According to reports, the experience of a man in Hunan has attracted the attention of netizens. The cause was that his wife leaked her mouth in anger: the 4-year-old daughter was not born to a man.
What is even more unacceptable is the attitude of the wife, who not only has no guilt, but also said: she did not expect that the child is not his?
The first marriage was separated because the wife was infertile
Liu Yongchao's family has poor economic conditions and cannot afford to buy a garage, so he has not found a marriage partner until his thirties. Seeing that the family was in a hurry, Liu Yongchao chose to compromise and became a door-to-door son-in-law. After marriage, the husband and wife have a good relationship, but unfortunately the wife suffers from infertility. Liu Yongchao as a door-to-door son-in-law, the heart is already aggrieved and unwilling, when he thinks that he has no offspring, he said that he can't accept it, and he has no choice but to divorce his wife.
After the divorce, through the introduction of others, I met Chen Qian. Chen Qian, like Liu Yongchao, is a divorced person. Moreover, Chen Qian's ex-husband is also a door-to-door son-in-law, and the two have a daughter. Later, because the husband and wife did not have the same feelings, they led to divorce. After listening to Chen Qian's situation, Liu Yongchao was very satisfied, and the two soon got together and married.
When they got married, Chen Qian's family, who had a better economic situation, bore the cost of the banquet and the house, totaling 280,000 yuan. After marriage, Liu Yongchao chose to run takeaway in order to give Chen Qian a better life. Later, Chen Qian became pregnant, and Liu Yongchao, who had a son in his old age, was very excited and cared more for his wife. Soon after, Chen Qian gave birth to a lovely daughter for Liu Yongchao.
I thought that the happy family life of the three began, but Liu Yongchao found that there were more and more problems in his wife. Chen Qian is unwilling to go out to work after marriage, and her family expenses have to rely on Liu Yongchao's support, and Chen Qianming knows that Liu Yongchao is not easy to make money, and spending money is also extravagant.
What Liu Yongchao can't tolerate the most is that Chen Qian is obsessed with gambling, and sometimes in order to play mahjong, even the children don't care. In this way, the husband and wife began to quarrel frequently.
The daughter who had been waiting for her was not her own
Once, Liu Yongchao quarreled with Chen Qian again, and in a fit of anger, Chen Qian said the secret that she had been hiding for 4 years, and her daughter was not Liu Yongchao's own child.
After Liu Yongchao heard it, he was directly confused, he could not imagine that his feelings for 4 years were wrongly paid, and the child he loved for many years was not his own.
After some struggle, Liu Yongchao decided to take the child to a paternity test. Finally, the results of the appraisal came out, and the daughter he loved for 4 years was indeed not related to him.
Liu Yongchao immediately found his wife and questioned him, and at first Chen Qian was reluctant to admit it, saying that this was a false certificate that Liu Yongchao used to frame himself. Chen Qian also scolded Liu Yongchao for saying that he was ungrateful, he married him and made so much money, the house was his own home, and now Liu Yongchao actually carried his daughter behind his back to do the appraisal.
Then, Chen Qian said that after she and Liu Yongchao got married, life was tight, and her husband refused to give him pocket money, which was very uninteresting.
In the end, Chen Qian finally admitted that she had cheated once. He also expressed great remorse: he did not think of how the child was not his, if the morning wine knew, he would definitely not tell him.
After listening to Chen Qian's words, Liu Yongchao was very disappointed and resolutely proposed a divorce, and Chen Qian also agreed. Although the child is not Liu Yongchao's, he has loved for 4 years after all, and there is a sincere father-daughter relationship between the two. Liu Yongchao offered to visit his daughter, but Chen Qian did not agree.
After netizens heard about Liu Yongchao's experience, they all felt sad for this man. Twice as a door-to-door son-in-law, it was hard to look forward to a child, but was told that it was not his, and now Liu Yongchao has become a person again. This year, Liu Yongchao is more than forty years old, still has no house and car, it is estimated that remarriage is very difficult, and having children has become a luxury.
Many people will say that what era it is now, the most important thing in marriage is the happiness of two people, children are just icing on the cake, if not, it will not have much impact. But this is only for some open-minded and economically powerful people, who do not have children, and when they are old, they can spend their old age with their savings, and they do not have to worry about no one to take care of them, and they can live in nursing homes with better conditions when they have money. But for people like Liu Yongchao's ideological tradition, no posterity is "a thorn" in the heart.
Many people say that two people love each other, and not having children will not affect the feelings. But you know, after marriage, it is the fusion of two families, how much love after marriage, has long been worn out by oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and the only thing left is family affection and sense of responsibility.
Liu Yongchao's experience hopes to sound the alarm bell for everyone, do not expect to be a hand-throwing treasurer, always think that the economic conditions of the object are good, and he will be able to enjoy happiness in the future. Everyone is independent, and if they don't work hard, they may have nothing after divorce.
In addition, whether it is in love or marriage, we must know more about each other, once we find that there is something wrong, it is a principled bad habit, it is best to stop the loss in time.
I believe that there are also people in society who have the same experience as Liu Yongchao, the wife betrays, the children are not their own, some people will choose to forgive, but some people and Liu Yongchao are equally unacceptable. Those who forgive, mostly because of children, hope that the other party can make a change. But there is no doubt that this kind of thing will have a thorn in the heart for anyone. In the future together, it is inevitable to think of this experience, once the trust collapses, the relationship is difficult to reconcile as before.