Love and like, are different.
In the age of love, it is easy to confuse the two.
As a result, what happens?
Talking to each other very happily, they mistakenly thought that this was a sign of love. With the mentality of cherishing fate, some people hold hands in a short period of time, and even identify each other as the only one for the rest of their lives.
Time is silent, but it can witness everything.
With the passage of time, the feelings of liking, if they cannot be smoothly sublimated into love, will fade day by day, and even disappear completely when a certain day comes.
meanwhile
The fate of two people will disappear completely.
If you just like it, a person can choose to leave freely after the fate is over. And that, the party that moved the truth, will only be passive, caught in the emotional quagmire, and will become the person who is most hurt.
01
True love, hidden in the subconscious.
There's an old saying that goes like this:
A momentary impulse cannot fulfill the happiness of the rest of your life.
Everyone wants, holding hands with destined people.
However, for a friend who lacks experience in love,
It is difficult to distinguish between true feelings and false intentions.
When you meet a person who is bright in front of you, you can easily see the other party as the destination of your emotions. As a result of a person's emotional affairs, it is easy for everyone to meet the wrong person and see likes as true love.
Obviously, such an approach will put yourself in an embarrassing situation.
When friends, with a sincere attitude, I hope to grasp the fate around me.
Next
In what way can you distinguish between like and true love?
From the perspective of love psychology, if you can grasp a person's subconscious, you can often grasp the true psychology of the other party.
Because the subconscious mind often represents everyone's true attitude.
For example: if we, just like the feelings, when getting along with each other, often do not deliberately restrain themselves, but will use unscrupulous ways to show personal charm, so as to win the attention and favor of the other party, to achieve the purpose of affecting this feeling.
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Identify you, there will be performance.
Is it like or true love?
A person's attitude will be expressed through the subconscious.
From the standpoint of a girl,
When people encounter fate, they will easily become emotional.
Under the influence of emotional thinking, girls may make wrong judgments and mistakenly regard men's liking as true love for themselves. Think of yourself, meet someone worthy of trust.
As everyone knows, love enters a dull period, and men's likes will disappear.
At this time, the girl is ready to accompany her for the rest of her life. In the face of men's fickleness, they will only become confused, and because of this, they will no longer believe in love.
Only that,
A man who truly loves you will treat you consistently.
In the course of your time together, this man will keep his promise to love you, give you happiness in the moment, and hope for the future.
Let's take a look at how girls can see through the true face of men and grasp the initiative of emotion. A man who identifies you will have several subconscious minds that cannot deceive people.
You are welcome into his circle.
Between people, there are invisible "boundaries".
While interacting, we can also respect each other's privacy, and our friendship can continue.
If we, for one, ignore this, it's easy to feel insecure.
In fact, when the opposite sex gets along, why not?
Men just like you, may please you, and even pay for you. But about his circle, often will not let girls get involved,
Because he doesn't want to completely show his bottom line in front of girls.
Like does not represent love, just like the feelings, men's efforts will have invisible boundaries.
Unless the man who truly loves you will give up all his principles for you under the supervision of the subconscious, he will take your hand, walk in front of his friends and relatives, and declare his right to you.
A man, if he takes the initiative to open up his circle, is all open to you.
Many times, he will take the initiative to take you to the gatherings of friends and the exchanges between relatives. These subconscious signs reflect the fact that they love you deeply.
Become more aggressive in your efforts.
Compared to liking.
Truly falling in love with someone will give us more motivation.
In life, it is not difficult to find such a phenomenon:
When men are single, they are often idle, giving people a feeling of "one person eats enough for the whole family and is not hungry".
After meeting love one day, this man can easily usher in a one-hundred-and-eighty-degree transformation. Love's
Drive it
under
He will become aggressive and enjoy it no matter how hard and tired he is.
Because I moved my heart, I hope to continue to associate with girls.
Men's subconscious will want to fulfill each other's fate. So, how should a man fulfill love?
Usually, men will become more hardworking, hoping to get more rewards through their own hands, meet the material needs of girls, and bring more security and a sense of steadfastness to the women they love.
If it's just like, why should a man do that?
He will only focus on his own affairs and keep socializing with girls, but it is just like refreshments after meals, embellishing life.
Every move will be inclusive of you.
Like, will make people become arrogant.
In order to win the attention of the other party, men will try to grasp the lead.
And moving true feelings will make a man,
Become cautious and gradually learn self-restraint.
If you really fall in love with a girl, why does a man become restrained?
Because he attaches great importance to this relationship, he is afraid of saying the wrong thing and doing the wrong thing, which will make the other party unhappy. Therefore, men will carefully manage the fate of two people, and even become a humble person.
As a girl,
What subconscious mind should be used to judge the true face of a man?
Under normal circumstances, the man who loves you will have the behavior of guarding and fulfilling the girl in every move. It gives people the feeling that there is no bottom line for paying for love. Because they are completely fascinated by you, men will lower their personal posture and manage their feelings between you with their hearts.
Love or not love, the subconscious mind does not deceive.
In love, it is inevitable to meet people with ulterior motives.
When you identify each other and think that two people can love each other for a lifetime, the other person's inner love has gradually disappeared, and you have long since stopped caring about this relationship.
Only true love can successfully pass the test of time and make people warm and steady.
Girls should know that the man who takes you into his circle, the man who has worked hard for you, the man who has been working hard to complete you, in fact, has already been conquered by you in his heart.
So, are there any boys around you who treat you like this?
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.