There is a famous saying:
Love is pure, but life is impure.
When choosing love, we all hope to be able to marry love, women are more able to marry love, but when the reality is in front of us, it is not sentient to be able to drink water, and love without bread is difficult to sustain.
If you have to choose between bread and love, it is a very test of love, and it is also a test of human nature.
For women, they want love and bread, but it is difficult to have the best of both worlds.
When encountering love when there is a lack of materials, whether to tide over the difficulties with men or choose ready-made bread in the middle, this difficult choice is actually a game of future happiness for yourself.
Every step needs to be taken with extra caution, and the slightest carelessness can lead to a full loss.
Wang Ling (pseudonym) is a rural girl with a beautiful appearance and a tall figure.
After graduating from a university in Taiyuan, the provincial capital, she decided to establish herself in the provincial city, but after graduating for a few years, in addition to daily expenses, Wang Ling had hardly saved any money, and it was not easy to get a foothold in the provincial city.
At this time, a man named Yang Sen (pseudonym) broke into her life, Yang Sen worked in a private company, although the salary was not much, but the income was still stable, the most important thing is that Yang Sen is a caring warm man, often make food to send to Wang Ling,
Yang Sen's caring and enthusiasm gradually impressed Wang Ling, and the two established a romantic relationship.
But in fact,
Wang Ling is not willing to live like this with Yang Sen for a lifetime, Wang Ling said that when he thinks that if he marries Yang Sen in the future, he will have to work all day for chai rice oil and salt, with her appearance and figure, she can not be dragged down by this, and it is not impossible to find a rich and handsome man.
Just when Wang Ling hesitated, another man named Li Rong (pseudonym) entered her life, Li Rong is a businessman, 37 years old is still single, and Wang Ling is also close to ten years old.
His explanation for this is that he has been busy with his career and has failed to take care of personal marriage matters, so he has delayed.
After this, Li Rong often took Wang Ling out shopping and shopping, Wang Ling gradually developed an inseparable affection with Li Rong, and later Li Rong directly rented an apartment for Wang Ling, just facing her boyfriend Yang Sen.
Wang Ling did not propose to break up, but he also did not have the enthusiasm of the past, and the love between the two was not salty and not light.
One morning, Wang Ling was snuggling in the apartment in Li Rong's arms, when Li Rong's mobile phone ringtone disturbed the two people's dreams.
Wang Ling reached over and took a look at the mobile phone, it was a call from a person who commented on "wife",
At this time, Li Rong's face on the side immediately changed, and he confessed the fact that he had a family.
Wang Ling felt that he had been toyed with, and immediately moved away after getting up, thinking that his dream of Mrs. Kuo in the future was also broken, and the disheartened Wang Ling was drunk at home, at this time, Yang Sen called and heard Wang Ling's drunken voice, he immediately rushed over, busy washing Wang Ling's face and wiping it, etc., and carried her to the bed to rest.
Wang Ling saw the figure of Yang Sen busy before and after, she was touched, taking advantage of Wang Ling's drunkenness, the two had an intimate relationship,
After Wang Ling woke up, he decided to live a good life with Yang Sen and completely severed ties with Li Rong.
But not long after, Wang Ling found out that she was pregnant.
What confused her was that according to the calculation of the day, Wang Ling said that she should have been pregnant on the day she was drunk, but the problem was that Yang Sen and Li Rong had both looked for her that day, and she had also had relations with them, so she really could not determine the identity of the child.
At this moment, Li Rong called her again, apologized to Wang Ling, hoped to forgive her kind deception, and asked Wang Ling to meet, considering the fetus in his belly, Wang Ling informed Li Rong of the news that he was pregnant with his flesh and bones, and agreed to meet with Li Rong.
After meeting, Li Rong said that he was also from the countryside.
Because of his tall and handsome appearance, he was favored by his current wife, and as a last resort, he married his wife, who was 8 years older than himself, and used his wife's start-up funds to make the capital to have a successful career now.
But because of his wife's health,
The two have not had children for 7 years after marriage, Li Rong said that he has been single-handed for several generations and cannot break the incense on his hands, so he hopes that Wang Ling will give birth to this child, and he will be fully responsible.
After saying that, he transferred 50,000 yuan to Wang Ling on the spot, and promised to marry Wang Ling after divorce.
With the passage of time, Wang Ling's belly is getting bigger and bigger day by day, in order to hide her eyes, she said to Li Rong that there is a man named "Yang Sen" chasing her, she is ready to marry the other party, let Yang Sen mistakenly think that the child is his flesh and bones, and after Li Rong's divorce, she will find a way to divorce and then marry Li Rong, although Li Rong is unwilling, but suddenly he can't get married, and can only be forced to agree to Wang Ling's suggestion.
Later, Wang Ling held a wedding with Yang Sen as he wished
After the birth of the child, Wang Ling secretly did a paternity test for the child and found that the child was Yang Sen's flesh and bones.
At this time, Wang Ling was confused, she had no reason to marry Li Rong after divorce, but Wang Ling thought about it, the children were born, Li Rong still did not divorce his wife for a long time, it was clear that he did not want to divorce, thinking of a series of deceptions that Li Rong had done to her before, Wang Ling decided that even if it was not Li Rong's flesh and bones, she would also take a sum of money from the other party.
So, Wang Ling called to tell Li Rong that the child was seriously ill and needed 1 million medical expenses, the tone was very anxious and anxious, if she did not give 1 million, she said that she would hold the child in front of Li Rong's wife, Li Rong considered it again and again or transferred 1 million to Wang Ling, and the result did not take long,
Wang Ling also told Li Rong that the child was seriously ill and unfortunately died, the medical expenses were all used up, the child was gone, her heart was dead, she wanted to be alone and quiet, so that Li Rong would never look for her in the future.
After calming down, Li Rong thought more and more wrong, the child has not seen a glance so gone, he suspects that he has encountered fraud, simply call the police for help,
In the end, Wang Ling was severely punished by the law, Yang Sen also divorced her, and the child was raised by the man Yang Sen.
Wang Ling's wealth was completely empty, and it ended in tragedy.
As a female college student who came out of the countryside, Wang Ling hopes to gain a foothold in a big city, and marrying someone has become the only choice to change her destiny.
It's just that when she faces two men, she is confused, abandoning the truth between the true heart and the material, and finally she is also empty of money.
Life is long, as long as you work hard, the material embarrassment can always be alleviated to a certain extent,
However, compared with true love, it is very precious that people can meet true love once in a lifetime.
After all, in this impetuous society, if you can meet people who really love yourself, it is really worth a lifetime of pride.
Although Janssen is just an ordinary office worker, the income is also very average, but his sincerity, diligence and caring are enough to see that he is a man who can live a life, although he lacks a little bread, but the lack of this bread can be obtained through hard work in the future time.
On the other hand, although Li Rong is a so-called successful person, he first concealed his marital status.
A married man lies so much, even if he has a thousand reasons, but has seriously trampled on the moral bottom line of marriage,
Sorry for his wife in marriage.
At the same time, Li Rong relied on his wife to achieve his current success, and even willingly sacrificed his marriage and happiness in order to achieve career success, willing to marry a woman who was 8 years older than himself and did not love at all.
It can be seen that Li Rong is indeed more cruel to himself, and he is also more affectionate about feelings, a man who regards feelings as tools, it may be difficult for him to really fall in love with a woman.
After Wang Ling learned of the fact that Li Rong had deceived himself, although he once swore to live a good life with Yang Sen, but later because of pregnancy, he had the unrealistic idea of marrying Li Rong, and even later in order to deceive Li Rong's huge property and lie about the child's serious illness and death, perhaps it was a revenge action taken by the hatred, but it was still illegal, and he was eventually imprisoned.
It's just that from her tragedy, as a woman, especially for a good-looking woman, in the face of men's pursuit, you should give up unrealistic fantasies,
Beauty does not mean that you must marry rich and handsome, happiness and rich handsome also have nothing to do with, only meet the right person, sincerely treat their own men is the real love.
In the contradictory choice of bread and love, in fact, bread is relatively easy to obtain, and love is more difficult to find, as long as a man truly loves women at the same time, he has enough self-motivation and ability, I believe that in the near future, the bread problem in front of you will eventually be completely solved, and women can also live a happy life.
And for the sake of a momentary illusory material enjoyment, using their youth and beauty as a weight to achieve a gorgeous turn in their lives is only a flash in the pan after all, completely losing their ability and opportunity to game happiness.
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