those in the movies don't exist in reality. When sad scenes in movies appear all around us, we think, why is this so? Why is this ending?
However, there are many such cases in reality. My mother also agonized about this matter for a long time. She had always believed in her mother's point of view, that her mother was an honest and honest and kind person, and had never thought about why she would marry a scumbag. Over the years, she has also been constantly persuading her mother, hoping that her son can find a good person to remarry. However, her mother did not agree with her idea. Because she felt that her mother did not meet the requirements of a good mother – only to be a good person. My mother said something very impressive to me: "Your father is the one who found you, how dare you lose someone?" ”
It was also from that time that my mother never forgot about the divorce. Yes, it was lost, it was lost from the beginning. It was only now that my mother realized how painful it was not to be with her. I don't know, which relationship in this world began not to be beautiful, there are no contradictions and compromises, only one side is left to pay unilaterally, and in the end it can only become a tragedy. In people's lives, without each other, there is naturally no so-called happiness. Even if there is so-called happiness, it is only a "placebo" for others. In the feelings of people, this is especially true, whether it is family affection, friendship, love, have their own operating rules.