Love is the most beautiful emotion, but also the most hurtful, how sweet two people are when they are together, how painful it is when they are separated, everyone who has experienced love knows it.
In particular, the pain is even more pronounced when the person who is still in love with the other person is forced to break up because of other objective factors.
Gu Qingyu in "Heart Residence" is this kind of love for Shi Yuan for 20 years, knowing the other party's various hardships, or can forgive him for all his faults, until the other party said divorce, she is still in love with his one woman.
If you want to ask Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan who loves more deeply, then the answer must be gu Qingyu who loves more deeply.
For 20 years, Shi Yuan has been the white moonlight that lingers in Gu Qingyu's heart, the object of persistence.
Because she wants him to wait for him, Gu Qingyu is still single at the age of 36, she will dress up every boyfriend as Shi Yuan in her impression, how much love will be so persistent.
Later, she met again, even if Shi Yuan's current situation was very bad, she still desperately married him, spent money to change his mother's kidney, tolerated his unbearableness, and accepted his faults.
Seeing that Gu Qingyu was harsh and wary of Feng Xiaoqin, and the appearance that would be magnified when she grasped things, everyone would definitely feel that she was a very difficult person to get along with.
However, in front of Shi Yuan, she was completely different, Shi Yuan and Lily had an explicit relationship, she turned a blind eye; Shi Yuan acted like a clown as an emcee, she pretended not to know; Shi Yuan hurt her and lost her job, she took the initiative to forgive.
Man, everyone has a bit of an emotional past, Lily is not her opponent, as long as Shi Yuan is no longer involved.
Shi Yuan's unbearable, not just to be a celebrant as a clown, he even did a fake marriage, this is just pediatrics, patience will pass.
However, Shi Yuan had to stay in Aimeng to work, and finally caused Gu Qingyu to be dismissed, this matter was too serious, that was the place where Gu Qingyu worked for 20 years, the place where she grew up.
Such a major mistake, Gu Qingyu can actually digest it himself, so good work said no, and then in turn comforted Shi Yuan, afraid that he would blame himself. Even if she suspected that Shi Yuan had betrayed her, she was willing to forgive, how unprincipled it was.
Being able to forgive and tolerate a person so unprincipledly shows how deep Gu Qingyu's love for Shi Yuan is. Loving someone so lowly is not like a strong woman like her doing something, but she just did it.
Originally thought that after Shi Yuan proposed divorce, Gu Qingyu would be so painful that he was reluctant to let go, but he did not expect that they were very sharp to divorce, watching Shi Yuan drag the suitcase away, Gu Qingyu did not shed a tear, it was uncomfortable, but she did not want to live, this kind of reason makes people outrageous.
For Shi Yuan, his departure may be a relief, he knows that Gu Qingyu is much better than Lily, and one heaven and one earth cannot be compared at all, but he feels that it is the easiest time to be with Lily.
Watching the newly divorced Shi Yuan and Li Li walking together and talking and laughing, we know how depressed that marriage made him for Shi Yuan.
And Gu Qingyu is different, she can automatically ignore all the bad things about Shi Yuan, enjoy the time with him, in order to be with him well, she has paid a lot and endured a lot, because this is the love she dreamed of.
What is admirable is that she loves someone so much, but she can calmly accept divorce, do not cry or make trouble, and do not have any fragile behavior.
She should move, she should go on a blind date, life is business as usual, there is no impact, but the picture of once being together will be played back in her mind, and she will also return to the place where Shi Yuan once appeared, that's all.
People who have loved for 20 years, said to put down and put down, I have to say that Gu Qingyu's living state is very good, but also worth learning.
How many emotionally fragile people have not been in love for a long time, and when they break up, they will die and live, and they will do stupid things such as jumping off the building and cutting their wrists.
Looking at Gu Qingyu's rationality and dashingness, are those glass hearts that are heartbroken in love blushing?
Yes, everyone's personality is different, psychological endurance is not the same, but this is not the reason for decadence after the breakup, calmly accept the fact of the breakup, leave the scene as soon as possible and do not stay, is the most rational!