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For women, the mother's home is not only a haven for shelter from the wind and rain, but also a place for disputes.
The different roles of women in the in-laws' and mother's families are also multiple tests for themselves and their families.
The heroine in the next case, because the sister-in-law of the good thing lived in her mother's house, almost did not make her divorce end.
After He Huan married into his in-laws' family, he has always kept his duty. Cooking and laundry should be done by her, and it is not sloppy at all.
Such a diligent daughter-in-law is naturally very pleasing to her in-laws, but there is a sister-in-law in the in-laws who have not been able to get along with He Huan.
When she first married into her in-laws' family, her sister-in-law was not yet married, and she was also treated politely.
However, within a few days, I found that the sister-in-law's personality was somewhat unreasonable, and which one was slightly unsatisfactory to her will be endless.
One of the more impressive times was that the mother-in-law accidentally made the dish salty at dinner.
The sister-in-law took a few bites and then dropped the chopsticks, saying that she could not eat while letting the family do it again.
The mother-in-law has always been biased towards her daughter, so she is ready to get up and go to the kitchen to make another one.
But the father-in-law's face sank, and he said unhappily: "This dish is just a little salty, if you don't want to eat it, don't eat it, how old is still arrogant." ”
As he spoke, he called his mother-in-law back from the kitchen and said that the child was so accustomed to getting bad things sooner or later.
He Huan, who was eating with his head down, had not said a word, and since then he also knew the cruelty of the sister-in-law in the family.
Slowly, the sister-in-law also had a conflict with her, it turned out that the skin care products of the two were placed in the bathroom, and the sister-in-law had to say that He Huan used her things.
This can make He Huan wronged, because she rarely spends effort on her face, and usually smears a moisturizer and is finished.
But the sister-in-law did not spare, and insisted that He Huan was eyeing her high-end skin care products.
This incident made He Huan both embarrassed and angry, forcing He Huan to take away his own moisturizer.
After this dispute, He Huan's attitude towards his sister-in-law was obviously much more distant.
Fortunately, soon the sister-in-law was successful in her blind date and was ready to get married.
The in-laws and grandmothers are very happy, but the happiest is He Huan.
You must know that as long as the sister-in-law is at the in-laws' house for one day, her heart is like blocked.
In order to celebrate the marriage of her sister-in-law, she and her husband took more than 8,000 large red envelopes as parts.
Sure enough, after the sister-in-law got married and moved away, she felt much better at home, and she got along with her in-laws in a harmonious manner.
In about half a year, the in-laws learned that the sister-in-law was pregnant.
This made the two old people in the family happy, and they did not expect to take the lead in hugging their grandson.
Originally, He Huan also prepared a red envelope and prepared for the child to give to the sister-in-law after landing.
Then from her husband's mouth, I learned some gossip one after another.
It turned out that the sister-in-law had no less trouble with her own mother-in-law because of the problem of pregnancy taste.
Now it seems that the two have stopped talking much, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become tense.
He Huan actually expected this matter a long time ago, to put it ugly, as far as the sister-in-law's wayward and unreasonable character is concerned, no one can stand it except her father and mother.
Soon the sister-in-law gave birth to a boy, and He Huan and her in-laws went to the hospital to visit them at the first time.
In front of a large family, He Huan wrapped a red envelope of more than three thousand for the sister-in-law.
But the sister-in-law lay on the hospital bed without saying a word, which made He Huan's face very embarrassed.
Afterwards, her husband also knew that she was not happy, so he comforted her sister and said that her sister had just given birth to a child, don't worry about her.
But no matter how much persuasion, He Huan still felt that the sister-in-law was deceiving people too much, and how to send her money was not happy.
She thought that in the future, she would never be hot again and stick to people's cold ass, and it was best not to come and go again.
Sure enough, He Huan did what he said, and she did not go to the full moon wine of the sister-in-law's first child.
I heard that since the sister-in-law gave birth to a child, her status in her husband's family has gone up a level, and even her mother-in-law has to look at her face.
Not only did she not have to go to work, but even the child was brought by her mother-in-law, and the sister-in-law's family did not have to worry about it at all.
So such a comfortable day, let the sister-in-law have the idea of fighting for the second child.
Two years later, the sister-in-law gave birth to a daughter, and the whole person was even more arrogant.
Sometimes when I go back to my mother's house, I am full of pride, and I say in front of He Huan: "Mom, the biggest credit of this woman is to have a child, and now my mother-in-law at home has to look at my face." ”
He Huan was a little uncomfortable to hear this, because she had been married for several years, and her stomach had not moved.
Although the in-laws did not say anything to her, it was still very uncomfortable for the sister-in-law to stimulate her outside the words.
So that later, when the sister-in-law took the child back to her mother's house, she looked for an opportunity to go out.
But who cheng thought that recently the sister-in-law actually got divorced, and directly returned to her mother's house with a son and a daughter.
That day, He Huan came home from work as usual, and as soon as he opened the door, his sister-in-law was noisy, causing the two children to cry non-stop.
I saw my father-in-law very angry and said, "You talk about you, your mouth has offended people all over again, you quarreled with your mother-in-law and now you still want a divorce, you want to go to heaven." ”
But the sister-in-law did not care, not to say that her life was not comfortable, if the in-laws did not obey her soft, they would divorce.
After listening to it, He Huan couldn't help but feel that the sister-in-law's temper was too bad, and it was not good to take the child away after a quarrel.
At dinner in the evening, the sister-in-law did not consider the feelings of others, and took chopsticks to pick and choose on the plate.
The father-in-law couldn't see it, and just after talking to her a few words, the sister-in-law blushed and didn't eat.
Originally, He Huan wanted to let He Huan this time, after all, with two children and a divorce, his heart was inevitably uncomfortable.
But gradually she found that the sister-in-law was okay and stirred up dissension at home, and several times He Huan heard the sister-in-law say that she could not have children, and said that the neighbors around her had already gossiped.
The terrible thing is that He Huan's mother-in-law listened to this, after all, she has not been able to hold her grandson and her heart is also awkward.
At the instigation of the sister-in-law, He Huan found that her mother-in-law was not as reasonable as before.
Not only did he start talking about yin and yang, but he would also find something to make trouble for He Huan.
After several times, He Huan's heart became more and more depressed, and she also knew that this was the ghost behind the sister-in-law's back.
Until a neighbor said to He Huan: "He Huan, what is wrong with you and your mother-in-law, she has been saying outside lately that you are not good or wrong, and that you can't pass on the lineage to his family." ”
Hearing that he was not happy here, he wanted to go home and confront his mother-in-law, but he swallowed the words to his mouth.
Finally, angry and sad, she packed up her things and silently returned to her mother's house.
This move frightened her husband, and he went to pick him up several times, but was rejected by He Huan.
Seeing that He Huan refused to come back, the in-laws were a little anxious.
At this time, the little sister-in-law, who was not too big, also said happily: "Don't come back, let my brother remarry another one, and make sure to give birth to a big fat boy." ”
Upon hearing this, he couldn't bear to scold loudly and loudly: "You... You get out of my house, how could it be without you shit-stirring stick!"
Saying that, he drove away his daughter and said that he would not be allowed to come back with his children to live permanently in the future.
After the sister-in-law drove away, the father-in-law personally went to He Huan's house to pick her up, and the family was reunited...
The sister-in-law in the case is tricky and difficult, and finally makes the relatives intolerable.
This tells us that women should not only understand etiquette and measure after marriage, but also remember the following two truths.
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One: Some acts of returning to the mother's home are a kind of crossing the line.
After marriage, women complete the role conversion.
From a daughter to a daughter-in-law, the original family has also become a mother-in-law.
After marriage, the in-laws' mother-in-law's family is not just a change in the name for women.
More importantly, the importance of the in-laws will be ranked ahead of the mother-in-law's family.
Because marriage is a more important career for a woman in the second half of her life.
Therefore, the daughter who married out of the marriage is more like a guest to the mother's family.
Therefore, even if there are differences and contradictions with the in-laws after marriage, they cannot go back to their mothers and parents without moving.
If you are like the sister-in-law in the case, dragging two children and brother-in-law to live together, it is even more inappropriate.
Therefore, returning to the mother's home is actually exquisite for women, if you do whatever you want, it is easy to cross the line, which will lead to the turmoil of the extended family.
You must know that since you have become an adult and married, you should try to solve it behind closed doors as much as possible.
The act of returning to the mother's house to gamble will only make the situation more difficult to end.
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Second: As long as the old man is reasonable, there will be no major problems at home.
The feng shui and fortunes of the family are often influenced by the elderly in charge of the family.
Some old people are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they will do the heavens and the earth. Even if the children are filial piety, in the end the family is still a chicken flying dog jumping.
And some old people have bright eyes and correct minds. Even if the children want to provoke trouble, there is nothing they can do.
Therefore, the family's wise and courteous parents are the blessing and luck of all their children.
In the case, the father-in-law of the female protagonist is a typical helper who does not help his relatives. Doing things and talking is reasonable and convincing.
As a child, the daughter-in-law He Huan finally looked at the face of her father-in-law and returned to her in-laws' house without saying a word.
So friendliness and understanding are actually mutual, and when you consider supporting others, this love also remains in each other's hearts.
Similarly, as children, we should also be grateful for the support and understanding of the elderly.
After all, maintaining the relationship between the family and the unity of the family is a more meaningful thing.
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Everyone's family may contain complexities and troubles.
Although it is troublesome, there are always thousands of things to sort out.
If each of me is willing to cherish home and cherish love.
Then all contradictions will also disperse with the wind.
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