There was an incident in our neighborhood that has been going on for a long time, but I still remember it vividly.
It was a winter, when I was coming home from work and was preparing to go upstairs, I heard a cry for help in the next unit, so I immediately rushed over and found that the neighbor's door on the first floor next door was wide open, and Hadron (pseudonym), the man of the house, was crying helplessly in the living room.
I walked in the door and looked at it, and found that on the sofa on the side of the living room, there were Xiao Min (pseudonym) and their seven-year-old child Kang Kang (pseudonym), and there was a lot of charcoal on the side.
So, I and the other neighbors who came to hear the sound worked together to send Xiaomin and Kang Kang to the hospital, and finally the two people were out of danger of life, and after a period of recuperation, they were discharged.
After that, our neighbors were very worried about the safety of the Hadron family, so many neighbors took turns to visit them, and when I went, Xiaomin talked to me about the real reason for this.
The beginning of the tragedy: the child is diagnosed with autism
When Xiao Min and Hadron's children were first born, they were just as cute as ordinary children, and they seemed to be angels sent by Heaven to save the family. The family was also very happy to see this cute little creature.
However, as the children continue to grow up, the hadron couple found that the child seems to be a little unusual, often ignore the call of the parents, and has not been able to speak, even if it is a vigorous teaching, the child will only be called a "mother", which makes the hadron couple very worried, worried about whether the child is suffering from any major disease.
So, the hadrons took the child to the provincial hospital.
The bad news also appeared at this time, and after a detailed examination and diagnosis, Kang Kang was diagnosed with autism and became a child from the stars.
When the Hadrons learned the news, the spiritual world collapsed in an instant. However, the two people eventually survived, because the doctor said that this situation can still be detected and intervened early, and it is still possible to live like a normal person.
With the doctor's words, Hadron and Xiaomin seemed to see hope again. After leaving the hospital, Hadron and Xiaomin began an infinite rush for the treatment of the child.
Because the child suffers from autism, can not live alone, and it is difficult to adapt to the normal child's kindergarten life, so Xiaomin will accompany the child at home all day, while the hadron will go out early and return late every day, in addition to his own work, but also find three or four part-time jobs, in order to: save money, treat diseases.
Moments of happiness: The child's condition gradually improves
After years of continuous efforts by Hadron and Xiaomin, taking the child everywhere to seek medical treatment, the child's condition has finally improved.
Children are no longer as unusual as before, but are able to have some basic communication and interaction, and seem to be less introverted.
Seeing such a situation, Qiangzi and Xiaomin knew that their efforts had not been in vain, and the hardships they had suffered for many years had finally been repaid.
At this time, the child is almost 7 years old, if this age can be recovered, then, living a normal life is just around the corner, and even the child's learning will not be delayed. Such a bright prospect makes the Hadron family very happy.
Unexpected appearance: Society does not smoothly accept children with autism
The child's condition improved steadily, which also made the doctor very happy, after analysis, felt that the child was time to go to school, so he suggested that the hadron couple send their children to kindergarten and begin to experience a small group life.
Later, Hadron also found a kindergarten close to home for the child, and the child happily went to school.
For a long time afterwards, the family lived happily, and although the work was very hard, every time he saw the child's condition continuing to improve, he would feel happy.
However, fate is always bad, and one day two months later, Xiaomin received a call from the teacher: Kang Kang beat someone in the kindergarten, the mother of the beater did not forgive, and complained about Kang Kang's violence in the class group, and some parents followed suit.
In order to reduce everyone's hostility to Kang Kang, Xiaomin told the fact that her child was autistic in the group, hoping to gain everyone's understanding.
However, what Xiao Min did not expect was that she did not say that it was okay, and everyone was more excited when she said it, and even some parents who had not made a sound before began to denounce Kang Kang.
Because in their eyes, autistic children represent "mental illness", they represent uncontrollable violent factors, and they are worried that this autistic Kang Kang will do something to his own children and put his children in danger.
But in fact, in the later communication between the teacher and Xiaomin, it was learned that the reason why Kang Kang beat people was because the other party hit Kang Kang first, but those parents did not care who was right and who was wrong, they only felt that "sick" was wrong.
In the end, Kang Kang was persuaded to withdraw from school, and Kang Kang was known to many people that he was autistic, and no kindergarten was willing to take him in, but Kang Kang did not understand why he did not let himself go to school, which led to a rapid deterioration of his condition that had improved.
On the day when Kang Kang was 7 years old, Xiao Min could no longer bear the pressure in her heart, and she chose to leave with Kang Kang burning charcoal, so there was an opening scene.
Autism is incurable and can only be improved as much as possible
Some people say that Xiaomin is too radical, some people say that Xiaomin is not responsible, and some people say that Xiaomin is not responsible. But in fact, autistic families are really sad, because autism is incurable.
We can find that when doctors explain the effects of autism treatment to parents, they may use language such as "returning to normal", but they never say cure autism.
That's because once the child suffers from autism, it will be incurable, all the treatment methods, in fact, are just exercising the child's personal ability, helping the child to strengthen communication skills, let the child learn more skills, realize self-care, free communication, so as to achieve independent life.
However, children with autism can never be exactly like healthy people, and they are likely to develop a "turnaround" after being stimulated by certain stimuli.
It is almost certain that children with autism, even if they recover well, will not be able to leave the education, treatment and training of professional institutions.
And Xiao Min, after learning of this fact, finally sad to despair, only for a moment could not think of embarking on the road of no return.
Write at the end
Autism is not the fault of children, so as ordinary people, if we can't help them, please don't hurt them, discriminate against them, have more understanding, more care, let the world be full of love, let such tragedies not reappear, and those children from the stars will eventually go to beauty.
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