Text/Flying Fish
In fact, in the relationship between men and women, you want to pursue a woman, want to get a woman's heart, and want her to have a good feeling for you.
Men and women get along, want to break through the relationship between friends, or strangers, and upgrade to lovers. Then what you have to do is to be sincere, proactive, and to know how to behave in the world, to know how to be a person.
Be a person first, then do things, have a good feeling for a person, start with the appearance, be loyal to the character, and the person who will not be a person shows that the character is not good, even if it looks good, it will not make the woman feel good.
The traction of fate gives you the opportunity to meet and meet, and if you don't know how to grasp it well, you will also lose it.
Only by learning to treat it with heart can we make the other party feel good, so as to like you and accept you.
So, in the relationship between men and women, if you want women to have a good feeling for you, the best way to do so.
01, know how to take care of her, consider her feelings.
In the relationship between men and women, especially when two people go out to play together, if a man knows how to take care of a woman, knows how to take care of a woman, and considers her feelings, then the woman will feel that this man is good, very intimate, and very good at taking care of others, so that he will have a good impression of men.
I still remember once going on a blind date with my girlfriend, and I went with my girlfriend. The other party also brought a boy with us, so we went to play in a botanical garden.
At first, I felt that the boy was not bad, although the appearance was average, but the overall was quite good, so I continued to shop.
Then the boy proposed four people to pedal the bicycle together, and at first two boys sat in front of the bike, so that the girl did not have to work hard in the back.
I didn't expect to be halfway there, and the blind date offered to ask me to change places with him, let me step up to the front and step on, and he sat in the back with my girlfriend.
I don't want that, and my girlfriend doesn't want to.
But the blind date man did not take this into account, did not consider that the girl would be embarrassed by this, and even felt very disgusted.
Since the blind date, I still gave the opportunity to the blind date man, but I did not think that both men did not step on much, let me step hard in front of myself, and I wanted to spit in my heart instantly. But the choice was not spoken, and I did not want to break the atmosphere.
When it was over, my girlfriend and I were on the way back, only to complain all the way, these two men, one self-righteous, one will not be a person, all the good feelings are gone in an instant.
Then, after the blind date man returned, he immediately told the family about the meeting and asked others to ask his girlfriend what his impression of him was.
But did not directly ask the girlfriend, resulting in everyone in the family to know, which once again made the girlfriend feel so embarrassed, the good feeling for that person was not at all.
Therefore, if a man wants to gain a woman's favor and make her like you, he really has to learn to be a person and do things, and he must also know how to take care of her feelings.
Feelings are a matter of two people, and if you always go and pull other people in and interfere too much, it will be very embarrassing.
And in getting along, if you only care about your own happiness, only care about your own ideas, do not consider each other's feelings, do not take care of women, then what is the use of her with you, it is better to be single.
Women actually just want to find a dependency, but men don't show their manhood from the beginning, they don't take care of people, and they really don't make people feel good.
02, take the initiative to contact, and seriously reply to her message.
In fact, a large part of the reason for a woman to have a good feeling for you is still to rely on communication.
If men and women get along, men do not take the initiative to contact, are very perfunctory to each other's information, and even sometimes do not reply to other people's messages, then it will only slowly consume the woman's good feelings for you.
Between men and women, if you want to know more, you need to communicate and chat.
If men don't take the initiative to contact women, then there will naturally be no breakthrough in the relationship.
Even when a woman originally has a little liking for you, so try to contact you, and you don't reply to someone else, then the woman's good feelings for you are wiped out.
I remembered that a friend met a man at a dinner party before, and at first the two of them sat together, very chatty, and had a good chat, and then the man asked the friend for contact information.
Friends also have a good impression of him, and after going back, they also took the initiative to contact him, and he also replied to the message.
So the friend wanted to talk to him more, and he wanted him to take the initiative to find her, but the friend could not wait for his initiative.
Therefore, the friends took the initiative for a long time, they were tired, and their good feelings were gone, so they lay quietly in each other's address books and became strangers again.
In the interaction between men and women, women will always hope that men can take the initiative, so that they will see that he is more sincere, through active contact, will lock the woman's heart tightly, let her fall in love with you, and do not let her down.
All feelings, without beginning to end, then there is too much disappointment. So, there will be no later.
In short, if a man wants to make a woman feel good about you, he must know how to pay, do not let her down, she sees your sincerity, sees your sincerity, sees your personality, and will slowly look at you.
When she does not pay attention to you, to take the initiative to contact you, to frequently spoil you, in fact, she is really feelings for you, and she is identifying you.
When she changes her attitude towards you and slowly accepts you, it also shows that she has increased her liking for you.
Therefore, in the relationship between men and women, do not let her down, know how to take care of her, care about her, consider the problem from her point of view, do not do things too childishly, do not always consider yourself, otherwise disappointed more, good feelings will no longer be there.
Only full of hope will let love take root, so all a man has to do is let her stay good about you.
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