"I did my best to support my family, I didn't smoke or gamble money, I didn't expect my daughter wasn't my own!"
One day in 2021, Liu Yongchao, a takeaway worker, complained to reporters with a look of grievance.
Four years ago, 40-year-old Liu Yongchao loved his daughter, and since then, her daughter has become his only goal.
In order to earn more money, he came to the provincial city to deliver takeaways, rented a warehouse, got up at 6 o'clock every morning, and worked until 10 o'clock at night.
A dozen hours a day of running around, saying that it is not hard is false.
But when he thought of his lovely daughter, Liu Yongchao was happy and satisfied in his heart.
Unexpectedly, a paper paternity test completely broke his life
: His daughter Star was not his own child.
Liu Yongchao speculated,
It must have been the wife who deliberately deceived him and kept him in the dark.
What's going on here?
First, the husband and wife quarrel, and the daughter's bloodline is doubtful
Some time ago, Liu Yongchao's wife Chen Qian went to Henan and came back to quarrel with Liu Yongchao and divorce her.
The husband and wife quarreled with red eyes, and the wife Chen Qiankou did not choose to say:
"Your daughter is not your bloodline, so why don't you divorce me?"
As the saying goes, "The speaker has no intention, the listener has intention."
The wife's seemingly unintentional words were like a stone pressed against Liu Yongchao's heart.
He took his daughter Star to a paternity test, which made him furious:
He and his daughter Star are not biological fathers and daughters.
In an instant, Liu Yongchao's qi and blood surged, and he suddenly felt that his life had lost its meaning.
"I got married again just to have my own bloodline."
In 2010, Liu Yongchao, who came from a poor family, became a door-to-door son-in-law at the urging of his parents.
Because his first wife was infertile, Liu Yongchao always felt regret in his heart, so he divorced his wife.
In 2016, shortly after Liu Yongchao's divorce, he met Chen Qian, who had been divorced for many years.
Again made a door-to-door son-in-law.
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More than a year after marriage, the daughter Xingxing was born, allowing Liu Yongchao to become a father as he wished.
Looking at his daughter's tender little face, Liu Yongchao was surrounded by great happiness and felt that it would be worth it to be bitter and tired in the future.
I didn't think that after 4 years, I actually learned that my daughter was not his own child, which was tantamount to a thunderbolt on a sunny day for him.
Thinking of his wife's deception of himself, Liu Yongchao burst into tears:
"I'm 44 years old, I want my own bloodline, but heaven is unfair to me. I was serious about raising a family, and this vicious woman had lied to me like this! ”
Now that the evidence is conclusive, he just wants to ask his wife for clarification and find out what really happened.
Second, the wife beat a rake upside down
Back at his hometown, Liu Yongchao opened the door with the key.
His wife, Chen Qian, invited friends to come to the house for dinner and was busy in the kitchen.
Liu Yongchao rushed to the kitchen and questioned his wife with the appraisal results in his hand:
"Why are you lying to me?"
Chen Qian turned her back on her husband and took care of herself, did not have much emotion, but said lightly:
"The child is yours."
"You lied, can the appraisal results still be false?"
At this time, Chen Qian asked her husband:
"Why are you hiding that I took my daughter for a paternity test?"
In Chen Qian's view, the husband just doesn't want a daughter, so he will do this.
The reporter asked: "Do you think the identification results are fake?" ”
"It doesn't matter if it's true or not, he's already hurting me and my daughter by doing so."
At this time, the reporter proposed that if Chen Qian did not believe it and felt that her husband had wronged her, she could make another appraisal.
As a result, Chen Qian rebuffed it:
"Paternity testing is not important anymore, he thinks that if the daughter is not biological, it is not biological."
Such a backward rake made Liu Yongchao angry.
He recalled his wife's unusual behavior and angrily rebuked the other party:
"You lived with the man in Henan for a few months, and asked your daughter to call him Daddy, don't think I don't know!"
Just when the reporter wanted to find out, Chen Qian's sister rushed over.
Seeing Liu Yongchao, she scolded without anger:
"You're a neurotic!"
In her opinion, the younger sister has always been honest and honest, diligent and thrifty, and everything is Liu Yongchao's fabrication, deliberately looking for contradictions.
But when the reporter mentioned the child's bloodline, the sister did not talk about it:
"It's their family affair, and I don't know."
The appraisal results were in front of him, and no matter how Liu Yongchao asked about the child's origin, Chen Qian suddenly fell silent.
Can Liu Yongchao get the truth he wants?
Third, remarried couples "clear accounting"
After the reporter asked for a long time, Chen Qian finally opened her heart and talked about her marriage with her husband Liu Yongchao.
Chen Qian's three sisters, as the second eldest in the family, her parents recruited a door-to-door son-in-law for her, letting her stay in the Chen family.
In 2006, because of the relationship with her first husband, the two divorced, and the son was raised by Chen Qian.
In the 10 years since the divorce, Chen Qian has been single, but she is also comfortable.
Later, under the pressure of his parents, he remarried Liu Yongchao, who knew each other.
Not long after the couple got married, Liu Yongchao's miserliness made Chen Qian dissatisfied.
"When I got married, I gave tens of thousands of savings to my husband, I didn't have money when I didn't go to work, and I asked him to borrow money to play cards."
The clear accounts between husband and wife, coupled with Liu Yongchao's vigilance everywhere, made Chen Qian feel bored.
Speaking of her daughter's life, Chen Qian admitted:
"I didn't cheat, I just went out and vented once."
However, she also expressed her grievances:
"I've always thought my daughter was my husband's, and if I knew the child was someone else's, would I still say that?"
Such logic is unbelievable.
Just after Chen Qian admitted, Liu Yongchao immediately took out a pile of printed information and handed it to his wife.
He printed out all the personal contacts between the marriage and the WeChat transfer between the husband and wife, and asked Chen Qian to "pay back the money".
Seeing that her husband was prepared, Chen Qian's emotions immediately became excited, and she thought that her husband was "sinister":
"I didn't get a penny of this money, you count me like this, I really don't want to follow you!"
Then Chen Qian couldn't help but cry, as if she had a great grievance.
"If your daughter were yours, I wouldn't give it to you, and people like you can only suffer!"
Chen Qian's crying was just a means of pretending to be pitiful and winning sympathy in Liu Yongchao's eyes.
In his opinion, he was the victim, and years of hard work were empty, leaving only humiliation.
Chen Qian is still aggrieved, and she believes that her husband is taking advantage of the opportunity to blackmail.
When the two get married and buy a house,
Chen Qianniang's family came out with 280,000 yuan, and Liu Yongchao did not have a penny.
After marriage, Liu Yongchao's money was also all in his hands.
Now what right does he have to ask himself for money?
The reporter asked Liu Yongchao:
"After 5 years of marriage, do you have statistics on how much money you have paid for your family?"
"I usually give cash, and I don't have all the transfer records."
Liu Yongchao said that a few years ago, he engaged in breeding, and all the money earned from planting lotus and raising ducks was handed over to his wife;
In the past two years, takeaway food has been delivered, and the salary of seven or eight thousand per month has also been given to his wife's family.
On the other hand, his wife Chen Qian, who occasionally works in a foot bath shop, earns only enough money to spend on her own.
Hearing Liu Yongchao say this, Chen Qian couldn't help but sneer:
"You lost all your money in farming, where did you make money?"
Liu Yongchao also did not show weakness:
"The money I've earned from delivering takeaways in the past two years has always been given to you!"
The couple was desperate for money and were eager to write down every sum of money they gave to each other.
After arguing for half a day, Chen Qian finally showed weakness and sobbed.
She said that she knew that she was wrong, did not ask her husband for forgiveness, and only hoped that his husband would let her go, not to make trouble in court, and to reconcile if she could reconcile.
"Isn't it a waste of money that you're spending so much money to sue?" Chen Qian choked up.
Liu Yongchao said that he could be private, but he must compensate for his losses.
Now that his daughter has a clear life and is not Liu Yongchao's own flesh and blood, he said that he will never be able to forgive his wife.
Liu Yongchao filed for divorce and demanded that Chen Qian compensate him for mental losses, maintenance, etc., totaling 500,000 yuan.
In addition, the house should also be divided in half by him.
For her husband's request, Chen Qian did not respond directly, and now she was also panicked, not knowing how to deal with it.
Chen Qian's sister directly accused Liu Yongchao of being too deep-minded.
The Chen family has good conditions, and chen Qian gave birth to a son for the Chen family, and her parents spent all their savings on her.
On the other hand, Liu Yongchao is destitute, and his dedication to the family in the past 5 years of marriage is also minimal.
Today, he is demanding huge compensation, which is obviously unreasonable.
Besides, when Liu Yongchao did not have a penny when buying a house, what qualifications did he have to take away half of the property?
Chen Qian said that the reason why she and her husband have come to this step,
It is because she and her ex-husband have a son who stays in the Chen family, so the husband has a hand everywhere.
At this point, after all, it is Chen Qian's fault first, how should this matter be solved?
Fourth, Chen Qian refused to mediate
The next day, the reporter invited the couple to the judicial office for mediation.
Liu Yongchao rushed to the mediation scene early, but Chen Qian's figure was not seen.
He was the first to make his own request to the mediator:
"I have nothing now, the house will definitely give me half, and the maintenance fee, mental damage fee, etc. will compensate me for 500,000 yuan."
In response to this request, the mediator directly stated:
"You have the right to claim compensation, but with my many years of work experience, this amount is not realistic."
The mediator then dialed Chen Qian's phone and asked her to come forward for mediation.
Chen Qian said:
"I won't come forward, I don't know what trap he has set for me to drill!"
"We're here to solve the problem, how can we let him lie to you?"
Chen Qian said excitedly:
"Who hasn't made a mistake, and why did he keep killing me?"
No matter how much the mediator persuaded, Chen Qian always refused to come forward.
She said she would go through the legal process and ask the court to resolve it.
Knowing his wife's attitude, Liu Yongchao also said
"I believe in the law, and the law will give me justice." ”
In the days of waiting for the court's judgment, Liu Yongchao still runs every day to earn money.
It's just that every time he wants to video with his daughter, he is rejected by his wife.
The reluctance to his daughter made this middle-aged man burst into tears:
"I miss my daughter."
epilogue
In this family conflict, the woman Chen Qian is the absolute fault party, and Liu Yongchao can claim her rights.
But for him, I am afraid that I will lose my daughter forever.
Liu Yongchao and Chen Qian's remarried family, full of many calculations, finally ended in divorce.
Not to mention the loss of both sides, but also hurt the innocent daughter, which is regrettable.
I want to say that when dealing with marriage, we must not settle down, let alone perfunctory.
Since you choose to be together, it is better to be open and honest, take the initiative to take the responsibility of marriage, and the husband and wife will work together for the second half of life.
Otherwise, it is better to be safe with each other.