The TV series "The Rest of Your Life, Please Advise" based on the Berlin stonemason's novel of the same name is currently airing. It tells the story of Lin Zhixue, a junior in the Music Department, who was hospitalized due to his father's illness, and met and fell in love with his father's chief surgeon, Gu Wei.
Lin Zhixue is a sincere and optimistic girl in her twenties, she has the vigor and hard work that should be in this age, and has the courage to face difficult blows. Gu Wei is a mature and steady person who is excellent in everything, but there is no perfect person in this world, and even the best people have weaknesses, and Gu Wei's weakness is that he lacks the courage to face difficult blows like Lin Zhixue. When faced with difficult blows, he will choose to escape, and will not repair or even pay attention to such "cracks" in life. "Everything has cracks, that's where the light comes in" and Lin Zhixue is the beam of light that illuminates Gu Wei's life and shines into his heart. Let him understand how he should face the dilemma, let him more firmly choose to be a doctor... Such a couple of teenagers have a simple and pure love, from the beginning of looking at each other unfavorably to believing that the other party is the person who is worth trusting and relying on for a lifetime, spending the rest of their lives together! Love that is full of emotions makes people envious and yearn.
The love between Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei is very romantic and touching, but this line of affection between Teacher Lin and Lin Zhixue makes me even more moved and shed tears.
Teacher Lin in the play is a strict teaching director and a serious father. He has always been strictly disciplined by Lin Zhixue, and sometimes he even speaks a little seriously. However, the love for Lin Zhixue is reflected in every behavior: it seems that he does not support his daughter's cello dream, but in fact, his daughter is the pride in his mind and the capital to show off to others; he seems not to understand his daughter, but in fact, he remembers clearly the "one hundred things he wants to do with his father" written by his daughter; when his daughter is preached by others, she will stand up at all costs to defend her daughter... It is such a hard-mouthed father figure that summarizes how many fathers love their children in real life, which is one of the reasons why I like this drama - authenticity.
When everything is moving in a good direction, life has given a fatal blow. Teacher Lin, who learned that her condition had deteriorated, was very calm, and asked Ms. Lin and Gu Wei not to tell Lin Zhixue the truth, which was probably also a kind of protection for her. But he endured silently, doing his best to give love to his family, to his daughter, and even in the end, he could not rest assured of his children. "School, grow up quickly, Daddy can't accompany you for a lifetime" This sentence tells a father's feelings of being uneasy and unwilling. In his eyes, his daughter is still just a little girl who has not yet grown up, in the dialogue with Gu Wei, he sighed: "I am such a daughter in the school, obviously only by the nurse from the delivery room, put into my arms, in the blink of an eye, it has reached the age of love ..." The passage of time not only took away his healthy body, but also promoted the growth of his daughter. In his heart, the school has always been his proud daughter, and he also unconditionally believes that although the school is young, she can fully support a family! In order to be able to personally send his daughter to marry, he offered to marry in the near future...
At the wedding, he was about to give the hand he was holding into the hands of another man, "Just like when you were a child, you were held to school, but it was a little different. Send you out then, and get you back, now..." He knew this time was different, the child had grown up. From now on, it is not only his own daughter, but also someone else's wife and daughter-in-law. At the end of the wedding, Teacher Lin and Aunt Li walked hand in hand to the blurred back, although people were very reluctant, but in the end, what was left for their loved ones was good memories, and what they left for themselves was also good memories. Teacher Lin also said: "We can't control the coming and going of life, but we can face the past experience calmly and cherish the current experience." Keep hopeful about what we're about to go through in the future, so that we can have no regrets when we have to face goodbye. "This is another interpretation of life, and ending up like this is also a kind of happiness." This also tells us that even if our loved ones are about to leave, don't waste time on crying and crying at the last moment, the love of our families is running in both directions, we hope that our parents are healthy and happy, and in the same way, they also hope that we can spend the rest of our lives in health and happiness.
The family line between Mr. Lin and Lin Zhixue is very sincere, very close to life and very touching. Many fathers express their love in such a way that they are silent and not easily discovered. Like when I was young, I always thought that my dad didn't express love until that night in the summer, when he gently entered my room, put a blanket on my stomach, and took a fly to shoot and drive away mosquitoes... I slept, secretly saw everything he did, and the tears flowed out involuntarily, and finally I deeply realized the word "silent father's love".
The so-called growth is nothing more than the parents leaning on the door and staring at our backs as we go farther and farther away; we bravely move forward, occasionally look back, and always see their unwilling eyes. Children are always the concern of their parents, and they love us and protect us in their own way. Parents will never accompany us through every journey of life, there may be a day in the future, our lives without their participation, but this does not mean that the love they give us will disappear, whether people are around us or not, there are always something worth remembering left, right? So, at that point, they just changed their ways and perspectives to continue to love us.
The rest of life is not long, short is not short, in the future life, cherish every minute and every second, understand your parents more, and spend some time with your parents. May we all cherish the people around us in our limited lives and protect the people we love.