Marriage Twelve Words: a kind face, a restrained mouth, a good heart

It is said that falling in love is easy to get along with.

Everyone wants to get married from one end to the other, but some people become gentle and meticulous after marriage, and there is love between their brows; some people become nitpicking and calculating.

In fact, no relationship is immutable, and when you master these twelve-word marriage secrets, the days will go by and become happier.

And angry face

The most common mistake we make in life is to be too polite to strangers and too mean to intimate people.

In the eyes of some people, outsiders cannot be offended, intimate people do not matter, anyway, the closest people will not remember revenge, nor will they leave themselves.

As everyone knows, having no scruples does not mean that the person who is hurt does not care at all; easy forgiveness does not mean that feelings are not hurt.

In marriage, you need a kind face.

Zheng Juan in the TV series "Human World", which was popular on the Internet some time ago, is a very good example.

No matter how late Zhou Bingkun arrived home, the first thing he saw when he entered the door was Zheng Juan's smiling face.

She followed her husband without complaint or regret, and has been working hard to take care of Zhou's father and mother, and help her sister-in-law who is studying abroad to take care of her daughter.

Whether living in a dilapidated adobe house or moving into a spacious building, she lived a happy life.

When Bingkun bought the house, the procedures were incomplete, and the building was repossessed by the owner for a long time, and the whole family could only move back to the old house of the light character piece.

Bingkun was full of guilt, but Zheng Juan still ate well, slept well, and comforted him: "It should be a good dream." ”

Bingkun later got into an argument with someone else and went to prison to serve his sentence.

Zheng Juan sold sweet potatoes and popsicles to support the family.

After being released from prison, he and Zheng Juan moved into the remodeled new city, opened a small restaurant, and lived a lively life.

Zheng Juan has always been a kind face, gentle and strong, and faces the ups and downs of life with her husband, so that countless people have seen the vision and expectation of a beautiful marriage in their hearts.

Restrained mouth

There is a saying in the movie "Ten Thousand Sentences" that when they are in love, they have endless words; after marriage, they have endless quarrels.

Even if couples who are usually very loving, when they quarrel, they will want to divorce 100 times and beat each other to death 50 times.

Because those words that are unguarded, really like a sharp blade, will hurt the people they love the most.

Huang Guolun, a famous music producer in Taiwan, was once angry with his wife's "unobstructed mouth" to run away from home.

Huang Guolun and Kou Naixin are both tough people, and the two people colliding together is like relying on the Heavenly Sword to meet the dragon slaying knife, and neither of them will accept defeat.

Once in a quarrel, Kou Washin was angry, but some harsh words popped out without going through the brain:

Huang Guolun, which point of yours is worthy of me Kou Naixin, do you know that you are divorced, you are a second-hand commodity, you are not worthy of me.

Huang Guolun did not reply, packed his luggage, walked to the door and said: "Li Xin, do you know that there are some words that cannot be spoken?" ”

Loving people is both armor and our weakness. They can say the most beautiful love words, and they can also poke at the deepest wounds buried in our hearts.

Some mouths are unobstructed, and may relieve the momentary breath, but they are like nails stuck in the heart of the lover.

The damage caused is not only in the present, it runs through the years, day by day, month and month, after years, the wound is still eye-catching, and even the deepest feelings will gradually be corroded and festered.

Good heart

A good marriage requires a good heart, considering problems from the perspective of the other party, and giving each other steps when opinions or choices are different.

I attended a friend's wedding the other day and saw such a scene.

At the wedding, the bride's classmates suddenly give the groom a "ingenious" gift – a wooden washboard.

The emcee handed the microphone to the groom and asked him what the gift meant.

The applause, laughter and cajoling of the audience suddenly rang out, and the groom was extremely embarrassed and dumbfounded.

At this time, the bride took the washboard, touched it, and smiled as she touched it: "I know!"

My classmates prepared such gifts for us to tell us:

Today's combination, we have experienced the greatest happiness in life, but the road ahead may face many ups and downs.

My husband and I must work hand in hand to smooth out these ups and downs and pave a happy golden road. Thank you for her blessings! ”

In the unceasing applause of the scene, the groom looked at the bride happily, and his heart was full of pride.

I've heard a quote like this:

"Not giving face is the greatest disrespect. Chinese pay the most attention to face, what hurts, don't hurt face. ”

The bride is very wise, facing the classmates' deliberate problems and letting her husband out of the ordinary.

Her words were cut to the point, both to express her love and to let the groom get off the stage with dignity, which was really very much appreciated.

If you can give others steps, you have steps yourself; if you can give others face, the more face you have.

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Some people say: "Love is beautiful, marriage is not easy." ”

Indeed, marriage is not easy, and it must be able to withstand the blandness of chai rice oil and salt, and it must also withstand the test of the wear and tear of the years.

And human fireworks, triviality, inevitable friction and entanglement, but also need both sides to look open, confused, know how to know, know how to understand the pillow people.

With a kind face, a restrained mouth and a good heart, no matter how difficult the days are, they will pass.

The so-called marriage, but the operation; the so-called long-term, but the unity.

May the person next to you be the most cherished person in your life.