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The feelings between men and women are generally more complicated. When women are young, they need men more and more love, because women's emotional mechanism is doomed to be more blind and willing to pay.
Too many people think that in marriage, men actually need the company of women more.
In fact, after a certain stage, men will no longer "need" women, and will no longer have "interest" in women, and men in these stages generally have these characteristics.
1. Have your own hobbies
A man who has no "interest" in women and does not need women actually has his own interests and hobbies.
When a man likes to fish, he will feel that fishing is more important than women; when a man is obsessed with photography, he feels that photography is more important than women; when a man is addicted to sports, he finds sports more interesting than women.
When a man develops his favorite interests, when a man really feels the joy of life, he will feel that it is really too hard to be with women.
Women like to get angry at every turn, women like to be emotional at every turn, and men want to coax women at every turn.
Whether it is fishing, or sports, or photography, at least in some ways, it will not make men feel haggard, and men will not find ways to coax these things.
When he is more involved in these aspects, the more he can feel the pleasure that interest brings him.
2. Stop believing in love
In fact, men are not indestructible in love, they will also be hurt, they will also be depressed, and they will also be painful.
A man has been in a woman, suffered a lot of hurt, will not expect love anymore, he will not even trust a woman, when a man does not trust a woman, he no longer needs a woman, his woman naturally has no interest.
Men always think that they have seen through women, feel that women are material and realistic, and feel that women are emotional and full of calculations.
In fact, he has not met, the woman who really likes him, the woman who really likes him, will not be so calculating and materialistic, but will only pay wholeheartedly.
Men should learn to adjust their mentality, do not lose their expectations for marriage because of a woman; do not lose their yearning for love because of a woman.
A man who no longer believes in love, he will not look at all women well, because he will always think of himself, the hurt he has suffered.
When a man stops believing in love and is ready to be alone, or ready to stick to long-term celibacy, he won't need a woman anymore.
Perhaps only people who have really been hurt can understand the helplessness and loneliness behind this kind of harm, no matter what it is, life is not absolutely beautiful, there is no absolute success, and what they have thought about is the best.
Feelings will exhaust a person's passion, injury will also exhaust a person's expectations, when they are no longer looking forward to it, everyone will be powerless.
3. Love has become affection
When a man is in a marriage and has no passion, he will also enter a period of emotional exhaustion.
The longer two people are together, the more familiar they are, the less they feel.
In the face of such a situation, the man has not found a solution, so when his love for women becomes affection, he loses interest in women, and he no longer needs women.
A man who has lost interest in women has long since lost any feelings for his wife.
Now life is too plain, the family is always the woman, life is always only that mode, he also wants to meet a fresh stimulus, he also wants to change another way of life.
When in a relationship, a man has no passion for a woman, it is very scary, because two people will become, under the same roof, the most familiar stranger.
And with the understanding of time, the man sees clearly the advantages of women, and when the filter on women disappears, he has no feelings for women.
When a man has no feelings for marriage, he will not pay attention to women.
He used to be incredibly gentle with women, he would remember every word a woman said, he would care and care about women's emotions, he would also soothe women's emotions, and now he would not do such a thing again.
When a man loses the urge to love and loses his feelings for women, he no longer needs women, because his hormones for women have disappeared, and feelings have truly become affection.
When a man is 40 years old, marriage becomes a family affection, and women are no longer needed, and women at this stage must strive to retain the beauty of feelings.
Women should work hard to manage feelings, often come to some sense of ritual in life, often date alone with two people, and cultivate the feelings of two people, so as to help retain men's desire for love and keep men's interest in you.
After men are 40 years old, they generally have no "interest" in women, and the reason is realistic and heartfelt: men have other addictive interests, such as fishing, such as photography, such as sports, so the attention is no longer focused on women; men have been hurt in their feelings, no longer believe in love, he no longer needs women; when love becomes affection, men no longer need women.
Whether women are before marriage or after marriage, they should not rely on men to survive, and they should not regard feelings as the whole of life.
You have to know that good love, good men are the icing on the cake, if there is no such thing, you also have to have the courage and expectation of living alone.
No matter what kind of reason a man has no interest in you, you have to be prepared to bear it, and then make your own choices that are more beneficial to yourself.
Women must love themselves well, must listen to their own inner voice, in order to live this life well, live thoroughly, live a wonderful and wanton life.
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