The status quo of older leftover women can be said to be more and more, many marriage agencies and red bride institutions have appeared a group of young sisters competing for a high-quality man.
Even some marriage agencies in order to attract older leftover women to pay the fee, specifically to find such a high-quality male member to list, not only do not charge money but also pour money.
It is reasonable to say that there are many women and boys now, and it should be men around women, how can there be such an inverted situation?
First of all, we must make it clear that whether it is a man or a woman, being old is a disadvantage, and women are more cruel because they have children.
Although men are old and are not good at having children or even unable to have children, there are many men who can give birth to children in their fifties and sixties, but how many women are there?
In addition to these, now whether it is the public opinion environment or the mate market, the attitude towards the older leftover women is extremely unfriendly, and even can be said to be malicious.
Now in the minds of many older leftover women, they feel that they can't find an object, and the reason why they are left behind is that they have not met the right one, otherwise they would have married a long time ago.
This is actually an illusion, in fact, what really prevents them from finding the other half is themselves, lack of self-awareness, and ridiculously high mate selection standards.
Many older leftover women have the same mate selection requirements as little girls in their early 20s, or even higher than those of little girls, which makes people feel a little outrageous.
Compared with a little girl in her early 20s, the older leftover woman, no matter how much maintenance, is no better than natural collagen and how much earthly pure heart it is dyed.
In addition to these little girls, there are also divorced women, who often experience emotional pain, so they will know more about running marriages, and the requirements for men are often lower.
For the elderly leftover women, it can be said that there are ambushes before and after the pursuit of soldiers, the situation is extremely not optimistic, for example, the People's Network reported that as of 10:40 on January 10, Fujian Province, Fujian has 12831 "post-00s" marriage registration, of which 22 are men and 12809 are women.
So many post-00s are not married to post-00s of the same age, but married to men older than themselves, perhaps these men are not worth mentioning in the eyes of older leftover women, but it is very suitable for little girls.
Of course, the older leftover women are not hopeless to get married, those who do not want to get married we do not talk about it for the time being, most of the older leftover women actually want to get married, and many older leftover women are anxious about getting married at the moment.
In fact, if the older leftover women can recognize the situation, and then integrate the existing resources in their hands and appropriately adjust their mate selection standards, it is still easy to get rid of singleness, or even find a good home.
Just like those who play poker and mahjong, some people often win, some people often lose, sometimes it is luck, but more is strength, people who often win even if they are a bad card, sometimes they can play alive, and those who often lose, even if they hold a good card, can play a bad game.
Unless the cards in the hand are invincible, the chaos can also win steadily, but how many women can have such "good cards", it can be said that most women do not have it.
If the older leftover woman wants to get rid of singleness, the key is how to revitalize the cards in her hand and formulate a relatively reasonable strategy based on her actual situation.
For example, in terms of body appearance, older leftover women must not compare with little girls, even if you use the best skin care products, you can't save the aging of the skin.
As long as the facial features are correct, the figure is good, people are easy to be blessed in middle age, women are no exception, so the older leftover women can exercise more, not only can make themselves healthier, but also let themselves have a good body, the more mature men love the figure.
At the same time, improve their temperament, make themselves look more feminine, to be honest, now many older leftover women are no different from boys, so how can they attract boys.
Those who are not bad for money can go to a dance class, the temperament will come up immediately, they can also exercise to relieve the fatigue of work, and they can also take this opportunity to know some of the opposite sex.
Reduce their own requirements, do not always feel that they are still a little girl, since the marriage market is the market, then you must follow the rules of the market, digital products new out of the old model on the price reduction, how the old model will continue to appreciate, this is completely contrary to the market principles.
If it is not a very good temperament, grow long hair, try more clothes with obvious feminine characteristics, smile more usually, do not bring the set of work to life, go straight to think that it is very popular, in fact, it is low emotional intelligence.
Instead you are a man, you will find a woman like this, this is not love, this is wronged.