The TV series "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing and Tong Yao is currently airing.
In the play, Feng Xiaoqin is realistic in marriage, in addition to feelings for each other, she also wants the other party to be a Shanghainese. Feng Xiaoqin not only wants to get a household registration, she also wants to buy a house.
Gu Qingyu ignores reality in marriage and cannot see that Shi Yuan is not suitable for her in marriage. She still pounced on it like a moth to a fire.
Shi Yuan was Gu Qingyu's crush when he was in elementary school, and the two later lost contact.
When the two met again, Gu Qingyu was 36 years old, and she was inadvertently still holding on to this hazy emotion with Shi Yuan. The boyfriends she talked about had to wear white shirts like Shi Yuan when she was a child.
When they met again, Shi Yuan was already divorced.
Obsessed with the feelings of childhood, Gu Qingyu, who has always been high, took the initiative to pursue Shi Yuan, and the two married.
In fact, what Gu Qingyu wants to marry is the Shi Yuan in her memory, the Shi Yuan who wore a white shirt and played the piano when she was a child, not Shi Yuan, who now has nothing, but Gu Qingyu does not want to wake up.
She didn't care what Shi Yuan's current living situation was, all she wanted was for Shi Yuan to be able to live with her after marriage.
Money, she Gu Qingyu can earn, do not have to worry about Shi Yuan.
In the workplace, Gu Qingyu is very sober-minded, and emotionally she can be said to be living in a fairy tale.
Gu Qingyu, graduated from a prestigious university, belongs to the white-collar class, capable and excellent, foreign executives, she made a single business for the company, and the commission given to her by the company is eight million.
Shi Yuan studied at an ordinary foreign trade school and was also an ordinary tour guide. His mother was ill, and the huge medical bills left him breathless. And this medical expense, Gu Qingyu can pay it in one lump sum.
Whether it is education level or income, the gap between Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu is obviously on the table.
Such a reality, if the weaker party, that is, Shi Yuan, cannot be treated calmly, the balance of marriage will be unbalanced.
After marriage, Shi Yuan refused Gu Qingyu's help to the Shi family, especially gu Qingyu to pay Shi Yuan's mother medical expenses. Shi Yuan would rather borrow usurious loans than accept Gu Qingyu's help.
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The method, the character Gu Qingyu in the play does not understand, they are husband and wife, what is the money she earns. Shi Yuan's father did not understand, saying that what is wrong with eating soft rice, and how much is self-esteem worth?
Many viewers who watched the play outside the play did not understand.
There are those who say that Shi Yuan is unclear, those who say that Shi Yuan wants face when he dies, and those who say that Shi Yuan's character is fake.
Until Shi Yuan said that he didn't want to just be the son-in-law of this family, Qingyu's husband, he wanted to be himself. Shi Yuan's unwillingness to benefit from Gu Qingyu's answer surfaced.
To be yourself, it is not necessary to surpass the wife. To live a life between husband and wife, you want to be happy, not to compete. Shi Yuan did the opposite.
He saw the gap between him and Gu Qingyu, and the competition was one aspect, and the living habits were also very different.
The previous source of shi is no longer there. Gu Qingyu likes to listen to concerts, he doesn't.
He likes to talk dirty, likes to play mahjong, likes to make a fuss when playing mahjong, and even lies to Gu Qingyu about going on a business trip for a few days in order to play mahjong. He likes to walk around the alley in slippers, and Gu Qingyu doesn't like him like this.
The result was not for him to change, or for Gu Qingyu to change.
The most important thing is that he doesn't want to change his lifestyle.
What the result of living like this is, you can guess it.
Unwilling to face reality, Gu Qingyu's marriage is such a consequence.